For Qian Rujun, it is already a secret why these people got married so late.

From the emperor's mouth, she knew that the Han Dynasty was not as she imagined, and everyone got married very early.

It's just that the laws of the Han Dynasty are there, and when you reach the prescribed age, you have to get married.

They don't deliberately violate it without a proper reason.

At the time of marriage, they will choose the object of marriage appropriately, after all, the official is the ups and downs, no one can be safe for a hundred years, if they can maintain their high status for a long time, only those who have been named kings and marquises can do it.

For them, losing some money, marrying later, and marrying later, in fact, will not affect their family, or even their daughters or sons, and late marriage will not affect his final way out.

If the marriage partner is wrongly chosen, it will cause more disasters than other things, you must know that in the Han Dynasty, if someone commits it, it must be done by the three, four, and five clans, which means that the wife clan will be implicated, and even the entire clan will be cut off, sometimes more than 10,000 people will be cut down, which is very terrible.

For ordinary men, in fact, they also have marriage rules, if they don't get married too late, the official will also assign them a matching period, but under normal circumstances, if the man does not have the ability to support his wife, the official may refuse to assign the allotment period to him, because such a person can't even afford to raise a wife, and if he gives birth to a child, it is estimated that he will not be able to raise it, so it is not helpful to the country.

So such a man will be let go, and for them, it will be a disaster, because if you marry a good woman, sometimes just by the dowry of a good woman, and the wife's own ability, she will be able to make a good living, and she will not need to work at all.

Qian Rujun is indeed interested in the banquet that the emperor said, because when she came to Dahan, what she longed for most was to get married and be able to find a man she could be satisfied with for a lifetime.

She actually doesn't like to be lonely all her life.

Because this is an official banquet held by the emperor, the scale is estimated to be not small, and Qian Rujun has not really seen all the Han people, so she has the opportunity to meet a lot of Han talents, who are literate and literate, and are above the average person.

And the person who comes, the emperor will definitely choose it well, and she doesn't need to find out whether the other party is married or not.

Some men will pretend that they are single and talk to you about marriage, but in the end you find out that you are a junior.

Since this marriage is prepared for her blind date, the people selected by Emperor Liu Heng will be mainly single men.

And these single men must not have been engaged by his family, and the emperor knows all this news, even if he doesn't know, his eunuchs will help him investigate clearly.

The emperor knew that Qian Rujun didn't like it, and there was no one who was talented and learned.

But Qian Rujun's so-called talent and learning seem to adopt different standards from the Han Dynasty, anyway, at least reading is a rule, and there is no problem.

It is estimated that all the eligible people will be sent over and let Qian Rujun choose, maybe the emperor himself is not optimistic, and those who he doesn't like will be favored by Qian Rujun.

Qian Rujun wanted to leave after thanking the emperor, and she didn't have to stay and wait for the emperor to ask the beggar questions, she guessed a little that Huangmen was probably lying to her and wanted to cause him to panic.

At this time, the emperor suddenly said: "Do you know that Bo Qing's wife has passed away?"

Qian Rujun was stunned for a moment, she heard this news for the first time.

She suddenly noticed that after she came to Chang'an, no one told her about the Bo family.

In the past few years, because she had no contact with Bo Qing, she didn't know how to deal with the Bo family, and it slowly faded.

After the settlement was clear, the two parties did not interact again.

Now Qian Rujun's status is precious, if Qian Rujun doesn't take the initiative to contact the Bo family. The Bo family will not run over with their faces licked.

After all, the status of the Bo family is also very respected.

Because they are relatives of the Empress Dowager Bo. In terms of political strength, due to the identity of their relatives, they did not participate in order to avoid the suspicion of Empress Lu. But because of this, their status has become more and more noble.

Hearing this news made Qian Rujun's heart tremble. He only knew about his wife, but she didn't know that Bo Qing married a few concubines, but she knew that the monogamy she wanted probably didn't exist.

Qian Rujun knew that Bo Qing still had quirks. He included women in the room, very casually, as long as they were beautiful, even if they were slaves, he could gladly accept them.

But for him, these women are just a tool, and they don't, and they are seen as a person.

For Bo Qing, only someone who is as noble as him, or who he can look up to, is a human being.

Therefore, although he will do this kind of thing with women, he is very cautious about marrying a wife, and will not marry a wife or a concubine casually.

Bo Qing's proposal to her was actually very serious.

There is no way to gain Bo Qing's trust, so it is a sadness to become Bo Qing's wife.

I don't know if this wife helped him give birth to a child, a woman with offspring, her status is very different from others.

If a concubine gives birth to a child, his child may be handed over to his wife to raise, and she herself is still the same, and she will not become a woman, which is the so-called property.

You can give it to someone else, or you can marry it.

After ten years, most concubines will find another honest man to marry.

Wives and concubines, wives and concubines are actually different, and wives cannot be given up casually.

But concubines can be sold at will, so most of the concubines will not follow their original husbands until they are old, and when she is still colorful, they will leave her husband's side to find someone and marry a wife.

"How did she die? Was she sick? Or did something happen? She died now, she was too young after all. ”

Qian Rujun was often with the upper class, as well as with the people of Jinmaicheng, which almost made her forget that the average life expectancy in Dahan was less than twenty-six years old, and many people actually died very early.

Qian Rujun has observed that if a person's life is better, in fact, it is still abnormal for a man to die early.

And as long as a woman survives a period of age, death is not so simple.

The living conditions are better, of course, including the medical conditions. Although the Han Dynasty did not live particularly long, such as eighty or ninety years old, it was due to the good air, good environment, good food, and no such thing as smoking, plus the lack of frying in the diet.

In fact, it was not too difficult for people in the Han Dynasty to live to be sixty or seventy years old, but many of the people who became the rulers were due to light, not illness, but because of political struggles, and the entire family was wiped out. In their lives, it is either life or death, and many choices bring a lot of pain, and those who think too much will soon die.

Due to the lack of awareness of the times, there are also some deficiencies in medical conditions, as well as dirty mess, and differences in living habits, so that women in this era are easy to pass away in childbirth, even if there is no difficulty in giving birth, their bodies are relatively weak.

Every time they give birth to a child, it's like seeing a ghost gate.

If you want to pass the test safely, it is only possible when they are physically mature.

Even in noble families, there are often far fewer women than men.

Most of the deaths of men are on the battlefield, but most of the nobles have no chance to go to the battlefield after they get the position of upstart, and even if they are on the battlefield, they are not the first to take the lead, but to hide behind and give orders.

Once they become upstarts, they have little chance of going to war again, because the Han also need to prevent their military dictatorship.

Most of their descendants, even if they want to join the army, are placed in Ouchi.

Unless someone assassinates, being that person in the palace is generally equivalent to going to work, or the most leisurely kind of class.

Clocking in and out of work to pee. When they went back to drink and have fun, for them, the salary of their work was far less than the glory and money that his group rule family brought him.

In the case of not having to go to the battlefield, even if he has practiced martial arts, he will only have the opportunity to use them on the occasion of performance, so their martial arts are becoming more and more of a performance nature, because only a good performance can be rewarded by the emperor, which is equivalent to saying that their work is no longer a general, but an actor.

So these people are placed in the palace, and they are usually decorations, so there is no life crisis.

Bo Qing is a good person, because he has never been willing to be an ornament.

He wants to read wonderfully, and he wants to develop in business. He went to the battlefield in the northern frontier, and the wind came and went.

It stands to reason that Bo Qing has a better chance of dying than his wife.

Unless his wife runs away to give birth to a baby.

Bo Qing didn't know that being too young to give birth to a child would be prone to danger, and Qian Rujun had spoken these truths in his ears countless times, so although he gave him a warning before he got married, the army warned him not to let his wife get pregnant and have children too early.

Thirteen or fourteen-year-old girls, if they give birth to children, not only will their lives be in danger, but children are also prone to unhealth, and it is difficult for unhealthy children to become healthy children when they grow up.

Because he was at greater risk of dying young, and he grew up with illness.

In the future generations, the illness may be able to survive, but in the Han Dynasty, if a person gets the disease, it is too difficult to survive.

Girls who give birth at the age of thirteen or fourteen are too likely to die and die. If she had had had children in her twenties, they would have been born with a bang.

I know why the Han people didn't observe this thing. Don't they care about girls at all, and treat girls as consumables?

It may be difficult for them to understand how important it is for children not to die young, because they find that children are too easy to die, and there are too many factors that can prevent children from growing up safely.

So they think that if they want to solve this problem, the only way to do this is to let women have more children?

What's more, the population of the Han Dynasty is too small for the Han Dynasty, and they can't wait to double the population as soon as possible.

They gave birth to ten children, and there were only one or two chances to grow up, so they all thought that if they had more children, they would have children who could grow up safely in the future, but they didn't think that having children would be eugenic.

In addition, in this era, the body of a child has almost no resistance.

When there are too many children, parents simply can't take care of them, instead of taking care of ten children, it is better to take good care of one or two children, so that the child can receive a better education and cure well.

Unlike, if there are many children, if a child is sick, it will directly see if he can resist it, and if he can't resist it, he will die.

Many diseases will occur suddenly, even in the Han Dynasty, there were fewer germs and relatively simple, but the viruses of many diseases in the Han Dynasty were very powerful, because there were many natural toxins in this period.

For example, the miasma must be the plague.

Even foot-and-mouth disease is not lacking.

During this period, a simple typhoid fever can kill a person, not to mention a child with a weak physique, who does not know how much typhoid fever he will encounter in this life.

For the wealthy and their relatives, these typhoid fevers are also fatal, although they may be able to survive again and again, but if they do not survive once, their bodies will weaken.

and typhoid fever and colds on the poor common people.

But small children often don't have the ability to carry it. Children are the most susceptible to scars of all people.

If a child can grow up smoothly and reach the age of fifteen or sixteen, he can basically ensure that his body will not fall ill due to minor illnesses for the rest of his life.

He needed to pay the taxes of the Han Dynasty, and the labor of the Han Dynasty required them to bring their own food to do free work.

The labor of the Han is actually not simple at all.

Labor requires traveling to various places, and worst of all, even going to war.

Moreover, during the Han Dynasty, many projects had no safety measures at all, and it was easy to take your life away when the construction failed.

At that time, they often thought of what to do.

The person who leads is basically a layman or a servant.

Finally, a layman becomes an expert, and often he enters the imperial court, and he has nothing to do with ordinary people.

As a result, the common people had no choice but to follow the people who could only do it.

Many people, in the year after year of hard labor, will always have the turn of the frieze.

When you can pour the frieze, it is already a powerful thing to survive.

"The cause of her death is actually very simple, she had a difficult birth. Both mother and child died. ”

"That's so sad. Does he have a concubine?"

"That's not something I should know. But I still really know. He has one or two concubines, and he has also played with the crown prince Liu Qi. You will know what the other party's attitude is towards the concubine. There were many handmaidens who served him.

As long as the women around him are beautiful enough, they can share the bed with him.

Although these women are beautiful and beautiful, there is no way to compare with my daughter, and the older my daughter grows, the more beautiful she becomes. I kind of regret why I took you as a righteous daughter in the first place. ”