Chapter 130: A Lifetime Affair
After dinner in the evening, the family sat in the courtyard to rest.
Li Wenying suddenly walked in front of Xu Ning.
"Sister, what's wrong?" Xu Ning looked up at her incomprehensibly, seeing that she seemed to have something to say to her.
Li Wenying wanted to speak and stopped, she thought about it for an afternoon, and her heart lingered and hesitated. Mixed emotions are intertwined in my heart. She wants to live a good life in the future, but she doesn't want to wronged herself. The indecision between whether to choose between the two had messed up her mood for an afternoon.
"Sister wants to ask Zheng Jiaping about it, I can only say that from the face of his life, his life is okay, as for his marriage in the future, it depends on the two of them to operate, I don't understand this aspect. "She didn't get married, she really didn't have any experience in this area, and she wouldn't say it.
Li Wenying grabbed the corner of his clothes and asked a little nervously, "Can I marry him?"
"Can you get married, you can't ask others this question, you have to follow your own heart, you think you can live a normal life with him, run a small restaurant with him, and there will be no ups and downs in your life. Or according to your previous criteria for choosing a mate, and wait, you have to choose a man with a good family background. I don't have a problem with my mother, after all, this is your life's business, think about it carefully before making a decision. ”
According to Xu Ning, she felt that her sister must have refused again this time, but she didn't expect that she would come to ask her after considering it, it seems that she was really hurt by Gu Yibei's bastard.
In fact, according to my cousin's age, she is only nineteen years old, but the girls seem to have married early before they go to school, and fortunately she is still in school. So she wouldn't really advise her sister to marry now.
However, Li Wenying's next words surprised her greatly.
"If he doesn't mind my dad like that, then I'll marry him, after all, my reputation is not good......"
"Sister, you didn't ...... with that Gu Yibei" Xu Ning was a little unable to ask.
"You mean I've slept with him, how can I be so stupid, I'm not married, how can I cheap him. At that time, the man wanted it, but she kept refusing, girls pay attention to chastity, they are not married, and now it is still such a conservative era, how can she be so prodigal.
Their conversation, Li Xiumei, who heard it next to her, was also surprised.
Xu Ning held her chin and looked at Li Wenying carefully, she didn't expect her to make such a decision.
"There is some surprise that you are willing to marry him. ”
"My family is like this, he is so good that he still has a restaurant, and it won't be very difficult to marry in the past, and besides, if you live close to you in the future, you can take care of each other. ”
Li Xiumei interjected on the side: "Wenying, it's good if you can figure it out!" finally stopped worrying about this child's lifelong affairs.
"Auntie, I want to get engaged first, and when my dad comes back, it will be good to marry in the spring next year, I happen to be twenty years old, neither too old nor too young, and I want to know the situation at his family, how are my parents, and whether I have brothers and sisters. ”
Xu Ning also felt right when she heard it, they didn't know anything about the Zheng family, so they said: "After all, it's a lifetime thing, sister, I suggest you go to Aunt Xi'er to inquire, she is a very good person, and she won't lie to you, although Zheng Jiaping is the junior brother of her Liu Changfa." ”
Li Wenying also understood after hearing this, and nodded.
"How did you figure it out this time?" Xu Ning tilted his head to look at her, and didn't seem to be very upset, so he asked a few more questions.
"Well, I don't want to be cheated again...... Besides, it's not easy to find me like this, so even if you forget it, it's just a lifetime to make do. ”
"You can see it so much!"
Marriage is a big event, so I figured it out at once, it's incredible.
"Ordinary people are not like this, but Xiao Aning, you seem to be hiding something from us, why don't you say it and don't scare us when you arrive. ”
Xu Ning was slightly annoyed, she stayed in the hospital for a while, and all these people knew that Gu Yichen liked her.
pouted and said: "I'm still young, I don't want this kind of thing, I haven't grown up yet, I've missed class for a few days, I have to make up for it quickly, go into the house to read, and I won't talk to you." ”
Fortunately, just a few days after the start of school, the things taught were all taught by Xu Ning during the summer vacation, so she wasn't very worried about her homework, it wasn't that she didn't want to talk about her, so she just ran away and went back to the house.
Li Wenying saw Xu Ning go back to the house uncomfortably, and the corners of her mouth crooked, and walked to Li Xiumei's side.
"Auntie, A-Ning is older!"
Li Xiumei stared at her slightly, and then sighed: "It's big, it's too big!"
"The Gu family seems to be good to A-Ning. ”
"The Gu family is too complicated, let's talk about it in two years, anyway, she is going to school now and doesn't think about lifelong events for the time being. ”
Li Wenying complained a little: "Aunt, when you were going to marry A Ning to Xu Haisheng, why didn't you think A Ning was small?"
Li Xiumei's face was stunned after hearing this, and she said embarrassedly: "It's Asheng's family who proposes marriage, I think they grew up together since they were children, and they are familiar with each other, and they have to agree to the marriage without even thinking about it, but A-Ning refuses." Besides, Ah Sheng's family is simple, not as complicated as Gu's family. ”
"But Ah Sheng's family is very poor, his brother is divorced, and his father broke his leg again, if you really marry Ah Ning and serve the family, are you willing?"
"Of course I don't want to, there weren't so many things happening in his family at that time, and Xu Dayou said that they would split up as soon as they got married, and Ah Sheng and A Ning didn't live with them, I thought it was very good, after all, there are very few people in the countryside who split up as soon as they got married, which shows that they still value Ah Ning very much, so I was tempted. After all, A-Ning is the adopted daughter of the Xu family, not the real Xu family. It's okay to think about it now, I wasn't engaged at the time, otherwise I'm worried now. ”
Like Ah Sheng's family, Li Xiumei will never let Ah Ning marry him no matter what.
"Aunt, in fact, I think it's good for A-Ning to marry Gu Shao, you see that Gu Shao is so capable, and he will definitely help the stone in the future, besides, how can Gu Shao let A-Ning be wronged in the Gu family, he is a soldier, if A-Ning marries him, he will be a military wife, and the military sister-in-law can follow the army, so she doesn't have to stay in the Gu family." ”
"But in that case, it's not like I won't see Aning a few times a year long!" Li Xiumei was a straightforward person, and she objected without even thinking about it.
"Aunt, you are confused! Is it important that you want to see A-Ning, or is it important for her to be happy for the rest of her life. Li Wenying felt that her aunt was really not a powerful and smart woman.
If someone's daughter climbs up to such a man, and the mother is unhappy to die, her aunt is good, because she can't see her daughter often and doesn't want to get married.
"I can't say that, maybe Gu Shao just thinks that A-Ning is a little different from other girls, and he may be a little interested at first, but after a long time, he may not like her, but it makes us worry about it in vain. Li Xiumei shook her head, A-Ning's matter is complicated, she is still in school now, wait and see.
"Aunt, I see people very accurately, that person is good to A-Ning. ”
"Hmph, you see that people are very accurate, so how could you be deceived before!" Li Xiumei scolded angrily.