Of course, it's impossible to go to escape the heat or something.

Not to mention that the Xu family is now sick at home, and he can't be separated from the waiting and care of the younger generations, just the big thing that the family is busy with for Qin Jian's wedding, it is inseparable from people at all. Yao's refusal to hand over the affairs at hand to the Min family, she had to do it herself and give her baby son a perfect wedding, so she just talked casually about the summer or something.

Min knew this, and she just sat there smiling and not speaking. The Yao family wanted to belittle the second room of the Xu family, and she didn't take it too seriously. The conflict between Yao's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been going on for a long time, and it is normal for her to be angry with the Xu family, and she has long been surprised. Daughter Qin Jinrong's family affairs were not personally picked by her mother, since it was the Xu family's master, Qin Jinrong himself agreed, completely ignoring the persuasion of his parents, whether the second room of the Xu family is good or bad, and whether the daughter will live well after marrying in the future, it should be borne by the daughter herself.

As a mother, she can only guarantee that she can support her daughter when she is wronged, and if her daughter really can't survive in her husband's house, then take her daughter back to her parents' house to live, and always ensure that Qin Jinrong has a place to live. Other than that, she really couldn't help with anything else, and there was nothing she could do to help. Anyway, Qin Shutao will think about it, and the Min family only needs to be done by her husband. Her motherly heart had been worn to the ground. She thinks that there is nothing she can't do with her daughter, and she is quite at ease.

The Yao family actually wanted to gloat in front of the concubine and the elders and juniors, but he couldn't express this meaning clearly, so he had to reprimand the Xu family in the name of caring for his mother-in-law and fighting for his mother-in-law. Everyone here actually knew what she thought, and when they heard what they wanted to inquire, they lost interest in continuing to talk to her. Yao didn't know if she noticed it, anyway, she still had a smile on her face, and naturally chatted about family life. Niu casually answered her two words, and then got up to leave. Cai Shengnan and Qin Hanzhen naturally had to follow.

When he got home, Qin Hanzhen held back for a long time, and finally could express his feelings: "Second uncle, this schadenfreude is too obvious. She said it directly outside Songfeng Hall, and her voice was not much lowered. I see that the eldest uncle and grandmother can definitely hear it in the house, and the mood is definitely not good, and the condition will worsen if it is not good!

Cai Shengnan smiled and poured her a cup of tea: "But it's hard for our real sister, just hold it back, right?" Actually, it's nothing, it's all your own generation, you just have to talk and laugh as usual, just like at home." Who can stop you?"

Qin Hanzhen waved his hand: "I'm afraid that if I open my mouth, I can't help but push the second aunt back, or say something that makes the eldest uncle and grandmother uncomfortable." So forget it, the elders are here, and I have a granddaughter, so there is no need to speak. ”

Niu sighed: "Sister-in-law just can't think about it." The Xu family also went too far. Forget about the second room of the Xu family, if they still want to marry Dongfu, they will definitely continue to hold on to them. The fifth girl is so young, it will take at least three years before she can marry into the Xu family. In the past three years, the marriage contract will change at any time, and the second room of the Xu family naturally has to be cautious. The people in their family were more sophisticated than the sleek and sophisticated family room. I just didn't expect that Xu Jiafang would turn his face and deny people. It stands to reason that the eldest sister-in-law really has nothing to live up to them. There is also a Xu Zheng in their family who is counting on Dongfu to carry him, and he is so snub to his aunt and grandmother, isn't it okay? Could it be that Grandma Xu is dizzy? She is actually a fool. When the Xu family had not yet been separated, Master Xu called this daughter-in-law in charge of the house, and it was no longer right to quarrel with the elders in the second room and the concubine all day long. Now she is still allowed to take a stand in front of her in-laws? Is it really a temperless sister-in-law?!"

Qin Hanzhen said disapprerovingly: "Even if the eldest uncle and grandmother have a temper, what if for Xu Zheng's family affairs, how many times have Mrs. Xu and the eldest uncle and grandmother argued? But the uncle and grandmother are still calculating everything for the Xu family, and even the young fifth sister has made up her mind. The eldest uncle and grandmother have done their best for her mother's family, I see, even if everyone in the Xu family room wants to drive her out with a big stick, she will cry and ask the Xu family room to arrange the junior marriage according to her wishes. When Xu Xiu, Xu Lan, and Xu Rong's marriages are arranged, it is estimated that it will be Xu Zheng's children's turn, right? As soon as the eldest uncle and grandmother are alive, they will worry about the Xu family for a day, don't expect her to leave the Xu family alone. "The Xu family still has some understanding in other things, but in the face of the Xu family, she is an M. Over the years, Qin Hanzhen has long understood it.

Cai Shengnan sighed: "Actually, why bother? Unless there are only weak girls and children in the mother's family, otherwise, what family with a thriving population can hold up the lintel if they want to marry a daughter all the way and never abandon them for decades? I heard that the Xu family was also a famous scholar in the past, and they had high-ranking officials, and they had children who had studied and become scholars for generations, so why did this behavior not look like a scholar's family at all, but like a nouveau riche with no foundation? Except for the nouveau riche, who would expect their family to prosper by virtue of nepotism by virtue of their in-laws? No matter how good the in-laws are, they can't compete with themselves. Since the Xu family has young talents, they should let this young talent support the family. Expecting good in-laws to carry you in everything is not a rule that a serious person should have. ”

Qin Hanzhen said with a smile: "I heard that during the battle for the heir, the old lady of the Xu family stood on the wrong line, and almost the whole family suffered, so she relied on climbing back to the in-laws abandoned in the early years and letting her daughter marry her uncle and grandfather as a stepfamily, so that the family was saved." Since they have relied on good in-laws to get rich in the past few decades, they naturally regard marriage as a cross-section between keeping rich and climbing up. Even if it is a scholarly family, once the family drills the tip of the horns, it will be equally difficult for future generations to drill out of the horns. Actually, how could our Qin family not be on the wrong side? It's just that after being unlucky, we luckily made a comeback. But even if our Qin family has royal saints, we haven't forgotten to fight for our own family, Brother Lobby works hard to study hard, and the second uncle, third uncle and my father are also conscientiously doing their duties, and no one expects a good in-law to make our family rich and glorious for dozens or hundreds of years. I don't know what the Xu family thinks, even if the eldest uncle and grandmother are paranoid, they really accepted the benefits of the Qin family calmly, and they didn't reflect on themselves. What kind of dignity and backbone of a famous scholarly family is probably left behind by them a long time ago, right?"

Cai Shengnan shook his head and said: "It can be seen that even if the world is rich and noble, it must not forget its original intention, and it must always remember who you are, and you must not forget the fundamentals." I remember that the saint has clouds, and I have three provinces in my day. There is a lot of truth in that. If you are wealthy, you should always reflect on yourself and not be blinded, otherwise, it will be easy to do foolish things. ”

Qin Hanzhen smiled, got up and said solemnly: "Mother is right." ”

Similar conversations also took place at the homes of other relatives and friends of the Qin family who heard about what happened to the Xu family. Xu himself may feel that his reputation is still very virtuous, and his image is still very good, in fact, because the Xu family's family once wavered in the matter of marrying the Qin family, and Xu's grandmother let go of rumors among relatives and friends, saying that Qin Jinhua had already been married to Xu Zheng, but later Xu Zheng decided on the girl of his grandmother's mother's family, which was regarded as a slap in the face, so the outside world has never been less talking about the Xu family's actions. And there are many more people who know that the Xu family is partial to her mother's family than she thought.

Xu is now old and pampered, and after her husband Qin Song was rejected by the royal family, in order to avoid some embarrassing scenes, she went out to socialize a lot less, so she had less contact with the outside world. Basically, the people who still maintain daily contact with her are relatives and friends and old friends for many years, and they usually give her face, and they will not say anything unpleasant to her face. But in private, it's not so polite. If the Xu family is angry, knows gratitude, and knows how to repay the Qin family, Xu's approach can be regarded as a good story, after all, many people's daughters have times when they are biased towards their mother's family. However, once the Xu family becomes a white-eyed wolf, the Xu family will be set off as a joke.

I don't know how many people use Xu's as a negative teaching material to teach their daughters or daughters-in-law. Even if you teach your daughter-in-law, what you teach your daughter is not to let your daughter stop taking care of her mother's family after she gets married, but to let her daughter take care of her mother's family and pay attention to eating goodbye is too ugly, forcing her own children and grandchildren to feel disgusted, this is not helping her mother's family, but harming her mother's family. Her mother's family is obviously a promising student, but Xu's still treats her brothers, nephews, nephews and grandchildren as three-year-old children, staring at and supporting them everywhere, and she can't let her own children do their best for her younger generations for the rest of their lives. This is not the reason for mutual support between in-laws, this is to use the blood of the mother-in-law's family to offer to the mother's family. Whoever marries such a daughter-in-law and comes back, it's really bad luck!

For a while, the wives and grandmothers who had sons and were preparing to marry daughters-in-law were much more vigilant. The daughter of the Xu family would never dare to marry, and other people who are similar to the Xu family should also be more careful!

Just when relatives and friends were discussing, Qin Youzhen, who had only returned to Changlu for a long time, returned to the capital again. This time, she still brought her eldest son Lu Chuming over. Lu Chuming's so-called illness seems to have been cured, and the whole person is much more energetic, and he has returned to the appearance of the young man last year.

The Lu and Qin families lived next to each other. Qin Youzhen had just arrived home when she heard the news of Xu's illness. However, she didn't go to ask for peace immediately, but asked her two sons to go to the Chengenhou Mansion to say hello first, and by the way, she was annoyed by herself. She was already a little bitter in the summer, and it was hard to travel, and she encountered continuous heavy rain on the way, so she caught a cold, and she was still taking medicine at this time. Since Xu is sick, it is better for her not to go over, in case she is sick, won't it affect her uncle?

So, the sick Xu saw Lu Chuming and Lu Chuliang, brothers who came to ask for peace, through the screen, and his mood eased slightly. She smiled and asked Lu Chuming: "This is to eat your third cousin's wedding wine, right? Brother Jian'er's marriage is also within the year, why bother to travel between the two places? It is better to simply stay in the capital for a little longer." You can also ask the doctor to take care of your body by the way. If there is anything you don't understand about homework, you can also ask the third uncle. Our family has just married Shoushanbo, if you take the article to Shoushanbo's mansion to ask for advice, he will definitely not refuse you thousands of miles away. ”

She desperately said good things to lure Lu Chuming to stay. She hasn't forgotten that Xu Xiu's family affairs have not yet been settled. Although her nephew and daughter-in-law disappointed her, her granddaughter is still sensible, and she can't leave her children behind!