"What is emotion? Buddhists say that there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, sickness and death, love and separation, resentment, resentment, and desire, and the five yin are blazing. From the eight sufferings arise greed, hatred, hatred, hatred, love, and evil desires.

Confucianism says that there are eight virtues in life: filial piety, loyalty, faithfulness, courtesy, righteousness, honesty, and shame. Frame emotions with morality.

Taoism says: Heaven and earth are unkind and all things are dogs, and saints are unkind and people are dogs. Therefore, the way of heaven is selfless, and the road is not disputed.

These statements all revolve around emotions, which can be seen that emotions can be derived from philosophy, psychology, morality, and so on. ”

"So how do you analyze emotions in modern times? I divide it into four types: love, family, friendship, and girlfriends. ”

"There's a reason for this order, love is the most complicated, so I put it first. There is a good saying: love is a purity, friendship is a breadth, and family affection is a depth. But these feelings are not distinct, they blend with each other and transform each other. First of all, let's talk about girlfriends, among the classmates here, do girls have male girlfriends? Do boys have confidantes?"

"Yes!"

The students responded.

"Girlfriend love is a state of friendship and love. They can be promoted to the top at any time, but they may not get "name" for the rest of their lives. It's sandwiched between love and friendship. ”

"Spare tire?" said one girl.

"It's not a spare tire, it will only insult the girlfriend's feelings. Professor Liu shook his head: "The spare tire is more like a person leaving a way back for himself, and girlfriend love is a real and indispensable emotion for everyone." I believe that everyone has this experience, when you encounter troubles in life, you don't tell your family, nor do you tell your best friends, but you tell a special person of the opposite sex in your life. Usually, this person who can confide in you is not a lover more than a lover, not a loved one more than a loved one. ”

Qin Baobao said enviously: "I also want a male girlfriend." ”

Wang Zijin whispered: "You go and find it, don't just be a strong king." ”

Qin Baobao sighed: "Sister also wants to, but all the men who come into contact with me covet my sister's beauty." ”

Wang Zijin turned his head to look at Qin Ze.

Qin Ze said excitedly: "Fart, you have to ask me if I agree." ”

"Let's talk about friendship again, friendship is the most indispensable emotion, a person can have no love, even no family affection, but not friendship, that will make you feel very lonely. According to medical statistics, 90% of autistic patients are caused by a lack of friendship. So friendship is a kind of breadth. At the same time, friendship can also be transformed into love. The saying of boyfriend and girlfriend comes from this. ”

Some students raised their hands: "But not all friendship will be transformed into love, only between the opposite sex." ”

Professor Liu smiled: "Still too young, how do you think the word friend came from?"

Laugh.

Qin Ze also smiled, this Professor Liu's lecture is indeed very humorous and profound. There is a lot of dry content. It's not like the network he watchs, it's full of big waves of parallel goods.

"As for family affection, it is probably the warmest kind of feeling. Love will deteriorate, friendship will betray, and family affection is the most difficult feeling for a person to give up in a lifetime. The love of your parents who gave birth to you and raised you, the love of siblings and sisters. It has a strong blood connection and is a lifelong bond. Family affection is also complicated at times, and to a certain extent, it is the transformation of love. Love is like fireworks, gorgeous and beautiful, but it may not last long. We often say that the seven-year itch between husband and wife. In fact, it is a manifestation of love in a long time. At this time, because of the bond of children, most couples will transform love into family affection. Between old husbands and wives, they get along and live more like relatives. Little couples will be in love like glue. The ancients have long seen through this essence, and in their concept, a husband and wife who respect each other are the most perfect and reasonable model. ”

"But," Professor Liu changed his words and threw a bombshell: "Family affection can sometimes turn into love." We call it forbidden love. ”

There was a low uproar among the students.

The topic was embarrassing, and some girls even blushed.

I'll go!

Qin Zexin said, May I ask the eldest brother, do you want God to unfold next? Can we change the topic? This kind of eighteen forbidden things, it must be harmoniously said out. I'm still young, can you withdraw it.

Qin Baobao frowned.

"In the narrow sense, disorder (harmony) refers to the improper relationship between a man and a woman who are related by blood. In a broad sense, disorder (harmony) is the improper relationship between men and women who are inferior in rank, including in the narrow sense. It is the traditional sense of Wulun because of sexual relations and chaos, what is Wulun: Heaven and Earth Jun Teacher. Professor Liu spoke eloquently, without the slightest embarrassment, and his face was full of expressions of "this is a serious academic exchange". is worthy of being a returnee who stays abroad, and is open-minded enough.

Qin Zexin said, this is amazing, is there a hero every day?

"Forbidden love has a long history, and the definition of it will change in each era, for example, the marriage of cousins as everyone knows, which was normal and legal in ancient times, but not in modern times. The teacher-student love and the reluctance of the relationship between superiors and subordinates, which are very common in modern times, could not be recognized and tolerated in ancient times. The similarity is that it is not recognized in any era for people who are related by blood to have an improper relationship between men and women. ”

"Let's focus on the behavior of family love transformation today. Professor Liu said: "There is no need to feel embarrassed and embarrassed, this is an academic exchange. ”

A boy suddenly raised his hand: "I think the act of family affection changing love is very absurd and funny, but anyone with ethics and morality will not do this." ”

Professor Liu said with a smile: "This is very in line with the public view, but this kind of thing does exist now, and it cannot be said that it is very common, but it will not be less." Especially abroad, there are a lot. In ancient times, there were many similar phenomena. Take the Tang Dynasty, which was known for its openness. Tang Taizong once wanted to make his younger sister-in-law Li Yuanji's princess the queen. and the later empress Wu Zetian and Yang Guifei, all of whom once served the father and son of the Heavenly Family. But that's not related to what I'm going to say, so I'll not mention it for now. ”

"How does affection translate into love? Psychologically, there are two reasons: environmental and emotional needs. Note that it is not a physiological need. In terms of objective factors, such phenomena often exist in abnormal or unhappy family relationships. Single-parent families in particular can trigger a father-mother complex. It is a manifestation of a child's insecurity. Some psychology experts believe that children must get rid of the father-love complex in order for their personality to grow up healthily. Some mental and sexual abnormalities in adults are that they cannot get rid of the father-lover complex. ”

"These are mental illnesses and mental illnesses that are deformed and unhealthy. Father-lover and mother-love complexes are very common, but there are very few people who actually have improper relationships. This probability will be greatly increased between siblings and siblings. Professor Liu said, "Are there any two-dimensional enthusiasts?"

Immediately, there was an uproar and a hand was raised, most of them were boys.

In the two-dimensional works of the island country, there is a phenomenon called "sister control", which occupies almost half of the country. Those who have watched similar anime can find that the sisters in the works are extremely dependent on their brothers, and each brother controls the younger sister, and they are unsociable and withdrawn. In their world, there are very few people of the opposite sex other than their brothers. The elder brother is the whole of their world, thus forming a strong dependency. If other girls approached their brother, they would be very angry. The sisters also have one more attribute in common: tsundere. I like my brother, but I don't dare to say it. obviously cares a lot, but he wants to pretend that "my brother is just a salted fish in my eyes". The reason for this is that this is a feeling that is not recognized and accepted. ”

"I named it dependent (harmonious) love. This principle also applies to siblings, if you find that there are people around you who rely on your brother or sister a lot, then it is very likely that the brother controls the sister. ”

"A writer once said that it comes from life and is higher than life. The same is true for comics, and the works of the island nation are exaggerated. In reality, sister control and sister control are obscure. It is likely that they are not aware that they have such a deformed relationship, and even feel that intimate behavior with their older siblings is normal. ”

"Are there any sisters in the room? Raise your hand and take a look. Professor Liu joked.

There was silence.

Qin Baobao suddenly said: "Nonsense. ”

She looked angry.