Chapter 547: Companionship
After Su Qingzhi gave birth to Lin Jinglang, she felt the pressure of the economy, and she never loosened her hands on the family, but planned the expenses of the family, and she could not let many people feel the difficulty of Yuyuan.
Lin Wangshu said early that he can support his family, and he definitely doesn't need Su Qingzhi to use the dowry to subsidize the family.
Of course, Su Qingzhi doesn't want to do that kind of stupid thing, obviously men say things clearly, and women have to pretend to be considerate to make a lot of trouble.
Other people's women can hold a good family, and Su Qingzhi thinks she is just as capable.
There are not many things in the garden, and there are human contacts, and now the people in the five rooms are all paid by the five rooms, and the Ming family is very good at managing the house, and she will never take those favors that do not need to go.
Ming's and Su Qingzhi analyzed the Lin family's personal relations, and she really understood that if Wufang didn't care about that family's affairs, no matter how big or small it was, as long as she heard about it, she would have to join in the fun.
I'm afraid that from the beginning of the year to the end of the year, there are people coming and going every day.
And Ming's policy is to get close to people who have a relationship, and deal with people who only have a face-saving relationship, but turn a blind eye to all kinds of things that are not close to each other on weekdays.
The Zhang family and the Liu family listened to the Ming family talk about this to Su Qingzhi, and the two of them laughed and concluded: "Simple two words, the relationship between the families in the Changfang is to move around, and the side branch depends on how the friendship is.
Xiao Jiu, after a long time at home, you have people close to you, you can leave the favor in private. ”
Su Qingzhi looked at the three of them and laughed, and said, "In this family, the closest people to me are the three sisters-in-law, and the people next to me really don't have special friendships." ”
The women of the Lin family are thinking deeply, Lin Wangshu is just starting out now, and with the brotherhood of the men, they treat Su Qingzhi with some sincerity, but there is no chance for them to go to the point of life and death.
Su Qinghui once quietly mentioned to Su Qingzhi that in this way, in the fifth room, only the Ming family can make people outside miss her.
Su Qinghui looked at her sister-in-law's inattentive appearance, and only felt that her husband's younger siblings had the same mind as Su Qingzhi, and her life was even better than Ming's.
It's a pity that when the old lady of the Liang family chose her daughter-in-law, her mind was all about the smart woman, and now the affairs of the Liang family, sometimes, Su Qinghui is a generous person, and the family lives a lively life.
After Su Qingzhi gave birth to Lin Jinglang, Su Qinghui felt that Su Qingzhi was more mature, and sometimes mentioned to her about her husband's family.
Su Qingzhi is very glad that she is married to her youngest son and can live freely.
The eldest son-in-law and daughter-in-law like Su Qinghui and Ming's family, in addition to their own family, also have to deal with the affairs of the little uncle's family below.
Su Qingzhi thinks about it, she feels that life is too hard, with Su Qingzhi's character, she is the person who hates meddling in other people's family affairs the most.
When Su Qinghui heard what she said, she turned to laugh and said, "That family will have some things, and that family needs to have a person who takes the lead, and the boss of that family has to take care of things, so that the family can live a smooth life." ”
Su Qinghui came over this time to actually hear that there was a woman in the Lin family and left the Lin family, and she heard that it was also related to Su Qingzhi, she specially came to ask Su Qingzhi, her heart was worried that the Lin family had wronged Su Qingzhi.
When she came, Liang Qiming comforted her and said: "I see that Aunt Xiao Jiu is a person who can afford things, and Xiao Jiu's temperament is not the kind of stupid person who is bullied and doesn't know how to call out to find people."
This kind of thing must be spread by outsiders. Don't worry, after you go, wait until your sisters get along in private and ask again, don't look like you're looking for someone to settle accounts.
In a place like the Lin family, I am afraid that after the women marry in, it will not take many years for them to become human sperm one by one. ”
Su Qinghui laughed at the time, and she said: "Others will change, but that girl in my family will not change, she has always been a person who does not care about everything." ”
Liang Qiming could only sigh and look at Su Qinghui, and said, "You obviously know that she has a big heart, and you are so anxious, you can only feel sulky and uncomfortable in your heart."
You just have to ask, the Lin family wants to deal with Xiao Jiu with inexplicable things, and there are also people from the Su family, the Tang family and our Liang family. ”
Su Qinghui and Su Qingzhi talked for a while, and she finally led the topic to that matter, but she saw Su Qingzhi's face really like this.
She blushed and said, "People outside think it's very strange. Your Lin family came back from your daughter in front of you, and it was only a matter of how long it was, and you went out with your daughter-in-law.
Didn't I hear that it had something to do with your room, I'm worried about you, you're too enthusiastic about dealing with people, and you just know that your heart is hot and rushes forward. ”
After Su Qingzhi said the matter in a low voice with a smile, she said angrily: "Sister, I have never had any friendship with her on weekdays, and on the day of the Chinese New Year, she came to my house to cry, I didn't ask her to provoke, I just thought that she was usually a good person."
I thought that she was unclear for a while, and I didn't think that at that time, she had completely decided in her heart, just to come to my house to make a scene, and she could go one step deeper.
I don't have the heart to be impulsive for irrelevant people, let alone the kind of person who wants to step on me and find freedom early.
They and their husbands and wives want to make a fuss, she can make trouble at home, but she wants to come to me to make trouble.
Hmph, she ruined all my good impression of her. Talking about this kind of husband and wife thing, she doesn't care about the love of husband and wife, nor does she care about the reputation of her children, and she only wants one result wholeheartedly. Then others just want to help talk, but it's all in vain. ”
Su Qinghui looked at her and whispered, "Do you think there are a few people like our mother, at that time, they still took care of their children." I looked at the woman, I was afraid of the people in her mother's family, and after knowing that she had a heart, their hearts had already moved, and she would not stay in her mother's house for many days. ”
In this era, it is a shameful thing for a woman to remarry, and ordinary people will quickly end this matter.
Such as Lin Mingwan's situation, at that time, she did not stay at her mother's house for many days, and when she met a suitable object, after the two parties met, the family affairs were quickly settled, and the steps of proposing marriage were much faster than that of the first marriage.
Su Qingzhi is in favor of a woman's remarriage, after all, the brothers have their own families.
And after they lose their marriage, the children born to their husbands' families are naturally above and the mothers, and they have less that kind of care, that is, they have care for life, and they take care of their father's face, and they can't accompany them all the time.
This may be Tang's idea, she has no intention of remarrying, and would rather stay in the Su family to live this kind of life with children.
When Su Qinghui came to see Su Qingzhi, she went back to her parents' house first, and she said to Su Qingzhi: "As soon as my grandmother left, I felt that my grandfather was aging so fast. ”
Su Qingzhi went back to her parents' house after the New Year, and she could see that the boss of the Su family was aging much faster than before.