"Yu Yan: Love between City and Country" Chapter 59 Old Method (1)

Since Shi Xiuying met her first boyfriend Ah Le, she has always been worried about him, how is he doing?

Xiuying regretted it a little...... Since God has reunited us, it means that fate is not over. Why did you forget to ask for his contact information? My daughter is studying in the city, and Xiuying will always find various reasons to persuade her to come to the city. She decided to continue with the old ways...... Go to the red bean tea house to wait for the rabbit, and there will always be a time when you will meet Ah Le.

Men miss women for a while, and women think about men for a lifetime.

Why do many people have a first love complex? Probably because the hearts of lovers are the purest at the time of first love, and there is no utilitarian thinking, which is completely in line with people's ideals of truth, goodness and beauty. Feelings are real, deeds are good, and character is beautiful. Such perfections are often broken one by one in marriage.

Marriage is the grave of love.

But only love that has entered the grave is stable and real.

Xiuying's love is the love that is put in the grave, and marriage is the only choice for women.

When Xiuying and Ah Le fell in love, after their parents found out, her father blamed her, saying: "Female doll, it's better to marry well than to be born well." When a girl marries a woman, she is reincarnated for the second time, and whether she continues to suffer from poverty or flies on the branches to become a phoenix depends on this marriage...... So, the door is not allowed to be sloppy. ”

The mother felt even more sorry for her daughter, for the sake of her daughter's future...... and happiness, so angry that she was sick and hospitalized, and if Xiuying didn't agree to give up, her mother wouldn't eat, drink, or sleep...... The fifth sister conveyed an ultimatum to Xiuying at her mother's bedside: "Liuliu, give up, otherwise, the old mother will not be able to live!"

The eldest sister, the second sister, the eldest brother-in-law, and the second brother-in-law were busy at home, and they never showed up again after taking time to visit their mother once, and the third sister and third brother-in-law were out of town. When the fourth sister and the fourth brother-in-law saw Xiuying, they sued her: "Liuliu, Dad is also very angry, because he is afraid that you will suffer in the future...... Tell you to quickly disown him. ”

Xiuying said: "Ah Le, he is very good and capable...... It will definitely bring me happiness. ”

The fourth sister said: "Over the years, what can a capable person do? Learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well, it is better to have a good father...... A man's fate is in the hands of others, and it is difficult for a man of many abilities...... A woman's fate is in her own hands, and as long as she catches a good man, she will find happiness for a lifetime......"

Xiuying said: "I don't rarely have that kind of happiness...... That's at the expense of personal feelings, it's a transaction rather than love, and such happiness is someone else's happiness rather than the joy of one's own heart!"

The fourth sister said: "Don't think that you want to be your own master after reading a few books...... Mom and Dad learned a profound lesson from our five sisters. Six, you just listen to your sister's persuasion!"

Xiuying said: "Although our eldest sister and second sister say that the family is poor, it is not necessarily unfortunate, but our third sister, the third brother-in-law is very rich, very status, and very capable...... However, if you only go home for a reunion once in a year and a half, how can you see our third sister enjoying a happy life? Besides, your family, although the fourth brother-in-law's family has a family property and a status in the unit, it seems to be more ideal to outsiders, and you are not necessarily happier than the eldest sister and the second sister's family in your heart, right? What is happiness? Happiness is a subjective sense of satisfaction. How can happiness be called happiness without the happiness of the happy person himself?"

"At least I don't worry about my house, my children's education, or my illness...... These everyone's troubles are because I married a good husband, my husband has a good family, and my husband has a good position, so it has become so easy, and the quality of my life seems to be happier than others. After the fourth sister finished speaking, regardless of whether Xiuying could listen to it or not, she continued: "Six, you also know the situation in our family, our father and mother are so stubborn, as long as they don't nod, you can't do it." At present, you have only two ways, one is to continue to choose your love, and the second is to resolutely give up the family relationship between us......"

In this way, Xiuying gave up love. After breaking up with Ah Le, Xiuying chose a person with good conditions in all aspects to get married, under the arrangement of her family.

After Ah Le and Xiuying broke up, although they felt that life was not very interesting, Xiuying's affection for herself was still there, and as long as there was love, she could continue to motivate herself...... Later, when I heard that Xiuying was married, I gave up.

Xiuying's life after marriage is very dull, life is to live, although there is no passion, but marriage is ...... Especially living with a man who gets along day and night is also a very meaningful thing.

The run-in of husband and wife life must go through a period of time, fortunately, the husband does not pursue Xiuying's past, in fact, there is nothing to pursue, because on the first night of Xiuying's wedding, a piece of red on the sheet made the man feel complete beauty and satisfaction. From then on, a thorough trust in Su-young's physical integrity did not equal the perfection of the mind.

Men seem to care more about the perfection of the body...... As for the mind, who can control it?

The mind is attached to the body, and once a woman's body is acquired by a man, her heart is about to be captured by that man......

The daughter was born, and Xiuying insisted on naming her daughter Luoyue. In Xiuying's view, the falling moon is Ah Le's music, and the falling moon is the moon of the moon. When the moon sets and the moon sets, when she sees her daughter, she thinks of Ah Le she once loved, and the lack of a full moon will make Xiuying miss Ah Le.

Time is the medicine for the pain.

Medicine that doesn't have time can't heal the pain.

Su-young's pain healed from a stumbling ride in her long married life. Although a man is not the most ideal, he lacks taste, but he also has his own hobbies, he lacks gentleness, but he has his own personality, and Xiuying meets such a man who can be regarded as a good person who can live.

Luoyue is sensible, she feels that her name is ugly, and she is clamoring to change her name, but Xiuying just doesn't allow it. Later, Luoyue secretly gave herself a name called Shuqin.

After entering junior high school, the child no longer allows others to call her Falling Moon: "Falling Moon Falling Moon, how can you come up with such an ugly name!"

Xiuying didn't blame the child much, but secretly said to herself: "It seems that it is the will of God." Ah Le, we are destined for this life! Yue'er is my heart...... Can I stop her from pursuing her own happiness?"

Since then, Ah Le's shadow has gradually faded out of Xiuying's heart, and she wants to focus on her children's learning. I plan to use the flood of maternal love to forget jì love...... Use your child's focus on learning to deflect your own pain.

Xiuying insists on coming to the red bean tea house to drink tea every day.

No one knows why this woman came to this corner for tea every time.

Until Ah Le appeared in the hall for the second time......

If you want to know what will happen next, please see Chapter 59 of "Yu Yan: Love between City and Country" The Old Way (1)

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