Chapter 314: It's Not Over But It's Over
Even Yang Mu didn't expect that the story between the father and son of the Tu family would be so bloody.
Not to mention rice grains.
She was originally skeptical of Yang Mu's speculation, and even if it was correct, it would take a long time to prove it.
But she didn't expect it to be confirmed so quickly.
This made her admire.
Women appreciate men, some people appreciate men's handsomeness, some people appreciate men's wealth, some people appreciate men's talents, and some people appreciate men's character.
And the reason why Mi Li admires Yang Mu is naturally because her talent and character moved her, so that she is willing to accompany Yang Mu, who is possessed as a dog, to tide over the difficulties.
Now she has one more appreciation for Yang Mu.
"What's next?"
She was referring to Tu Xiujie's current problem.
The reason why Tu Xiujie told the Nine-Tailed Fox Daxian about his own story was because he wanted to get help from the Daxian.
This question made Yang Mu very difficult.
You know, his expert in psychology is pretending, and the reason why he can deduce such a conclusion is purely based on his limited personal knowledge and the rich imagination of the writer.
Now Tu Xiujie's problem involves family ethics issues, and he doesn't seem to have a good solution.
Heart disease also has to be treated with heart medicine.
That's all he can think of.
But he still wanted to try to help Tu Xiujie.
In front of rice grains, he can't show timidity.
This is the vanity of men.
He replied tentatively: "I deeply sympathize with what happened to you. ”
In many cases, the solution is found in the tricks.
"Daxian, do you think I should forgive my dad?"
Tu Xiujie replied.
Obviously, he was not satisfied with Yang Mu's answer.
He finally opened his heart, complained to Daxian, and said what he didn't want to mention in the past, not sympathy.
Yang Mu was in trouble again.
That's not a very good question to answer.
He asked rhetorically, "Do you think you can forgive him?"
"No, you can't. ”
After a long time, Tu Xiujie replied.
Yang Mu smiled dumbly.
"Isn't that it! If you want to forgive him, you have to ask yourself, no one else can help you. Only when you yourself have passed the hurdle in your heart can this question be answered, otherwise it is useless for others to say anything. ”
Yang Mu felt that he really looked like a psychiatrist now.
Tu Xiujie asked again: "Isn't it bad that I hate my dad now, but at the same time spend his money with peace of mind?"
This is a very hateful sentence.
Yang Mu couldn't help but think, it was really the same life.
When people are thirty years old, they are still spending their father's money, and they have endless money, but they and Mi Li have to work hard to survive, which is really infuriating.
Of course, he just complained a little.
He didn't feel that there was anything wrong with him doing this, and he even felt that it was far better to support himself with his own hands than to gnaw on the old family.
So what should I say?
Of course not!
are all 30-year-olds, and if they still gnaw on the old people, they will be laughed at!
Yang Muxian replied in his heart.
But considering the miserable experience that Tu Xiujie has suffered, it is naturally inappropriate to go back to this time.
"It's a good thing to have money to spend, and someone willing to give you money to spend. ”
"But money and affection are not necessarily equated, so you don't need to feel guilty about spending your dad's money, but you should feel with your heart whether he is worth forgiving. ”
"And another point, I think what is more important for you now is not the question of whether you want to forgive or not, but to come out of the past yourself, let yourself live a little more exciting, a little fuller, and live your own life, and that question may have an answer. ”
In order to play the role of a good psychiatrist, Yang Muyi wrote a long list of books.
Alas, tired!
Tired!
Really tired!
Psychiatrists are really not so easy to be.
But what made him happy was that it seemed that his words had a certain effect, and Tu Xiujie quickly replied: "Okay, thank you Daxian, let me think about it." ”
At this point, the matter is considered to be over for the time being.
"Yes, I really look like a psychiatrist. ”
Mi Li praised Yang Mu.
This made Yang Mu a little proud.
He once read in a book that said that when men and women are together, if you want to make the relationship stable, it is best to have a combination of strong men and weak women.
The strong men and the weak women here refer to thinking, which means that men are stronger than women in thinking, and it is best to give women a sense of security, so that women can appreciate and even worship, so that the relationship will be more stable.
For this point of view, Yang Mu agrees.
Moreover, he is now possessed as a dog, and he actually doesn't have much security in front of Mi Li.
He didn't know if the relationship would change at any time.
Therefore, whenever he has the opportunity, he wants to behave in front of the rice grain.
Alas, it's really not easy for people to be dogs!
He had just finished being proud, but Mi Li was looking for trouble again.
"Yang Mu, let me ask you, when you have money in the future, will you be like Tu Xiujie and his father, going outside to mess around?"
Yang Mu: "......"
What's that?
How can your imagination be so rich?
Alas, it seems that no matter how capable the young lady is, she is still a little woman in her bones, and she still has no sense of security!
But since Mi Li asked, he had to answer.
And she had to answer seriously, and the answer had to be satisfactory to her.
After thinking about it, he replied, "How could I be?
"Give me a good reason!"
Obviously, Mi Li didn't intend to make it easy for him on this issue.
It seems that men become bad when they are rich, and this concept has been deeply rooted in the hearts of all women, and rice grains are no exception.
It's time to show the real technique again!
"Whether it is a man or a woman, whether they will change their minds or not, involves several factors. ”
Say. ”
"One is the problem of personal character, such as seeing different ideas, not having a sense of responsibility, etc. Obviously, I'm not that kind of person. ”
"What else?"
"The second is related to the relationship between the two. If the motives for the two to come together are not pure, for example, the man wants the woman's beauty, and the woman wants the man's money, the relationship itself is not solid. ”
"Then do you have a picture of my beauty? ”
"Yes. ”
"Does that mean you'll change your mind in the future?"
"No, because it's your heart that matters to me. ”
"Count you, do you say?"
"The third is related to the emotional foundation of both parties. Some people are together, just making do with life, and they don't have too deep emotional foundation. We are different, we share common hobbies, we appreciate each other, we empathize with each other, and we go through hardships together...... We are a union of souls, a coexistence of the spiritual world, so a change of heart is a non-existent thing for us. ”
"Beautiful, worthy of writing a book, really good at speaking!"
Yang Mu breathed a sigh of relief.
Finally passed!
Once a woman is cranky, it is really difficult to deal with it!
He didn't expect that meddling in this bloody matter between the father and son of the Tu family almost brought trouble to himself.
He instinctively realized that this matter was probably not over yet, because Mi Li suddenly asked again: "Yang Mu, you say, should we help Lao Tu ease the relationship with Tu Xiujie?" I see that Lao Tu seems to regret a little, and I really want to get Tu Xiujie's forgiveness!"
Yang Mu: "......"
Little sister, are you overflowing with compassion again?
But what Mi Li said was right, Lao Tu was really trying his best to save Tu Xiujie's heart.
But the question is, how can this help?