Chapter 943 It's hard to conceive a child, it's hard to have a child
When she heard that something was wrong, Nana's first reaction was that her grandmother, or her grandmother's grandfather's health was not good.
She hurriedly asked her mother, "Mom, what's the matter, is my grandfather not well?"
Nana knows that her grandfather is 90 years old this year, and his health is getting worse day by day.
Dongmei shook her head and said, "No, it's not your grandfather." ”
Hearing that it wasn't her grandfather, Nana continued, "Could it be my grandmother, or maybe my grandmother is not in good health?"
Nana's grandmother and grandmother are almost 80 years old.
Dongmei sighed and said, "It's not either." ”
At this time, Nana had forgotten to tell her mother about her pregnancy.
She wanted to know, what was wrong?
Dongmei slowed down and said, "Hongxia's second daughter, Li Mao, accidentally miscarried. ”
Hearing that Li Mao had miscarried, Nana's eyes widened.
She couldn't believe it and said, "Isn't Li Mao just three months pregnant, why did she miscarry?"
Dongmei told Nana, saying: "Li Mao went to the supermarket to buy a barrel of cooking oil, and it happened that the elevator broke down that day, and Li Mao carried the barrel of twenty catties of cooking oil to the sixth floor......
As a result, as soon as I entered the house, it was not suitable, and I immediately bled below. ”
Hearing that Li Mao had a miscarriage, Nana was terrified.
She was especially afraid that the baby in her belly, who had just been pregnant for more than a month, would also be lost.
Dongmei continued: "Today's young woman, why is her body so weak, carrying a bucket of cooking oil upstairs can drain the child in her belly.
Like in our day, when I was pregnant with your brother, I followed your grandmother to work in the fields every day.
Even when I was pregnant with you, I was about to give birth, and I rode my bicycle to your grandmother's house and asked your uncle to come and help take me to the hospital......
In Dongmei's words, there was an endless sigh.
She sighed, why is it that now that the living conditions are better, the girls' bodies are not as good as before?
Nana looked at her mother's regretful look and said, "Mom, I'll tell you good news. ”
Dongmei never thought that Nana would suddenly become pregnant.
She just reminded Nana: "Nana, if you get pregnant in the future, you must pay more attention to your body, after all, now, it is difficult to conceive a child, and it is difficult to have a child." ”
After speaking, Dongmei also sighed in her heart, not knowing when her daughter Nana would be able to conceive a child.
Nana nodded and said, "Mom, I want to tell you good news, don't you listen?"
Hearing the good news, Dongmei's reaction was also very indifferent.
She said, "What beautiful clothes are you buying online?"
Nana's face showed joy, and she said, "It's not that I'm buying clothes, but I'm pregnant." ”
Hearing that her daughter was pregnant, Dongmei's eyes widened.
She couldn't believe it and said, "Impossible, are you really pregnant?"
Don't you try to make me happy and deceive me?"
Nana saw that her mother did not believe that she was pregnant.
So, she brought the test strip from the bathroom and showed it to her mother.
When Dongmei saw the two red bars on the test strip, she was speechless with excitement.
Dongmei was cautious at first, helped Nana to sit on the sofa, and then asked Nana softly, "Nana, when did you get pregnant, how many months?"
Nana counted the days and said, "It may be that last time, when Fang Fang and I traveled to Guizhou, I was pregnant, and it was more than a month at most." ”
Hearing that her daughter was successfully pregnant with a child, and it has been more than a month, Dongmei couldn't hide her excitement and said: "That's great, since you are pregnant with a child, you must be careful everywhere, and you must keep the child." ”
After speaking, Dongmei immediately began to pray.
She said, "Heaven, you must bless my daughter Nana, let her spend the ten months of pregnancy safely, and then give birth to that precious child smoothly......
Then, the fibroids in her uterus were successfully removed......"
Nana looked at her mother's prayerful appearance, and she smiled and said, "Mom, since I'm pregnant, then you don't have to worry about it anymore." ”
Hearing that her daughter didn't let her worry about it, Dongmei said uneasily: "How can you not worry about it, you must know that you are a patient, and the fibroids in your uterus are still growing, threatening the child in your belly all the time."
Besides, how difficult it is for you to get pregnant, it's heavenly.
So, since you're pregnant, you must just have a good rest.
Especially in the first three months, it's best not to go anywhere and not go anywhere......
Don't sit for a long time, don't squat for a long time......
It's to go up and down the stairs, go to the supermarket, go out for a walk, you have to pay extra attention......"
Dongmei said that she was very careful about her pregnancy.
Nana said disapprerovingly, "Mom, is it as scary and nervous as you say?"
Dongmei said very seriously: "Definitely, I'm from here."
Therefore, let me remind you, if the child conceived for the first time is accidentally miscarried, then the second, third, and fourth times will become a habitual miscarriage. ”
Listening to her mother say that the matter was very serious, Nana reminded herself that she must pay attention to it in the past ten months.
Otherwise, if the child in the womb has a mistake, he can't afford to take this responsibility.
When Nana returned to her room, she called her husband Fang Fang to report the good news.
When Fang Fang heard the news of his wife's pregnancy, he cried directly excitedly.
He cried on the phone and said, "Nana, we have been working hard since before we got married last year, until now, to say the least, for more than half a year."
Today, I'm so happy that you're finally pregnant. ”
Nana comforted Fang Fang and said, "I'm pregnant, then you should be happy, why are you crying like this?"
Fang Fang sobbed and said, "Aren't I excited to hide it?"
Nana asked Fang Fang, "Fang Fang, do you want a boy or a girl for your first child?"
Fang Fang didn't think about it and said, "Of course I want a boy." ”
Hearing that Fang Fang was also the master of patriarchy, Nana said a little unhappily: "Compared to you like boys, I like girls."
How good a girl is, not only do you not have to buy a house and a car, but also you don't have to save money to get married. ”
Fang Fang said with a smile: "Yes, yes, no matter what kind of child you have, as long as you are healthy, as long as it is a child, I like it." ”
After Nana finished giving Fang Fang the good news, she then reported the good news to her mother-in-law.
Although the relationship between her mother-in-law and Nana is tense, after all, she is her own mother-in-law, and her status is still very important.
So, Nana dialed Fang Fang's mother's phone.
At this time, Fang Fang's mother was busy cooking for the construction workers at the construction site.
She heard the phone ringing, and she was not going to answer it, but when she saw that it was Nana calling, she reluctantly put down the horse spoon in her hand and picked up the phone.
She said, "Nana, what's wrong?"
After speaking, Fang Fang's mother thought to herself, this Nana is lazier than anyone else, staying at home all day, not only not working, but also not doing housework......
Even the pigs and chickens she raises, she doesn't feed them......
Now, when I go back to their parents' house, what else will I call?
Nana was anxious when she heard her mother-in-law talking, and she knew that her mother-in-law was busy cooking on the construction site.
So, she said at length: "Mom, tell you good news, I'm pregnant." ”
Hearing that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, Fang Fang's mother was surprised that she didn't hold the phone.
She said with trembling hands, "Nana, what are you talking about, are you really pregnant?"
Nana nodded, and said in a joyful voice: "Mom, I'm really pregnant, I just want to call and give you good news, so that you don't have to worry anymore." ”
Fang Fang's mother couldn't hide her excitement, she said openly, "Nana, don't you have fibroids in your uterus, why did you get pregnant so easily." ”
Hearing Fang Fang's mother's words, Nana immediately felt uncomfortable in her heart.
She said in her heart, "If there are fibroids in the uterus, can't you conceive a child?"
However, Nana knew that her relationship with Fang Fang's mother was in the ice-breaking stage, and she still didn't want to quarrel with her.
So, Nana said: "The womb is big, even if you are pregnant with twins, it is not a problem, let alone pregnant with a child." ”
Hearing Nana talk about twins, Fang Fang's mother was surprised and said, "Are you pregnant with twins?"
Hearing that Fang Fang's mother misunderstood what she meant, Nana said: "I haven't gone to the hospital for examination yet, I guess it's just a child, after all, our family doesn't have the genes of this twin." “
Hearing this, Fang Fang's mother said: "It's okay, no matter if your first child is a twin or a single baby, as long as you give our Fang family and give birth to a big fat son." “
Hearing that Fang Fang's mother and Fang Fang had the same idea and both wanted a boy, Nana said unceremoniously: "What's so good about the boy, I will find a daughter-in-law in the future, and I will quarrel with my mother-in-law when I come back."
If you want me to say, it's better to have a girl, and in the future you can bring back a son-in-law, not only filial piety, but also obedient. “
Nana has a point.
She found from herself, as well as her classmates and friends around her, that if there is a son in the family, the future daughter-in-law and children are allowed to have conflicts with her mother-in-law.
Whoever has a daughter in the family, the future son-in-law will be more filial than the son.
Fang Fang's mother was happy, and it was not convenient for her to argue with Nana.
So, she smiled and said, "It's okay, as long as it's a child born to you and Fang Fang, I'm willing." “
Nana listened to Fang Fang's mother's words, and felt that it was inappropriate.
She said: "As long as the child born to me and Fang Fang, you are satisfied?"
Isn't it possible for me to go out and steal people?"
Hearing that she accidentally said the wrong thing again, Fang Fang's mother hurriedly explained, saying, "No, I mean, it's good that your mother and son are safe." “
After speaking, Fang Fang's mother thought, it was really unintentional, and the listener had a heart.
This Nana, as soon as she became pregnant, has become a high-flying and domineering person.
Nana smiled and said, "It's okay.
Well, I'll not tell you. “
Nana was just about to hang up the phone, Fang Fang's mother suddenly said: "Nana, since you are pregnant, then our rural area here, there is a rule, you must abide by it." “
Hearing the rules and customs again, Nana said in her heart, why is there so many bullshit rules and customs in the village where Fang Fang is located?
Nana grew up living in a family compound in the oil field, and she felt that she had rarely encountered any customs and rules since she was a child.
No matter what, everything is how convenient it is, how it is as wishful as it is, and where there are so many rules and regulations.
Nana asked Fang Fang's mother, "What rules, you can say it." “
Fang Fang's mother smiled and said: "This rule on our side is that the daughter-in-law of the family, if she is pregnant, she must come to her mother-in-law's house to give birth."
Otherwise, if the daughter-in-law stays at her parents' house all the time, it will be really an unlucky thing.
Even, the surrounding neighbors and neighbors will laugh at it......"
Hearing that Fang Fang's mother suddenly let herself go back, Nana was surprised and thought:
Didn't you dislike me, you didn't work in your house, you didn't work, and you just blew me away?
Why did you suddenly call me back again?
Besides, I stayed at my mother's house to give birth, after all, in the provincial capital, whether it is to go to the hospital for prenatal examination, or suddenly it is not suitable, and I go to the hospital for emergency treatment, etc., it is convenient.
Why do you want me to live in a small village in your county?