Chapter 16: Fate and Separation (1)
Chapter 16: Fate and Separation (1)
Yu Yan thought that as long as Xiaoli could fall in love with Ah Le according to her own will, she would be able to marry Lao Zhou with peace of mind. How do you know that Xiaoli inadvertently asked a very simple but very difficult question: "Why do I like Ah Le?"
Love is the most precious and noble sentiment between men and women. The arrival of love does not depend on the will of man - therefore, some people get along for a long time but cannot love each other, while others can fall in love at first sight. Why to love someone is as much a super difficult question as what love is, no one can answer, no one can say. If love is fate, why do you still love him in your heart even though your fate is exhausted? If love is not fate, why do you meet him everywhere when you don't love yourself? !
Will Xiaoli fall in love with Ah Le? Will Ah Le fall in love with Xiaoli again? Love is a matter of mutual affection, so it has to be consensual.
Since Yu Yan woke up the person in her dream, Xiaoli realized that she had fallen for Yu Yan, and promised her to be the "godmother" of Ah Le's child, maybe she was to be a "stepmother" - but she really fell in love with Xiaole's child. Women are born to love children, and this is maternal love. If this kind of love is added to the love of men and women, it will become confusing. Therefore, Xiaoli sometimes seems very conflicted, not knowing whether she should go or not to Ah Le's house - I don't know whether to see the child, or to see the child's father?
The child really likes himself, but what about Ah Le? If he says that he is not welcome to go at all, he is wronging him; if he says that he is very welcome to go, he is deceiving himself! In short, in Xiaoli's opinion, this stinky Ah Le is absolutely not as affectionate as Yu Yan, and when the two of them are together, they obviously feel that the passion and romance are not enough...... Could it be that Ah Le's heart is still thinking about Yu Yan? Could it be that his beauty and gentleness can't save Ah Le's heart at all? Could it be that a great beauty within reach is not as good as Yu Yan, who is about to become someone else's bride? Does love really make people stupid? There are countless questions that there is actually only one sentence: Does this Ah Le love me? What should he do if he loves me? What is it if he doesn't love me?!
Men believe in fate, women are superstitious in love. Fate is like a leek, a stubble can grow immediately after a stubble, and love is like a flower, withered, at least have to wait for the next flowering season. Fate is rare, but it's hard to say. Life is impermanent, maybe men will meet many women they like and love in their lives, maybe they don't meet any but get the love of many women. Maybe some women are very attached to the man they love and very persistent. However, as more and more women participate in social work, especially social activities, women are more and more exposed to more men, their horizons have been broadened, and their ideas have been expanded. It is not so much the progress of society as the return of humanity. There is very little difference between humans and animals in nature. Men have the common characteristic of male animals - possessiveness, and women also have the common characteristic of female animals - control. Male possessiveness and female possessiveness are the two main streams in the process of life movement. However, these internal ** are often expressed through guò external conditions. The strength of a man's possessiveness is directly proportional to his own material conditions such as body and money and the superiority of non-material conditions such as status and fame, and the intensity of a woman's desire is also directly proportional to her various material and immaterial conditions.
Xiaoli is full of confidence in her beauty. The lukewarm and ambiguous attitude towards Ah Le cannot be accepted and understood. On dates again and again, Xiaoli didn't know how much courtesy she had done, and she didn't know how many flattering glances she threw at Ah Le, but in order to be as difficult to be moved as wood, Xiaoli was disappointed again and again. The more you can't get something, the more precious you feel. Xiaoli is determined to get Ah Le's love - she has given so much, if she can't get Ah Le's love, she will be the most failed woman!
Xiaoli wants to win Yu Yan's tacit understanding and cooperation: "Sister Yu Yan, you are about to marry Brother Zhou now, and your happy life is about to begin-don't only care about your own happiness, regardless of the life or death of others--I and Brother Ale's affairs, I still want you to work vigorously and try your best to fulfill it!"
Yu Yan said: "Stupid sister, I'm not trying to fulfill you, I'm going to spend so much time taking you and Brother Ah Le to eat barbecue together? What's wrong? It's the two of you who have an awkward relationship, isn't it?"
Xiaoli said: "It's better to be awkward, the key is that people just don't mess with me, we are together, like strangers so polite, he won't even pull my hand...... You don't even look at me for half a day!"
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