Lu Qingman hugged his father's arm and chatted with him affectionately for a while, mainly talking about the post-pregnancy reaction. Lu Zhouxing reminded her, and asked Li Rui to pay attention to supervision: usually don't work too hard, don't walk for a long time, otherwise it is easy to miscarry, she is already a little older, and the risk of miscarriage is much higher than that of pregnant women of appropriate age.

Lu Qingman smiled when he heard this: "Dad, say something else, in this case, Xiao Rui has told me almost every day, and he has told me not a hundred times but eighty times, I feel that I am pregnant with a child, and he is more nervous than me." ”

Lu Zhouxing looked at Li Rui happily when he heard this, obviously he didn't expect him to cherish Qingman's body so much. Where did the old man know that the reason why Li Rui was so cautious and cautious was because he listened to the hexagram of the great monk Fa Yu.

Lu Qingman quickly changed the topic, took out his mobile phone, opened the photo album, opened the photo with He Suli, and handed it to the old man to take a look.

Lu Zhouxing squinted and looked at it, it seemed that he couldn't see it clearly, Li Rui didn't wait for his orders, took out the spare glasses from under the coffee table, opened them and handed them to him.

Lu Zhouxing took it with a smile, looked at the photo carefully, and when he saw He Suli's face, he was also slightly moved, and asked Lu Qingman with a smile: "Manman, who is this woman?" Lu Qingman didn't sell it, and said smugly: "The person I plan to introduce to you." Lu Zhouxing had already guessed this possibility, took off the glasses, put them in the glasses case, and sighed: "I have already told you, no longer think about the continuation of the string, why are you still thinking about it, girl?" Lu Qingman said with a smile: "I know that Xiao Rui and I know that you have thought a lot, and we are worried that a big family will be introduced in the process of renewing the string, which will give birth to a lot of messy things, and will bring political influence, etc., so we have also carefully selected the candidates......"

When she said this, she pointed to He Suli in the photo and said: "This Aunt He, her family is very simple, there is no one in the family, her parents have died, her children have died early, she has been single for many years, and now she lives in Jingnan, alone, if ...... It's just that if you marry her, you will only marry her, and you will not bring any more. ”

Lu Zhouxing frowned when he heard this.

Li Rui looked at him a little nervously, and secretly thought, the old man won't think that He Suli is a mourning star, right?

Lu Qingman also talked about He Suli's various benefits, saying that the sky was full of flowers, and the ground was surging with golden lotus, and in the end, if Lu Zhouxing didn't marry her, it would be the biggest tragedy in his life.

Lu Zhouxing was amused when she heard it, and after she finished speaking, he affectionately hugged her thin shoulders and said with emotion: "Manman, you have really grown up!" Lu Qingman was also a little sad, and said: "Dad, in fact, I should have grown up a long time ago, I have always neglected your happiness before...... Lu Zhouxing said with a smile: "Find me an old wife, and I can be happy?" Lu Qingman smiled: "At least it can make you happier than before." ”

Li Rui also helped and said a lot of words of consolation.

After hearing this, Lu Zhouxing pondered for a long time, nodded and said, "Okay, since you two are kind, I'll think about it and take the time to meet with this Aunt He." Lu Qingman immediately said: "My plan is to set up a family banquet right here, in the Standing Committee Building, to entertain Aunt He." I'm not saying that Aunt He is a philistine, and she must be able to see your true identity before she is willing to talk to you, but I am worried that she will dislike you for being older without knowing your identity. Lu Zhouxing laughed and said: "But if this can make her satisfied with me, then will she marry power or me?" Lu Qingman smiled: "She is not such a snobbish person, she is from a scholarly family, I just give her a chance to accept you in this way, and then you will talk slowly and develop slowly." ”

Lu Zhouxing looked at Li Rui with a smile and said, "Such a delicate idea, Xiao Rui came up with it, right?" Li Rui hurriedly clarified: "No, hehe, it's Qingman's idea, she is more careful than me in this kind of thing, I almost made a joke today." ”

Lu Qingman heard this interjection and said: "Yes, when he heard Aunt He say that he didn't have a family today, he actually said that it was so good that he almost didn't have a big ......" said that incident.

Lu Zhouxing laughed out loud after hearing this, but his smile was full of emotion and relief.

In the evening, the family of three sat together and enjoyed a sumptuous dinner, during which there were talking and laughing, eating and drinking, warm and lively.

After the meal, Lu Zhouxing took Li Rui upstairs to drink tea, and by the way learned about his work situation.

Li Rui will tell the recent harvest, including the knowledge learned from the Qingyang urban construction project, Song Chaoyang's self-created "Five One Project" and the preparation of the "Shoufu Association", and the lessons and experiences learned from the series of events in Dongshui Village.

Lu Zhouxing was very satisfied with the gains and progress he had accumulated, and further pointed out: "What you lack now is mainly qualifications, qualifications do not only refer to qualifications and resumes, qualifications are given by superior leaders, and resumes do not explain anything, the real core lies in the ability to resolve contradictions." Everything in the world can be called a contradiction, daily work is a contradiction, emergencies are also contradictions, and the problems we encounter in ordinary times are contradictions; the process in which we are in power is in fact a process of constantly resolving contradictions; therefore, whether you can govern or not depends on whether you can quickly resolve contradictions. ”

Li Rui was about to be blinded by him, but he basically understood what he meant, in fact, to put it bluntly, it is to cultivate the ability to deal with things and solve problems, but the old man unified these into solving contradictions, maybe he thought it was easier to understand.

Seeing him, Lu Zhouxing nodded again and again, smiled, and said, "You are saying that you have understood, but in fact, you don't understand." Why do I deliberately emphasize that it is a contradiction? All affairs are composed of two unified opposites, and before the affairs are formed, the two opposites are neither strong nor weak, and they maintain balance, and once the balance is lost, there will be incidents, and the direction of development of affairs is based on the strength of the two opposites, the strong side is the spear, and the weak side is the shield, and basically the spear overpowers the shield. If we want to solve this problem, we have to solve the problem of spear against shield. How to solve it? It is very simple, either to reduce the sharpness of the spear, or to increase the thickness of the shield, so that it can be balanced and restored to its original state, so that the matter will be solved. I say this, it may be too abstract, you can substitute the incident in Dongshui Village, and you will understand it more thoroughly. ”

Li Rui felt as if he had listened to him tell a book from heaven, and felt that he seemed to have opened a small window for himself, through which he could see more scenery, but his vision was confused and he couldn't see clearly, obviously he didn't fully understand it, so he tried to substitute the Dongshui Village incident into this truth according to his meaning: Before the Dongshui Village incident broke out, the two opposites contained in it, the Taifu Chemical Plant and the villagers of Dongshui Village, had gradually lost their balance, and the villagers of Dongshui Village, who were shields, could no longer resist the pollution and oppression of the Taifu Chemical Plant as a spear, which finally ignited the fuse; The strong intervention of the Shibei District Government represented by Zhao Xiaotao once again caused an imbalance of forces between several parties in the incident, and the Shibei District Government appeared as a new and sharper spear, completely piercing the incomplete shield of the villagers of Dongshui Village, and finally broke out a new disaster.

In the two incidents before and after, the role of the spear and the shield is very obvious, and the bullying and humiliation of the spear against the shield is also very clear, and it is the existence of the spear and the shield and the imbalance of the forces of the two sides that constitute the main body of the series of events in Dongshui Village. According to the reasoning of Lu Zhou's jargon, if we want to solve this series of contradictions, we must either reduce the sharpness of the spear, that is, exert pressure on the Taifu Chemical Plant and the Shibei District Government, and order them to stop and check and correct their mistakes, or increase the weight of the shield, that is, give support to the villagers of Dongshui Village and help them resist the oppression of the chemical plant and government organs. In fact, the leading group of Qingyang City, represented by Song Chaoyang, also handled it in this way, and although the problem has not yet been comprehensively resolved, there is no doubt that this solution is correct.

Li Rui has only understood the meaning of the old man after such a generation, and he has taught himself a new way to deal with problems, that is, to start from the opposite side of the internal affairs, distinguish the contradictions, and then deal with them, I believe that this should also be the exclusive secret accumulated and polished in the course of the old man's official career. Of course, this exclusive secret book is completely different from the martial arts cheats in the rivers and lakes, the martial arts cheats are only in the hands of a very small number of people, the only one in the world, except for the owner, others can not master, after learning can dominate the world;

Li Rui thought to himself, even if he didn't have this set of methods taught by the old man, he could deal with problems similar to the series of incidents in Dongshui Village, he could grasp the essence steadily and accurately, and then make targeted responses, of course, with this set of means, he had more room to choose, no matter what, it was the old man's kindness, and he could appreciate it, and said with a smile: " I tried to substitute it, and I already understood that you taught me a way to solve the problem, and it really worked, and when I think about things later, my mind will be clearer and more accurate. ”

Lu Zhouxing said with a smile: "This method can not only be used in work, but also in life, for example, if you quarrel with Manman, you can analyze which two opposites in your ideology are out of balance - at this time, don't think about who is right and who is wrong, but think about how to solve the problem, find out where the contradiction is, and then prescribe the right medicine, you can solve it." Of course, most of the time, there is a transformation between the two sides of the conflict, you may think that the other party will hurt you more, but you may cause more harm to the other party if you neglect yourself......"