Yu Yan. The Lady of the Pressure

Seeing such text messages, Yu Yan had a lot of messy pictures in her mind, but in the end, they were all rejected by herself one by one.

Yu Yan thinks that she has understood Ah Le's past, grasped Ah Le's present, and grasped Ah Le's future. What kind of person Ah Le is, Yu Yan is very confident: "No matter how crazy the world is, the little hen will not take the initiative to fall in love with the weasel...... No matter how much Brother Le changes, I still believe that Brother Ile's heart will not change, and Brother Ile's feelings for me will not change...... We are, after all, tried-and-tested...... If the relationship between us is going to be problematic, I don't know what kind of state other couples will be in that day!"

In the way of husband and wife, trust is the first. But can husbands and wives really trust each other? Yu Yan doesn't know. Not only does Yu Yan not know, but there are many, many people who don't know.

Yu Yan once asked her good friend Lili about this question.

I remember that Yu Yan had just arrived in the town at that time, and when she remembered her marriage, Yu Yan was very angry when she talked about Tang Gang, and asked Xiaoli: "You said, our daughters are so old...... Y-Why is he still messing around out there?"

Xiaoli said: "You are stupid, haven't you heard what people say about husbands?"

Yu Yan said: "I haven't heard of it, you can talk about it." ”

"Husband, husband, husband is a husband within one zhang, and one zhang is outside...... It's nothing. Although Xiaoli is still a yellow flower girl, she actually understands the relationship between husband and wife. "Think about it, which man who comes to our workplace to play is not well-behaved at home...... Because within one zhang, within the scope of my wife's control, I listen to all my wife's words, including mistakes. However, once they leave the house, almost all the men become wild horses that have escaped, and they cannot see beautiful women...... It's the same man who obediently listens to his wife at home, and once the environment changes, his behavior changes. ”

Yu Yan smiled: "So mysterious...... Both husband and wife get along...... It's so complicated, it's so scary, let's just don't get married. If intimacy, like the relationship between husband and wife, also needs to be maintained by prevention and control, then wouldn't our situation be very bad? Isn't the relationship between people in society more complicated, even unimaginable?"

Xiaoli said: "Society is a big family, and the family is a small society. China is a country that pays attention to blood ethics, just from the word "our country", the relationship between society and family can be clearly seen, the country is everyone, and the family is a small country. What is going on in society will be like at home. In a word, you have to be a little wary of your husband!"

"Why? Isn't my husband the closest person in the family? Why do you have to guard against something? How do you know ......these things if you are not married?" Yu Yan said.

"I've never eaten pork and never seen a pig run away...... Suppose you are a man with parents, a wife, and children at home...... Think about it, in this family, parents and children are relatives who are related to you by blood, and the so-called broken bones and tendons, and blood is thicker than water is family affection. And only the woman who sleeps next to you is the only outsider you feel most unsafe and unreliable......" Xiaoli said.

"Oh, because men think that women are unreliable and outsiders, so they do everything possible to get her to be by their side and sleep with themselves? Is it safe? It turns out that the husband and wife sleep not for anything else, but to prevent this woman from doing things that are unfavorable to him, is that so?" Yu Yan quipped Xiaoli.

"When, biologically, there are other reasons...... Don't think I don't understand, hehe...... But sociologically speaking, this explanation is not unavoidable. Xiaoli knew that Yu Yan wanted to say that she was not married, and she didn't know the delicate relationship between men and women sleeping together. She pretended not to know Yu Yan's intentions and continued, "Those of us who want to be other people's wives and daughters-in-law have become outsiders in other people's homes, and if we don't have biological children, we will be in this family...... It's simply extremely unsafe. The only thing you can rely on is your husband, who is always on guard against her in everything. Therefore, women have always been subordinate in the family. In this way, the so-called three outlines and five constants of the ancient times were summed up. ”

Yu Yan knows that what Xiaoli said also has a certain truth, many years later, Xiaoli became Ah Le's wife, according to her own theory, in order to find her own place in this family, she took the initiative to give birth to a lovely little daughter Xiaoli for Ah Le, with her own flesh and blood, Xiaoli felt solid at home. However, the theory is very plump, but the reality is skinny, Xiaoli has not been able to accompany the man she loves and the family she loves for a long time...... She left regrets, left her daughter in this home, and left. According to Xiaoli's point of view, Yu Yan felt that she had everything except Ah Le, or maybe nothing. The daughter is born to her good friend Xiaoli, and the son is born to Ah Le's first wife, Xiaoyang, what is she in this family? Is the main role to play a stepmother or a stepwife? Once the family situation changes, the consequences are simply unimaginable. Just like in his marriage to Lao Zhou, if there was a man and half woman between himself and Lao Zhou, he would not have to divorce because another woman was pregnant...... The relationship between himself and Lao Zhou will continue because of the child. Until the child is an adult, the child marries and has grandchildren...... The happy life of his grandson in his later years has come to an end.

Yu Yan doesn't know why she has been thinking crankily lately, especially when she thinks of these, her vest will be numb...... My fate won't be so bad, right? Ah Le Ke and I have a family that has an unswerving love until death...... In this family, Xiaole accepts herself, not to mention Xiaoli, she is a good friend Xiaoli who is on her deathbed and entrusts her child. If it weren't for the sake of Xiaoli's mother's responsibility, he wouldn't have thought of renewing his relationship with Ah Le, and now, he is raising two children with hard work, what is it for?

People always imagine a beautiful future. It is precisely because there is a beautiful future worth looking forward to that people feel that life is beautiful now. No matter how difficult it is, never give up.

Yu Yan was tormented by her own crankiness, and she didn't feel sleepy at all. According to the habit of the past, Yu Yan wants to go to Xiaoli's room to see if her daughter is sleeping peacefully, although Xiaoli is not her own, but Yu Yan regards it as her own, and she is meticulous in caring and taking care of her.

"Mom, haven't you slept?" Yu Yan asked as soon as she entered Xiaoli's room.

"Oh, Mom didn't sleep, didn't we Xiaoli sleep either?" asked Yu Yan.

"Mom, I miss Daddy...... Where has Daddy gone?" asked Xiaoli.

"Where did Dad go?" Faced with her daughter's question, Yu Yan didn't know how to answer: "Good daughter, Dad went to talk about work." Soon I will be home with my good daughter. Why don't you sleep with Lily for a while?"

To find out what happened next, please watch "Yu Yan. Chapter 68 The Flower Girl (2)