Chapter 923: In order to conceive a child, we fought hard
A month later, Nana returned from a vacation in the mountains.
As soon as she entered the door, Dongmei couldn't wait to ask Nana, saying, "Nana, are you pregnant?"
Nana shook her head and said helplessly, "I'm not pregnant." ”
Hearing this, Dongmei frowned and said, "Last time, Fang Fang was on vacation, didn't you stay with you all the time?"
Didn't you have your period here?"
Nana said shyly, "I didn't have my period, so we stayed together every day."
In order to conceive a child, we fought hard, not only at night, but also during the day, but we just didn't get pregnant?"
Hearing that her daughter had worked hard for several months, but she hadn't conceived a child yet, Dongmei recalled her back then.
She said, "Nana, why is it so difficult for your current child to get pregnant?
I was married to your dad at the time, and a month later I was married to your brother Taotao. “
Hearing that her mother's pregnancy was so simple, she said, "Ah, Mom, your body is so pregnasable?"
Dongmei said: "The conditions at that time were not good, whether it was food, use, or accommodation and living conditions, there was no way to compare with now......
Why is it that now that the conditions are better, the life is better, the food is better, the clothes are better, and the use is good, you children still can't conceive dolls?"
Hearing this, Nana said curiously: "It seems that I can't conceive one of them, who else can't conceive?"
Dongmei imagines the daughters of her good sisters, and she gives Nana an example.
She said: "Song Na, the eldest daughter of Song Nian's daughter-in-law, has been married for two years and can't conceive a child......
Hongxia's eldest daughter Li Jing and youngest daughter Li Mao have also been married for more than a year and can't conceive children, what's going on?"
Hearing this, Nana's eyes widened, and she said, "No, I originally thought that I would not be able to spoil the child in a hurry......
But I didn't expect that so many girls like me couldn't conceive children?"
Dongmei thought for a while and said, "Nana, haven't you noticed that you women who can't conceive dolls are all oil women who work on the front line of oil?"
Hearing this, Nana felt that what her mother said was right, and she said, "Mom, don't say it, it's true." “
Dongmei guessed and said: "Nana, do you say that it is possible that due to the place where you work, the smell of oil is relatively strong, and it has a direct impact on your girl's body, especially this pregnancy?"
Nana thought for a while, and she said, "However, there are also women in our unit who are particularly easy to get pregnant." ”
The waitress who once lived in a dormitory with Nana, Liu Jizong's wife, a round-faced sister, is particularly easy to get pregnant, and has already beaten Liu Jizong with three children.
Suddenly, Dongmei had an idea in her heart.
She said, "Nana, can you put down your work first, take half a year off and come back, and get pregnant at home?"
Hearing this, Nana was stunned.
She had heard of specialized studies, specialized in work, and specialized in business, but she had never heard of specialized pregnancy.
Nana smiled and said, "Mom, do you think I went to the leader to ask for leave, saying that I was going home to conceive a child, and the leader would grant me leave?"
Dongmei said: "What's not allowed then, you have to go home to give birth, and you have a child, and you have not given birth, why don't you go home and have a baby." ”
In fact, the reason why Nana doesn't want to take leave is mainly because Nana's career is on the rise.
She didn't want to give up on herself because of having a baby, and she had already started her career.
Nana explained to her mother, saying, "Mom, if you insist on asking the leader for leave, you can actually ask for it."
It's just that I think that if I come back from leave, the position of the director of the material library that I have just been promoted may be replaced by a new female worker. ”
Hearing that Nana was for her career and didn't want to take leave to come back to get pregnant, Dongmei persuaded Nana and said, "Nana, you listen to your mother, this world is a world dominated by men, we are women, and women must do women's things......
And what is the most important thing for a young woman, one is to have a baby, and the other is to have a career. ”
In Dongmei's view, giving birth to a baby is obviously much more important than her career.
Nana thought for a moment, and she said, "However, if I really take a leave of absence to go home, my career will really be gone." ”
Dongmei said: "You can't have both, as a woman, at her most golden age, I think it's the right choice to give up her career and choose to have a baby."
What's more, the fibroids in your uterus are constantly growing, threatening your uterus and your life at all times, and you can't afford to delay it at all. ”
Hearing this, Nana hesitated.
She said, "Mom, you made me think about it. ”
Dong Meirong couldn't let Nana think about it, she said: "Nana, you didn't see the fibroid in your uterus during your physical examination this year, how old has it grown?"
When she mentioned the fibroids in her uterus, Nana was so worried that she was dying.
She said bitterly: "During this year's physical examination, the doctor found that the uterine fibroid had grown to the size of a walnut. ”
Hearing this, Dongmei chuckled in her heart.
She said, "Nana, I remember, when you first found the fibroids, they were only the size of a grain of rice......
Then, it grew to the size of a raisin......
Then, it grew to the size of cherry tomatoes......
But now, it has grown to the size of a walnut, and it has grown so fast.
If you continue at this rate, once it grows to the size of an apple, it will definitely affect your pregnancy.
It will even affect the development of the fetus in your belly......"
Hearing this, Nana was scared.
She thought about it for a long time and said, "Mom, you don't think this will work."
Fang Fang and I worked hard for another three months, and if we still couldn't get pregnant, I would ask for leave to come back and conceive a baby. “
Dongmei knows that Nana is a very ambitious girl.
Although Dongmei didn't want Nana to delay these three months of pregnancy for the sake of her career.
But she knew that if Nana gave up her career now, she might as well kill her.
So, Dongmei compromised a step.
"Yes, but three months at most," she said.
If you still can't get pregnant within three months, then you should hurry up and ask your family to come back.
If the leader doesn't give you leave, your father and I will go up to your leader. “
Hearing that her mother and father were going to go up to her leader, Nana hurriedly said, "Don't, don't, I will definitely be able to ask for leave, you can rest assured." “
Hearing that Nana promised herself, Dongmei said, "Since you have to work hard to get pregnant for three months, then you will go to the Xunyi Coal Mine tomorrow to find Fang Fang." “
Hearing that tomorrow, my mother let me go to Xunyi, and Nana said reluctantly: "Mother, I only came back from the mountains today, so you let me play in the provincial capital for a few days......
Let me eat some food in the provincial capital, buy a few beautiful clothes, and then go to the middle of the city to find a prescription. “
Hearing that there were a total of ten days off, Nana actually had to play for a few more days before she went to find Fang Fang in the middle of the year.
Dongmei directly refused and said: "Time is so tight, if you are not in a hurry, I will be anxious for you."
Where is there still time for you to play, don't think about playing anymore, go pack your things now, early tomorrow morning, I will send you to the bus station, you hurry to Xunyi Coal Mine, find me Fang Fang. “
Seeing her mother's strength, Nana could only admit it.
She knew that her mother did this for her own good.
She said: "Okay, the king let the minister die, and the minister has to die, then I will go to Xunyi tomorrow to find Fang Fang and try to get pregnant." “