Chapter 224: Is This Trick Really Working?
Hongxia, who was calm just now, suddenly roared hysterically and said, "Since you can't smash that woman's thief ship, what do you let me do?"
Dongmei looked at Hongxia, who was almost crazy, patted her shoulder, hugged her tightly in her arms and said: "Flies don't bite seamless eggs, smart women, they won't make sacrifices for no reason, instead of arguing with that woman, it's better to win back your husband's heart little by little." Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info"
Hearing this, Hongxia suddenly fell silent.
After a while, Hongxia broke out again, she yelled: "No, it must be my Li Jianjun, who covets Li Li's body, so he cheated, the problem is not Li Li, it must be in my family Li Jianjun, I want to go to him, I want to divorce him." “
"Are you stupid, do you think divorce will solve the problem?"
Hongxia fell silent again, and she suddenly cried bitterly and said: "Dongmei, you are right, if I divorce Li Jianjun, I am a housewife, one has no job, two has no income, I am alone with two children, how should I live, how should I raise them?"
As she spoke, Hongxia cried.
At this time, Dongmei saw from Hongxia's eyes what Hongxia was really worried about.
Actually, she didn't want to divorce Li Jianjun, but she was afraid that Li Jianjun would divorce herself.
Dongmei comforted Hongxia and said: "Hongxia, men and women are different, men's cheating may just be to satisfy their carnal desires, so don't be afraid that he will divorce you, because he never thought of divorcing you." “
Hongxia cried very sadly, she said: "Dongmei, I'm not like you, you have the ability, you can do business, you can make money to support yourself and your children, if Li Jianjun doesn't want me anymore, I'm not only a person with no skills, but also lazy, what should I rely on to make a living?"
Hearing Hongxia's words, Dongmei fully felt Hongxia's helplessness and felt the despair of a housewife.
At the same time, Dongmei also sighed, Hongxia is the same as herself, although she said briskly, if her husband cheats, she will definitely divorce him, but when she is really facing this matter, a series of realities and practical problems are in front of you, and you have to give up your thoughts and choose to face reality.
Hongxia and Dongmei are both traditional women, in their eyes, a husband with a stable job is the sky, if the husband cheats one day and there are other women, then the sky will fall.
Dongmei knew that at this time, no matter how much she comforted Hongxia, there was no way to make Hongxia quiet.
So, she said directly: "Hongxia, don't be afraid, if Li Jianjun really divorces you, then I will teach you to do business, and we will sell steamed buns together in the farmers' market, and if you can't do it in a month, you can earn seven or eight thousand, and you can definitely support your family." “
Hongxia was already crying and her eyes were red, she said: "When I was nineteen years old, I sang in the county troupe, Li Jianjun fell in love with me, I didn't agree, he cried and shouted to come to my house to propose, now, I am old, he has a new love, do you say he is still a human?"
Dongmei let out a long sigh, although people nowadays advertise free love, thinking that only couples who are in free love can go a long way and live a life with peace of mind.
However, on the other hand, Hongxia and Li Jianjun came together in free love, but they still had problems.
And he and Wei Guo, don't mention free love, but if they are not in love, they are directly ordered on the board.
Although it feels incredible when I think about it now, after so many years, I and Weiguo seem to be much happier and more loving than those who are in free love.
Dongmei comforted Hongxia and said, "Let's not care if Li Jianjun is a human or not, let's take care of ourselves first." “
"I can't get better at all, what do you say?"
"In all things, there is a bad thing in a good thing, and a good thing in a bad thing. On the surface, this thing is a bad thing, but if we look at it in the long river of life, maybe it's not a bad thing?"
"How can it not be a bad thing?"
"According to me, since Li Li can be good with so many men, and stink with so many men, it means that she is a woman who likes the new and hates the old, and is watery Yanghua, don't look at the current Li Li, and your Li Jianjun are as good as lacquer, if you can't last a month, the two will break up?"
Hongxia disagreed: "I don't believe it. “
Dongmei said: "Everything, don't recognize it so true, have you forgotten the examples I gave you before about the defense of the country?"
Hongxia recalled the example of Wei Guo and said, "I forgot, you can tell me again." “
Dongmei said: "When Wei Guo was transferred from drill two to drill one, no one thought it was a good thing, but in the end, it turned out that Wei Guo was transferred to the right place." “
Hongxia said: "When you were drilling two, you were nervous to live in a tin house, not to mention, after moving to drill one, you would live in a cadre building in a few years." “
"And after moving to Diamond One, I Dongmei, a rural woman and a housewife, actually had her own business in this small farmers' market, do you think there is a good thing in the bad thing?"
Hongxia nodded and said, "You're right. “
Dongmei then gave an example and said: "At the beginning, when Wei Guo was an engineer in the drilling team, his team was drilling exploration wells, and the benefits didn't know how good it was, but Wei Guo was transferred to a cementing team with poor efficiency and no work. “
Hongxia stopped crying and said, "Our family Li Jianjun also helped prevent Weiguo from being transferred to the cementing team at that time. “
Dongmei said: "Yes, but Wei Guo was finally transferred to the cementing team, he was in the cementing team, for a year and a half, there was no work, no income, all relied on me, a mother-in-law, selling food in the farmers' market, to feed a family of four, but in the end, the benefits of the cementing team suddenly became better, and it was so good, everyone wants to enter, but they can't get in, you say this, is it a good thing in the bad things." “
Hongxia's expression changed from sadness just now to a lot calmer, and she said, "That's it." “
Dongmei continued: "So Hongxia, let me tell you, don't be anxious, let alone excited, first observe carefully, wait and see, learn to be patient, and wait for the opportunity, if Li Jianjun and Li Li are separated, then let's pretend that we don't know anything, don't blame Li Jianjun, and don't threaten Li Jianjun with divorce, we will be good to him as always." People are not stupid, when he finds out that you are the woman who has always been good to him, he will guard you for the rest of his life and never leave you again. “
Hongxia's face showed relaxation, and she asked, "Then what if Li Jianjun and Li Li continue to get along and never separate?"
Dongmei said: "That's so easy." “
Hongxia asked wonderingly, "How can it be done?"
Dongmei quietly lay on Hongxia's ear and told her her her method.
When Hongxia heard Dongmei's method, she couldn't help but be taken aback, frowned, and asked in surprise: "Is this trick really good?"