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Shi Jianren did not say disdainfully: "That's right, the correct concept must be the iron bones that do not escape in danger, and the mighty spirit will exist between heaven and earth rather than be broken and broken, whether it is for the sake of the nation or the country, you should fight and bleed to the last breath, but it can be said lightly, turn it upside down, and replace it with you really standing in the sea of corpses and blood, when the steel bars are tired of metal, what about people?" This is like life, not overnight gritted teeth can survive, even as soon as you close your eyes and die as a ghost, this is a whole life and decades to move forward in the ordinary and trivial struggle, some people compare life to suffering, but compared to the daily suffering from the rain of arrows and stones in the fortress crumbling and tormenting, almost no end in sight, and every day may be crushed, and then slaughtered by the city, such a huge physical and mental pressure, ask yourself, adhere to these two words, can everyone here do it？”

There was almost a suffocating silence in the studio.

It's easy to comment on others, it's so easy to assert right and wrong, but when you really touch the bloody fracture, you know what cruelty is.

Looking up at the calm-speaking young man on the stage, it seemed that everyone easily believed that he could do it, but what about himself?

Shi Jianren did not want the atmosphere to become solemn: "This is just an extreme example, the major right and wrong can be so difficult to make a sharp edge from the perspective of different people, not to mention the ordinary life we live in, standing in the different perspectives of individuals and countries, it is easy to produce such a conflict of different choices, you have to find a perfect option, so that everyone is satisfied with the option, that is basically impossible, standing at the national level to promote the major policy, maybe touching a corner of the pain, regardless of system reform, Real estate reform, industrial reform, land reform, any reform involving the people's livelihood will inevitably hurt some levels, this relationship between the overall situation and the part, and then rise to the topic of democracy and autocracy, you can write a big paper, I won't say much, just talk about what you should do in it?"

The female civil servant had actually listened attentively, and nodded vigorously with wide eyes.

Shi Jianren smiled: "When you go to the zoo and see a huge elephant standing in front of you, there is no railing keeper to take pictures, except for a very few people or ignorant children who will be frightened and turn around and run, most adults still want to stay in close contact, what will you do?"

Ni Xinglan sat close and couldn't help but answer: "Ah, take a deep breath! Tell yourself that it's not dangerous, be careful and touch it!"

The female civil servant also nodded vigorously: "Yes, don't panic! Ask the keeper what I should do......

Niu Minglei was naughty: "Buy some banana fruits! Don't look at me so fat, if the fruits are served in place, the elephant trunk can still hold me up comfortably!"

The few audience laughed, and the more focused and alert Liu Zi became: "Oh, you mean that the size of the elephant is placed where it is impossible to change, prompting yourself to make corresponding adjustments for my use?"

Shi Jianren admired everyone's quick thinking: "I'll just make a simple analogy, how can there be so much extension, but when you encounter this kind of thing, your first reaction is not to take a deep breath and tell yourself not to panic, adults will do this, right? This is instinct, so why can't you do it at work?" When European and American countries cultivate talents in economic and political aspects, they will often mention a word self-regulation, self-regulation, if you can self-regulate your emotions, elephants are actually docile, as long as you don't trigger the madness of the scales, it is very safe in the case of the guidance of the breeder, so you have warned yourself from common sense, and then calm down and try to touch, the previous fear will be gone, of course, if there is a little fruit or something, maybe you can really sit on the elephant's trunk......"

The female civil servant was a little thoughtful, and Shi Zheng guided again: " If the guard who has been tempered and cut off by thousands of tempers, if he can regulate his emotions more, in the torment, he is not thinking about how to do after the pessimistic city is broken, but macroscopically judging how much meaning his defense of the city has, how long it can be supported, and whether he can use guerrilla warfare to drag the enemy army more flexibly, if he has a broad mind and a clear mind, maybe the direction of history is another world, back to your reality, when you think that your actual work conflicts with policies or values, look at it from a different angle, stand in the perspective of the country, the government, and the department, and see why there is such a policyAnd then combined with the difficult situation, the audience group to think about why they have this kind of contradiction, is it clearer, can see the way to solve the problem? with tolerance and sensible attitude to solve the problem, this is a high-quality person should have the quality, there are many ways to solve the problem, but the most basic must be to take a deep breath, adjust their emotions, calm down, and think in a scientific and reasonable way, instead of blood surging up, and acting with will. ”

Liu Zi said coldly: "But women are easy to follow their feelings!"

The female civil servant was categorical: "No! I think Mr. Shi is right, I have found some keys, I know how to be calm, I know how to think, or that sentence, this world is not a society to adapt to itself, you have to adapt to society by yourself, right?"

Shi Jianren shook his head a little: "If you completely go with the flow, you will become unprincipled, what is recommended in our traditional culture is the golden mean, adhere to your own goals and attitudes, but use the method of adapting to the social environment to strive to achieve, take a middle balance point, and be able to insist on doing a good job to be considered a success, the social atmosphere may be a little bad in the range you see, but the ancients have long said that living with evil people, such as entering the abalone, for a long time without smelling its smell, but also with it, the truth of this sentence is very simple, right?" Don't stay in a stinky place for too long, and believe in these distorted ideas, because those who are of low quality wish you could become as distorted as they are. ”

The guest widened his eyes and sighed: "It's a bit maverick, it's really not an easy thing." ”

Niu Minglei couldn't help it: "If you can do it casually, the world is full of successful people, don't talk about you, a civil servant, we talk about cross talk, isn't it expensive to insist on this, insist on your own craft, insist on being a professional craftsman, know how many pounds and taels you have, and you have to self-regulate your emotions at any time, otherwise you really think you are a master......" said and arched his hand to Shi Jianren from afar: "Although you are also my agent, but only now can I understand your painstaking reasoning, thank you Mr. Shi!"

Yes, the original column design was that Niu Fatzi and Shi Zhengzheng were not pleasing to each other, but today this one rarely took the initiative to be polite.

Think about it at the beginning, when Shi Jianren first saw Niu Minglei, he was a little blind, thinking that he was a sincere person, but this craftsman has been rolling and climbing on the rivers and lakes for decades, and he has become so slippery that he has become fine, so he began to his tail once he became popular, and it was difficult for middle-aged successful people with a strong self-concept to be convinced.

In short, after this paragraph was recorded, many staff members were applauding and nodding, and they all bowed their hands to Shi Jianren: "Teacher Shi, you have benefited a lot, you are really the key, a good key when you meet a big event and make a choice......

The key may not be able to open the lock, but at least it provides the right direction, which is better than messing around with a hammer.

Shi Jian Ren calmly thanked everyone for their hard work, and invited everyone to have supper, and also suggested going to high-end places, not for show, mainly to create a good environment for everyone, and have a good rest at night.

As a result, from the beginning to the end, he just sat there and never stopped sending text messages and receiving emails: "Are you good at this kind of thing?

There was a burst of laughter in the studio again, Shi Jianren said that it is one thing, or some women or simple staff have not been to the place where the legend is drunk and golden, how can there be curiosity and excitement, but worried about safety, Wang Qian scoffed: "We all retreated from that scene last night, or that sentence, so many of us go to consume, that is the God of the sky, it is too late for people to be happy, how can it be possible to pick quarrels and provoke trouble?" Believe me...... That's right, I'm an expert in this kind of thing!"

The audience laughed as if another entertainment show had been opened, Ni Xinglan happily pulled Shi Jianren away, but Shi Jianren paid attention to Liu Ziyue, who also seemed to have got the key, and the thoughtful and casual expression before became a lot more smiling, and when so many people cheered and laughed, he took his mobile phone and walked slowly to the corner window as if he was going to call someone.

Shi Jianren knew that this call was very important.

Ni Xinglan looked along his eyes: "You look at her again!"

Shi Jianren didn't talk nonsense to her: "Let's go, I can't go back to the hotel, if I don't go back to the hotel, I won't stay up late today to bother me, right?"

Ni Xinglan gave him a fresh and refined eyebrow: "Got it! Isn't it that you would rather give up your ego in order to be perfect, alas, fortunately it's not a war era, and it is estimated that you are also a master of abandoning your wife! What kind of life do I have, fall in love with such a person as you! Forget it, don't bother with you, we will eat supper by ourselves and then go back, this doesn't violate your code of upright and gentleman, right?"

In fact, they are slowly testing where Shi Jianren's bottom line is.

When the two of them were tightly wrapped, they found a random place outside to eat some sweets, and returned to the waterworks, but they were a little surprised to find that Sun Lincai was sitting in the security room and chatting and laughing with the security guards, and when he saw the factory director's car coming back, he took the initiative to greet and open the door, and helped cover the fact that there was a star in the car, Ni Xinglan praised again: "Your male secretary is really better than Liu Qing!" The hint is very strong.

Shi Jianren smiled: "He's not here for this little thing!"