280. High EQ means that speaking makes people comfortable
Ten minutes later, Shi Jianren sat in the back seat of an Audi car, and in these ten minutes, he only had time to help Ji Ruotang to the room to rest, and his aunt and grandmother were shaking when she walked, and when she came out of the restaurant, Shi Jianren also helped her get a blueberry cake by the way.
Because Song Lan was obviously a little anxious: "Now it's a few minutes later, let's hurry up and go over immediately, the old leader may not have rested yet, you go over and write a word for the old leader." ”
Now the other party's attitude almost has the smell of chaos, which makes Shi Jianren even more determined to infer before, half a year ago, he felt that this Song leader would have an accident sooner or later, I don't know if it is the pit now, because he is actually not familiar with the politics and officialdom of today's society, but judging according to the previous ideas, the other party should finally have an accident.
If he is a strategist around the other party, in addition to the flash people who immediately fall down and scatter, it is estimated that he will have to desperately admonish and find a more effective way, but the other party knows that his calligraphy is acceptable, and he can't shirk it, and he guesses with his toes that he is in a hurry to go to the doctor to pull himself to cater to a leader who likes calligraphy, maybe Song Lan's habit of loving calligraphy is to cater to the people above.
What can I do?
Xiao Buyi can't wait to put on sunglasses and bow his head incognito, the big tree that has nothing to do with his fart will fall, if he falls down and hits the flowers and plants, it will be too cost-effective, but he can only sit in the car helplessly.
Song Lan sat in the car and regained a lot of calm, leaning on the seat, his fingers crossed on his lower abdomen, his thumbs flying lightly, basically in the space of his own thinking, except for casually asking a few words about Shi Jianren's surname, where is his home, and who is the calligrapher, in addition to understanding the basic information, he completely ignored him...... At most, it is a tool for writing calligraphy, and this diǎn is exactly the same as his son.
Shi Jianren laughed a little in his heart.
But then I'm going to meet one of the biggest officials in the first twenty years, and although I don't know who it is, I think it's an eye-opener?
As a result, the combination of the two cars moved forward quickly, and Shi Jian Ren's sense of space quickly lost its directional position, and then obviously passed through some areas guarded by soldiers, and arrived at a courtyard, which was not luxurious, but absolutely quiet, and the secretary in the co-pilot's seat jumped down first, ▽dǐng▽diǎn▽小▽ said, .⊙.±os_ (); After a while, he turned around and whispered in the window of the car over there, Song Lan went down again, but he would come back in ten minutes at most, and Song Lan, who was sitting next to him again, was sweating profusely, and the secretary's voice also trembled to guide the driver to turn around and go back to the hotel.
In other words, he can't use his favorite tricks at all, and others will reject them.
The "calligraphy tool", which has remained motionless, can glimpse Song Lan's hands on both sides of his body, especially the right hand here, under the background of the black leather seat, uncontrollably opening and clenching fists, repeatedly, and then accompanied by even more irrepressible shaking.
This is a reaction to inner fear or nervousness that can only occur when the depth of fear is very high.
Shi Jianren felt like a bystander, an invisible bystander, looking at the inevitable cause and effect embodied in the other party.
If he didn't spoil his son, if he educated his children well, if he completely focused on his work and worked hard for his career, even if he was fame and fortune and greedy for a high position, he would not soon leave a huge handle, with Shi Jianren's sense of Song Qingyun, the hole dug by that son-in-law brother was really big, enough for this father to fill.
Shi Jianren does not believe in the theory of cause and effect in Buddhism, but self-inflicted and self-inflicted is also an eternal law, as soon as he is not ignored by others The embarrassment and humiliation of being ignored will take him out of the experience. It is extremely rare to experience this knowledge that was previously only taught by the Master's words and deeds, and to experience it in reality.
The secretary once turned his head and stopped: "Do you want to ......" glanced at Shi Jianren, Shi Jianren really wanted to give himself an invisibility mantra that was as urgent as a law, but unfortunately he couldn't do it.
And Song Lan only slowly raised his hand to stop the secretary from continuing to say anything.
It was in this silence that the vehicle returned to the Beijing Office.
In fact, for Shi Jianren, he didn't know anything, and no one said anything to him after getting off the bus, so he slipped outside the hotel by himself, and found a snack shop on this rather lively street and fried two eggs fried rice, and told him to add more diǎn kimchi, and carry it back to the room, but he "happened" to meet Director Qin who was patrolling on the floor, and the director of the Beijing Office in his fifties complained enthusiastically: "What? I came all the way to Pingjing, and the food in the Beijing Office is not delicious, and I haven't kept your stomach yet, so I have to open a small stove by myself?"
Shi Jianren knew it: "I don't know why, I went out for a spin, and you didn't have time to eat the good wine and food on the canteen table, and now you have to supplement the supper, and my family leader is also hungry." As he spoke, he opened the door, and Director Qin, who was signaling with his head, walked over with a smile, and he didn't know how long he had been waiting here, and he was still not satisfied with this response.
But Shi Jianren closed the door, and as soon as he saw the drunken girl who had taken off her leather suit and lambskin pleated skirt across the two beds, humming and chirping, she was still pulling her shirt and so on, and felt that she was blind, so she heard the door knocked softly on the door of the room.
The first reaction was to quickly pull up the sheet and wrap the girl, and by the way, wipe the hand stained with fried rice oil on the sheet, and when he came back to open the door, it was Director Qin: "Oh, I asked the kitchen, it's not too late, there are still diǎn snacks left, do you want to scramble two more eggs and noodles?"
This is indeed a person with a clear mentality, whether it is for himself or others, he has to have a general understanding of what is going on, and Shi Jianren also pushed the boat along the way: "Okay, then thank you, wait for me for a while." He went back and carefully got the air conditioner and windows in order, poured a glass of water and left a small note on the bedside table, and then went downstairs with Director Qin, who had been standing outside.
In modern terms, this Director Qin should be the kind with extremely high emotional intelligence, and he is very comfortable with this kind of person, without pretending to be vulgar or roundabout about his profundity, he just took a bottle of wine appropriately: "I drank the leftover good wine with my friends a few days ago, don't you mind?"
This kind of natural style is familiar, Shi Jianren is learning: "This must be good wine, yes! just smell it, taste it......" He also made the enthusiasm of the drunkard, which made Director Qin laugh hahaha: "I thought Miss Ji was your girlfriend, but it seems that Brother Shi has always been polite to her, is it really your leader?"
Therefore, this person who can talk can't help but speak freely when Shi Jianren was originally interested in going around in circles and doing Tai Chi: "I feel depressed when I talk about this, is it that there is no pure communication between men and women nowadays, and men must yell at falling in love when they see women? A little persistent, caring treatment is ambiguous to women, seducing women? What kind of world is this!"
Director Qin may really be a professional habit of finding a topic, and after listening to Shi Jianren's fierce reaction, he paused for a moment before laughing: "It seems that Brother Shi has a lot of complaints about this matter...... Today's society is selfish, greedy for enjoyment and **, young people are flaunting everything as a play, no sense of responsibility, so there will be such an atmosphere, will feel that your approach is different, but the pure self-purity, the body is not afraid of the shadow slanted, if you are innocent, even if something comes to the head, it will not be in chaos, right?"
Hey, Shi Jianren has met the most chatty one since he went down the mountain, and he couldn't help but smile: "I don't have a half-diǎn personal relationship with Minister Song, if I have to talk about the relationship, it should be that his son has asked me to write calligraphy twice, and there are small contacts in the business, and I may be writing calligraphy for someone today, but after I arrived, I didn't enter the door, we came back, I saw this, you are an interesting person, I don't chew the root of my tongue behind my back, I drank this glass of wine, I am greedy to take the side dishes and go up to honor the leader, okay?" ”
Director Qin didn't smile anymore, and looked at Shi Jianren with blazing eyes: "Little brother, you are also a very interesting person, can you accompany me to drink two more glasses?"
Get up and close the door to the private room behind you.
Shi Jianren really doesn't want to fight with any officialdom.
There's not even a bone residue left of that thing. (To be continued.) )