[125] Persuasion
I haven't been to Wang Yunlai's teahouse for more than ten days to sit down, and after Lin Gang waited for things to be a little easier, he took a break and came to the teahouse. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć ļ½ļ½ļ½ļ½
"Lin Gang, I'm really busy now, I haven't seen you for a long time. Seeing that Lin Gang had finally appeared, Su Feng hurriedly got up to greet him, and made a cup of tea and handed it to him.
Lin Gang took the tea: "Sister-in-law, don't be so polite, always be so polite, and treat me like a guest." ā
"Don't your own brothers make tea for you? Come and sit down, I have something to tell you." Su Feng beckoned Lin Gang to sit down as he spoke.
"I've just been out for a while, I'll be back later, you sit down for a while, and we'll talk." After Su Feng sat down, he picked up the remote control and turned on the TV.
"Called Yunlai to call, invited a few classmates to play cards, I haven't played cards for a long time, and my hands are still a little itchy. After Lin Gang sat down, he took the phone and prepared to call Wang Yunlai.
"Don't worry, I'll be back later, and when he comes, I'll ask him to arrange it." Su Feng didn't want to let go of such a good opportunity. Wang Yunlai is not at home, other classmates have not come over, and uncle Su Ji has not come over, so it is just a good time to try Lin Gang's attitude towards marriage and his impression of Su E.
"Lin Gang, are you in your thirties?" Su Feng pretended not to understand Lin Gang and Yao Rou's experience, and deliberately asked Lin Gang to bring up the reason why he was not married, so she persuaded her, and naturally introduced Su E to Lin Gang in the persuasion.
"Yes, your children are all in school, and I am still alone, you see how big the gap is. Lin Gang jokingly sighed.
"Why haven't you gotten married yet, do you not want to start a family, or are you waiting for someone who is destined?" Su Feng said while secretly observing Lin Gang's emotions, so as to plan his next words.
"My sister-in-law doesn't know, the past is unbearable, mentioning these things, my heart is broken, sister-in-law, you don't know the reason, don't understand the ups and downs of the plot, I want to talk about it, enough to write a heart-wrenching love tragedy book. Lin Gang sighed with emotion, and at the same time returned to his thoughts of missing Liu Ruyan.
Liu Ruyan's sweet smile and affectionate eyes have been deeply engraved in Lin Gang's heart, no matter what happens, this deep imprint in his heart cannot be erased.
"Can you tell me, I mean, if it doesn't make you sad, can you tell me about it? Maybe if you spit out the anguish in your heart, you will be relieved. Su Feng continued to guide him to tell the previous bits and pieces, so that he could bring up Su E's matter in a timely manner.
"Well, you're not an outsider anyway. Lin Gang put himself in the coffee shop, the two had friction, met Shang Yuemei and met Liu Ruyan again at the party, how Shang Yuemei matched it, how the two expressed their love in the rain, how Liu Ruyan helped him tear down the family's broken house and build a two-story building, how he was in a car accident a few days before he was ready to get married, how Liu Ruyan raised a huge amount of money to operate on herself, and how she disappeared, How did Xia Yuhe tell the truth, 1510 told it, and Su Feng couldn't help but burst into tears, with tears in his eyes.
After Lin Gang finished speaking, Su Feng wiped away the tears on his face. said: "Lin Gang, let me tell you as your sister-in-law, your relationship will be fruitless after all." Su Feng stopped and looked at Yang Zhenggang, wanting to see what changes in his expression, and seeing Lin Gang looking at her a little confused, he continued.
"Lin Gang, since ancient times, marriage is the most important crime, in terms of identity, we all grew up in the countryside, and many concepts are very different from those in the city. Su Feng stopped, looked at Lin Gang, and saw that Lin Gang was also looking at her, as if he was touched, so he continued to help him analyze.
"If there is a difference in philosophy, there will be a big difference in the treatment of lifestyle, and once there is a difference, it will cause an emotional rift, and finally the rift will lead to a breakup or divorce to a certain extent. ā
"My sister-in-law did a good analysis, but I don't think we would have had that kind of situation, if there had been no car accidents. Lin Gang disagreed with Su Feng's opinion, Liu Ruyan is not an ordinary market girl.
"Don't say it too early, ideals are ideals, real life has the helplessness of real life, in terms of status, you and she can be said to be people of two worlds, first of all, she was born in a high-level family, although she lost her noble halo due to the divorce of her parents, but in terms of her education, the top students of famous universities, the middle management of the company, the white-collar class of the city, you have invisibly formed her strength and your weakness, you will always live in her shadow, which will lead to the further expansion of your inferiority complex, in the shadow of this inferiority, will you grow oldSpeaking of this, Su Feng deliberately stopped to see how Lin Gang expressed his position.
"My sister-in-law said it well, I also had this idea at the time, the gap between the two is too big, but after she took out so much money to help the family build a house, we really love each other, and I love her for a lifetime without regrets. Lin Gang disagreed with Su Feng's analysis, love is selfless, and during the time the two got along, there was no crack, which is enough to show that there is no distinction between high and low in love.
"You are still in the stage of love, all the shortcomings will be hidden intentionally or unintentionally, and after marriage, all the shortcomings will be exposed, and she built a house for your family, and bought a house in the provincial capital, but you didn't pay a penny, you will have a huge pressure, this pressure will wear out your sharpness, so that you will be burdened with a huge emotional debt for the rest of your life, so that you will never be able to raise your head in front of her, in this case, as a man, can you be like this for the rest of your life? Once you can't bear this kind of pressure, you will rebel against even some small things, and you will fight back, and after counterattacking, it will form extremes, isn't it also a tragedy?" Su Feng really spent a lot of effort in order to convince Lin Gang, and in the past few days, she searched for articles about the view of the portal, studied it carefully, and finally allowed her to tell these truths eloquently.
"Alas, the past is already a dream. Yang Zhenggang said bitterly, mentioning the past, his heart became more and more miserable.
"In my opinion, this is not necessarily a bad thing, you don't always sink here and can't extricate yourself, plus Liu Ruyan went to the United States, it is impossible to come back, she should say that it is the moon in the water, what she wants is just a fantasy, as your sister-in-law, I still hope that you will come back to reality and find a girl like our family with the same identity and status as you, so that you can live a safe and secure life. ā
Lin Gang thought to himself, don't look at Su Feng's cultural level is not very high, but when it comes to reasoning, it is really one by one, these opinions, from the perspective of ordinary people, are indeed reasonable, in today's society, it is already a kind of atmosphere to pay attention to the right person.