Tong Xiuli's lack of motherhood actually has a lot to do with the Wu family.

In the Wu family, Grandma Wu and Wu Changhe are too capable.

When she first married into the Wu family, Tong Xiuli was actually mentally prepared to work, because when she was in her mother's family before, she did not work less.

But she found that on the Wu family's side, Grandma Wu basically did all the housework, and even if she was too busy, she would not call her, but her sister-in-law Wu Minxia.

As for the work in the field, it was basically contracted by Wu Changhe.

The most critical reason lies in Wu Minqing.

Wu Minqing loves her too much, and she loves to play too much, she will pull her up as soon as she goes out to play, and also teaches her how to be lazy at home.

"Don't worry about those things, just have my mother and my sister do it, you just have to hang out with me. ”

"When they ask you to work, you say you won't, or you deliberately do it so that they can't stand it. ”

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Similar words, Wu Minqing taught her a lot, anyway, the implication is that you don't care about anything, just go out with me.

This is exactly what Tong Xiuli wants.

As early as when she was in her mother's house, she already understood a "truth": what to do, try to keep yourself from suffering!

Over time, Tong Xiuli got used to doing nothing in the Wu family, including taking a baby and raising a baby.

In such a situation, if someone often talked about her and reprimanded her a few times, the situation might get better, but there was no such thing in the Wu family.

In the Wu family, Grandma Wu is well-known for her good temper, she just works, no matter how she scolds, and if she is too busy, she will at most just ask her daughter for help.

And Wu Changhe is a well-known stuffy gourd, and he is still very spoiled to his son.

In his opinion, as long as his son is happy, it is better for his daughter-in-law to be lazy than not to have a daughter-in-law.

Tong Xiuli was spoiled like this.

It wasn't until now that Tong Xiuli knew that she was so unbearable in the minds of her children.

She was really hurt.

"Xiao Zheng ......"

Tong Xiuli still wanted to argue, but she couldn't find any reason.

She wasn't good at words.

As for why Tong Xiuli is like this, Wu Xiaozheng can analyze some reasons according to clues, but it is not thorough.

Because he doesn't like it, and because he is far away and goes less, Wu Xiaozheng is not very familiar with his grandmother's house, which lacks family affection, and he doesn't know his mother's growth environment.

And he has no way of knowing his parents' pillow private words.

He didn't know what kind of strange things his heartless and strange father had instigated his mother.

For now, he only has a hearty feeling.

It's a pleasure that has been suppressed for a long time, and it's completely vented.

But after venting, he has to put an end to the matter, after all, his purpose is not to vent, but to make the family harmonious.

What made him feel fortunate was that in the process of venting just now, he was not angry or angry, and he just laid out the facts and reasoned.

And, throughout the process, his tone and mood were calm.

It seems that my self-cultivation has improved again!

After a little consideration, Wu Xiaozheng continued to explain the truth.

"According to the current conditions of our family, there will be no less food for you and less for you to wear in the future, and even what you want to play and enjoy, I will try to satisfy you, but this is not without conditions. ”

Tong Xiuli saw that her son was talking so seriously, so she stopped thinking about wanting to defend herself, and wanted to hear what the conditions were.

"My condition is that you need to do a little bit of motherhood. ”

The reason is very simple, if you don't fulfill your responsibilities as mothers, then we don't have to fulfill our obligations as children, or in other words, we don't have the intention of fulfilling our obligations. ”

Tong Xiuli: "......"

Son, is this threatening me?

Is it that if I don't do well, he won't care about me?

How can you do that, the family is already living a good life!

"Xiao Zheng ......"

Tong Xiuli wanted to speak and stopped, she really didn't know what to say.

Wu Xiaozheng didn't expect her to say anything, and continued to express her views and attitudes.

"I'm not demanding, I've grown up, I don't need to take care of you, but you have to take care of my sister. ”

"You have to take care of her food and clothing, you must make her feel that you care about her and love her, don't let her dislike you, alienate you, at least don't let her not be close to you. ”

Tong Xiuli: "......"

How do I feel that this is a father educating his daughter?

Wu Xiaozheng really treats his mother as a daughter in education, and it is the kind of education that is serious.

In his opinion, it is necessary to treat such a mother sooner or later, otherwise she will always go in her own way with peace of mind, without regard for the feelings of others.

It's not going to go on like this, you have to come this once!

He decided to put a little more pressure on her.

"You think about it, if you think you can't do it, then I can give you a sum of money, and you go back to your mother's house. ”

"I'm not going back. ”

Tong Xiuli almost blurted out this sentence.

Wu Xiaozheng looked at her in surprise.

Her mother's family just dislikes her like this?

However, Wu Xiaozheng also felt that his grandmother's house was indeed impersonal, and after he went there twice, he had no desire to go again.

Moreover, what impressed him was that a few days after his parents were imprisoned, his two fierce uncles brought people to the door and almost smashed the Wu family.

It should be about the same today, and hopefully there won't be a next time!

It's really uncomfortable for a son to educate his mother.

"Let's go, let's get in the car, and I'll take you to see our new house. ”

The three houses purchased in the name of Chef Wu have been purchased and are already under renovation.

The person in charge of the renovation is the same decoration company as the decoration of Chef Wu's restaurant.

According to Wu Xiaozheng's plan, Chef Wu's restaurant needs to appoint several long-term cooperative decoration companies, so as to unify the style and decoration standards.

Therefore, this decoration company is very concerned about the decoration of Chef Wu's restaurant and the three houses, Wu Xiaozheng went to see it twice, the quality is quite good, basically don't worry too much.

That's the benefit of long-term cooperation.

With the involvement of long-term interests, if the decoration company dares to cheat, it may lose a large order at any time.

In fact, Wu Xiaozheng does not have too high requirements for the decoration standards of this house.

In his opinion, this is just a small home temporarily made because of Wu Xiaoli's need to go to school, and the real home where everyone lives together has long been in his plan, but it will be a little later in time.

That involves his other big game, and the time is not yet ripe, and he still needs to be patient.

Of course, for this new home in the county seat, Wu Xiaozheng's so-called requirements are not high, which is naturally relative to the standards of his later generations.

No matter how high the requirements are, at least they have to meet the standards of Chef Wu's restaurant!

Therefore, a few minutes later, Tong Xiuli was shocked by this new home again.