[355] Greeting relatives is blocked
May 10, 2008, the sixth day of the fourth month of the Wuzi year of the lunar calendar, is a good day to get married. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć ļ½ļ½ļ½ļ½
Xiaolin Village, the only two-story building, the doors and windows are covered with happy couplets, and the scene in front of the house is also full of tables, and the men, women and children of the whole village gather here to congratulate Lin Gang.
Xiaolin Village is not big, the whole village is very friendly, and the whole village will do any red and white ceremonies together. Lin just got married, and everyone was also happy with the whole village. Everyone is together, playing cards freely, while waiting for the arrival of the welcoming team.
Time passed minute by minute, the pointer was already pointing to half past eleven, and before seeing the car to welcome the relatives, the faces of the two elders of the Lin family gradually lost their smiles, and Lin's mother secretly hid in the corner to wipe her tears.
It turns out that the rural custom is that the bride must arrive at the man's house before 12 o'clock at noon, and the marriage ceremony must be finished before 1 o'clock, so that the family will be happy and grow old. If you do not arrive before 12 o'clock, for whatever reason, the man has the right to withdraw from the marriage and demand that the woman take all responsibility. This requires both parties to negotiate everything before the ceremony, and under normal circumstances, both men and women will be considerate of each other and will not have complications on the day of the wedding.
However, was the matter between Lin Gang and Su E properly discussed in advance?
In order to be able to take the bride over as soon as possible, it was originally the first day of marriage to go to the ancestral tomb mountain to worship the ancestral ceremony, and the Lin family did it one day in advance, so that Lin Gang had enough time to rush to the county seat on the 9th, and the bride could go home early on the morning of the 10th.
The second elder of the Lin family also understood in his heart that the other party did not force Lin Gang to buy a house in the county as he wished, and he must have reluctantly agreed to his daughter's marriage, depending on the situation, Su Ji is still looking for trouble with his son, the key is that even if he misses the time, he can't hold the woman accountable like other people, he can only sigh secretly, of course, the second elder is an honest rural old man, and he doesn't know how to deal with these things.
Shang Yuemei couldn't sit still, she looked at her watch frequently, she also knew the customs of her hometown, but as a guest, she only had to be anxious, seeing the anxious and helpless appearance of the second elder of the Lin family, she had to come over to persuade the second elder, saying that some county towns are still a little far away from the countryside, or there are many cars on the road, and she is afraid that the welcoming vehicles will fall behind, and the speed will not be fast to comfort the elderly. In the end, she persuaded the old man that the current younger generation had long since stopped talking about the customs of rushing to her mother-in-law's house before noon to make the old man let go of his mental burden, but seeing that it was already noon, she also eagerly took the phone and dialed Li Yuanzheng's phone.
After Li Yuanzheng and Shang Yuemei arrived at Xiaolin Village the day before, they followed Lin Gang back to the county seat to greet the bride, he also grew up in the countryside, so he naturally knew some about the general customs and folklore in the countryside, and he must know what happened to Lin Gang.
After receiving a call from Shang Yuemei, Li Yuanzheng sighed and told what happened in the county.
In order to meet the relatives on the second day and the wedding team can be assembled smoothly, Lin Gang and Li Yuanzheng and the country band that came to greet the relatives on the first day all stayed in Zhang Yalan's Jixiang Hotel, of course, these rooms were provided by Zhang Yalan to the welcome team for free.
Zhang Yalan also specially instructed the kitchen to prepare an hour in advance for the next day's breakfast, so that Lin Gang and the others could have enough time to prepare for the wedding.
When we got up early in the morning, everyone freshened up, had breakfast, and the welcoming team walked through the streets of the county and came to Su Ji's place to greet the relatives. As soon as everyone got out of the car, they saw Su Ji and Su Hu, father and son, standing next to the parked vehicle with tiger faces, especially Su Ji, whose asymmetrical eyebrows were still beating irregularly, as if he was angered by something abused.
"What are you doing so early, robbing your relatives? Su Ji inexplicably crossed one hand on his waist, stretched out one hand, pointed to the ground with his thumb, and kept shaking, his eyes were round, and he was angry at the welcoming team that got out of the car, and he was still muttering some words that ordinary people couldn't understand when he took off his teeth.
Everyone was puzzled by this sudden change, and the second monk looked at each other together. However, if you live in a county town, you know some of the customs of Shangmeiling, and you can only go out to cry and get married, and there is no custom of scolding Lang early in the morning.
As the beginning of the car Li Yuanzheng, seeing Su Ji standing beside him and scolding, he must be very unhappy, but he didn't care about the other party's scolding, his friend's new marriage, he had to take it as a local custom, as a small episode of Lin Gang's wedding ceremony, he signaled the cameraman to stop filming, after all, it is not a good thing.
Wang Yunlai's face couldn't hold it, he was the son-in-law of the Su family, so he naturally knew that this was the Su family deliberately finding fault, when he married Su Feng, he also arrived at the Su family so early, this was still specially told by his father-in-law at that time, that is, he was afraid that the journey during the period would be too long, so as to delay the man's marriage ceremony.
"Uncle, today is E'e's big day, don't embarrass everyone, if I can't go down the steps, then you can't go down the steps, then you want to live in this county is difficult, I don't believe you try it, you look at these people who greet relatives, that is not a person with a head and a face in the county, one of them is a county-level cadre, as long as they make a small move, you have no place in the county. Wang Yunlai hurriedly rushed to Su Ji, grabbed Su Ji's arm, dragged him away, and scared him in a low voice.
Wang Yunlai knew that Su Ji still cared a lot about living in the county, at least he could show off in front of his fellow clansmen who were still living in the countryside, once he offended these officials like Zhang Fengxiang, he really had to go home, and then his son would count the guilt on his head, and his daughter would also count the guilt on his head, and what was even worse was that his daughter would ignore him in the future, so that Lin Gang had the initiative, and he really had no way to go to heaven and no way to enter the earth.
Su Ji was startled, his face was red and white for a while, and he thought to himself, he was really like this, he really couldn't go too far, which angered Director Zhang and the others, and he really couldn't mix in the county. Su Ji's mind was very flexible, and he immediately thought, if his goal was not achieved, how could he easily let go of this excellent opportunity? Also, his expression just now had already been revealed, how could he continue to use this opportunity to force Lin Gang to buy a house for himself and make Director Zhang and the others not disgusted with his behavior just now?
Fortunately, Wang Yunlai's words that threatened him just now were very low, I believe that others did not hear them, and now that he was pulled back to the door of his house by Wang Yunlai, he could completely borrow the slope to get off the donkey, calm down and think about the next move, but there is still one that is not at ease, that is, Su Hu is still beside the greeting team with a tiger face, if he continues to scold the street indiscriminately without asking about his back voice, it will really be difficult to clean up.
This is Su Ji thinking too much, although Su Hu has a tiger face, it is completely to help his father's momentum, he will not make any extraneous branches, he still dreams of Lin Gang's house.
Su Long saw that Wang Yunlai dragged Su Ji over, and hurriedly came to his brother-in-law's side, Wang Yunlai hurriedly asked Su Long to come forward to greet the welcoming team, Su Long glared at Su Ji knowingly, came to the welcoming team, and shouted at Su Hu: "You are fine, just like an outsider who watches the excitement, the guests will not greet when they come." ā
Su Hu heard Su Long's words, and knew that Su Long came to give himself and his father a step down, and quickly took out a cigarette from his pocket, revealing that long-lost smile, and distributed cigarettes to everyone in the welcoming team, Su Long took the opportunity to beckon everyone to come over, and sat down at the several tables in front of the hall.
The greeting team shook their heads and whispered, while helplessly following Su Long Suhu, although in the past greeting relatives, there have been small frictions and small stubbles for some opinions that have not reached consensus, but those small frictions and small stubbles are resolved amicably in relatively peaceful arguments, where will there be such a public dismount to the man, God knows how many sideways branches will appear after that, anyway, it will not go well.