Chapter 1214: Deciding to Forgive, Mother-in-law's Mother-in-law
After the Chinese New Year, Wei Guo, just like in previous years, took his 80-year-old mother from the countryside to a unit in the city for the New Year.
At this time, Wei Guo's mother already wanted to give her great-grandson Jun Junwa.
As soon as she entered the house, she was looking for Jun Jun Baby everywhere!
When Jun Junwa ran out of the bedroom, Wei Guo's mother immediately rushed over, hugged her great-grandson, and said with affection and love:
Baby, I haven't seen you for more than a year.
I haven't seen you for more than a year, and you have grown from a baby to a young man.
Come on, let my great-grandmother see, has your *** grown up?
As she spoke, Weiguo's mother lifted the pants of her great-grandson Jun Junwa to see if his *** had grown up?
Zhang Wei came out of the bedroom, and she just happened to see this scene.
Originally, Zhang Wei was also very happy that Weiguo's mother came over.
However, when she saw that Wei Guo's mother had brought some bad traditional ideas and behaviors from the countryside to the city, she was very unhappy.
She stepped forward and immediately stopped her grandmother's behavior, saying:
The child is almost three years old, he already knows shame, you should no longer treat him as a baby.
As he spoke, Zhang Wei took the child from his grandmother's hands.
Wei Guo's mother originally loved her children and wanted them, so she did this.
And the reason why she did this is because these behaviors are some ways and methods of loving children left over from the tradition in Baoji countryside.
However, Zhang Wei said that he could not understand these behaviors of Weiguo's mother.
At lunchtime, Dongmei specially made her favorite noodles in order to welcome Weiguo's mother.
In the past, feeding Junjun babies was carried out by Zhang Wei and Dongmei.
But today, because her great-grandmother loves her great-grandson too much, she took her own bowl and took the initiative to go over to feed Junwa.
Compared with Zhang Wei and Dongmei, in terms of healthy feeding methods, when Weiguo's mother feeds her child, she always has to taste it first, and then feed it to the child's mouth.
When Zhang Wei saw this scene, she immediately put down the dishes and chopsticks she was eating, walked to Weiguo's mother, carried the child to the table, and then fed it herself.
Seeing her granddaughter-in-law and not allowing herself to feed her great-grandson, Weiguo's mother was immediately unhappy.
Seeing that Weiguo's mother was unhappy, Dongmei hurriedly stepped forward and explained:
Nowadays, young people pay special attention to hygiene, and when you feed your child, don't put it next to your mouth.
Listening to Dongmei's words, Weiguo's mother said disapprenously:
There are four brothers and sisters in Weiguo, they were all raised by me like this since they were children, and they didn't have any diseases?
Why can't today's children be fed like this?
The reason why Wei Guo's mother wanted to feed Junjun like this was because she was afraid that the rice would be hot and burn the child's mouth, so in order to ensure that nothing went wrong, she tasted it herself first, and then fed it to the child's mouth.
And Zhang Wei, the granddaughter-in-law who was sitting at the dinner table to eat, when she heard the words of Weiguo's mother, she immediately thought:
If the mother of the country feeds her child in such an unhealthy and unhygienic way, then she will not want to have the opportunity to feed her child in the future.
Moreover, Wei Guo's mother is like this except when she feeds her, that is, when she usually gives her children fruits, steamed buns, and vegetables, she is like this.
And Zhang Wei looked at everything in front of her, and she was very unhappy in her heart.
On this day, when Wei Guo's mother gave half of the peach to Jun Junwa to eat, Zhang Wei immediately rushed out of the bedroom.
She looked at Weiguo's mother and said unceremoniously:
Grandma, when you give food to your child, can you not feed the rest of your food to the child's mouth?
It's unhealthy, it's unhygienic, you know?
If you infect your child with any bacteria, the consequences will be unimaginable.
Hearing that her daughter-in-law disliked the bacteria in her mouth, Weiguo's mother was immediately reluctant.
She said, I am an old woman from the countryside, although I am not in good health, but I do not have any infectious diseases, how can you say this about me?
Obviously, Wei Guo's mother does not think that it is unhealthy and unhygienic to feed her child like this.
Moreover, in addition to feeding, Zhang Wei is not used to Weiguo's mother, and when playing with children, Zhang Wei has many places, and he is not used to Weiguo's mother's way of playing.
Because Wei Guo's mother loves her children too much, she will pat her children on the head from time to time.
But because people are old, sometimes their hands will tremble, and if they are not careful, they will shoot the back of the child's head.
That night, when Weiguo's mother was playing with her child, she accidentally photographed the back of the child's head.
At this moment, Zhang Wei happened to witness all this with her own eyes, and she immediately broke out.
Usually at home, Zhang Wei feels that he can endure his mother-in-law Dongmei,
However, when Dongmei's mother-in-law, Weiguo's mother, came to the house, she felt that she couldn't stand this 80-year-old woman.
In addition to Weiguo's mother, who likes to sue Zhang Wei in front of Dongmei, is Weiguo's mother, the way to take care of her children, and her patriarchal thinking.
Hearing that her daughter-in-law, a junior, dared to shout at herself, Weiguo's mother immediately changed her face......
Although the patriotic mother is already in her 80s,
However, she is not a vegetarian either, and immediately argued with her granddaughter-in-law Zhang Wei.
Dongmei, who was resting in the bedroom, when she heard that her daughter-in-law was arguing with her mother-in-law, she hurriedly rushed over from the bedroom and adjusted the conflict on the spot.
After adjusting for a long time, Dongmei finally sent Weiguo's mother to her bedroom.
Coming out of Weiguo's mother's bedroom, Dongmei walked into Zhang Wei's house and comforted her daughter-in-law and said:
Forget it, my mother-in-law has been a great person since she was young......
She never felt that her way of acting was wrong......
So now, no matter what you say, she thinks she's right.
If you argue with her, it won't work.
After all, she's older, so you can let her.
Zhang Wei said indignantly, she just plays with the child, why does she always love to pat the child's head, and she also pats the back of the child's head, isn't she worried that if she is not careful, she will shoot the child, and there will be a problem?
After all, that's the back of the head.
After speaking, Zhang Wei sighed and said:
Mom, I'm going to serve you now, when you were young in the countryside, how did you get along with your mother-in-law?
When Dongmei was young, she was a new daughter-in-law in the countryside of her hometown, and it can be said that she suffered a lot from the bullying and torture of her mother-in-law.
Although at that time, she was in pain and couldn't bear it.
However, after so many years, when an old woman in her 80s reappeared in front of her, she had chosen to forget and forgive. 、
Dongmei recalled that year, although she was still, she could recall some of the pictures of Wei Guo's mother being harsh on herself,
However, she still spoke for the patriotic mother:
People come over like this, and she also survived from daughter-in-law, to mother-in-law, and then to great-grandmother.
In the past, the family law of the old society was greater, and it was more difficult for women to ......
When she was young, she suffered and suffered dozens of times more than mine, and hundreds of times more than yours......
So, as our generation, and as yours, let's let her go.
Listening to his mother-in-law Dongmei's words, Zhang Wei thought about it and decided to forgive, mother-in-law's mother-in-law.
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