After the Cold War, under the struggle and compromise of Wei Guo, Dongmei finally forgave Wei Guo, and the husband and wife finally got back together. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

And Dongmei's dedication to doing business also completely shocked the country.

He didn't expect that Dongmei's perseverance was so strong that it was beyond his imagination.

No matter whether it is windy or rainy, Dongmei always insists on going out of the stall.

Even if she is sick, as long as she is not very sick, Dongmei will choose to go out of the stall.

And Weiguo has also changed from the previous resistance to Dongmei's business to support Dongmei's business.

At the same time, he is also proud of having such a strong woman's wife.

Through the unremitting efforts of Dongmei and Wei Guo, unconsciously, the two of them have tens of thousands of deposits in the bank, and they have officially become a family of 10,000 yuan.

For Dongmei and Weiguo, becoming a 10,000-yuan household was unthinkable before.

But today, when Wei Guo accompanied Dongmei to the bank and deposited the income from selling dumplings in the bank during this time, the passbook clearly showed that the two of them had 13,000 yuan in deposit.

When Dongmei saw the Arabic numerals on the passbook, she looked at Wei Guo in surprise and said, "Wei Guo, this shouldn't be true, we have so many deposits in the bank." “

Wei Guo hurriedly hid the savings fold in his clothes, afraid that someone would know that they were 10,000 yuan households.

Wei Guo was very excited, he said to Dongmei: "Yes, we are really 10,000 yuan." “

If, these savings are combined with the thousands of yuan that Dongmei and his wife lent to their brother-in-law to open a clinic, and the thousands of yuan that Chunmei spent on seeing a doctor, Dongmei and Weiguo's savings will directly increase to more than 20,000 yuan.

Dongmei's heart is very excited, since the day she made a decision to start a business, she has been running towards this small goal, and today it has finally become a reality.

Dongmei recalled that she had come all the way, selling popsicles, medicine, and dumplings, although she had all succeeded, but these successes were all based on her hard work.

At the same time, Dongmei also sighed that all this was forced, if she hadn't taken the only 5,000 yuan in the family to buy a hukou, she wouldn't have been strong enough to go out to work.

If it weren't for the fact that he felt Wei Guo's contempt for him, a housewife who didn't make money, in the quarrel with Wei Guo, he wouldn't have persevered all the way.

Along the way, although the joy is greater than the pain, Dongmei has still experienced a lot of failures, a lot of disappointments and hesitations.

Wei Guo walked beside Dongmei, happily looking at a rainbow in the sky after the rain passed, and said: "Dongmei, you said that we suddenly have so much money, will we not be able to sleep at night?"

Dongmei breathed in the fresh air and said: "Then what can't you sleep, our money is not robbed, nor stolen, it is earned by your and my hard hands, what can't sleep, just sleep steadily." “

Wei Guo scratched the back of his head, and said with a sincere smile: "Yes, Dongmei, it's all earned by us." “

After finishing speaking, Wei Guo couldn't help but think to himself, unconsciously, he had become the first 10,000 yuan household in a single-worker family in the unit.

However, what Wei Guo didn't know was that his and Dongmei's savings not only exceeded all single-income families, but even exceeded many dual-income families.

Although dual-income families earn more than Weiguo and Dongmei, they do not have Weiguo and Dongmei to live, and they are not as thrifty and thrifty as Weiguo and Dongmei.

Dongmei and Weiguo can not only make money, but they are also very thrifty, never spending a penny indiscriminately, never wasting a penny.

In order to save money, Dongmei and Weiguo haven't bought new clothes and shoes for several years, and as for going to restaurants to eat, drink and gamble, etc., Weiguo and Dongmei don't touch it.

Dongmei and Weiguo know that money is earned, but it is even more saved, and if there is no good habit of thrift and saving, no matter how much money you make, you can't keep it.

When he returned home from the bank, Wei Guo had a whim and wanted to tell Taotao and Nana the good news that the family had more than 10,000 yuan in savings, so that the two children would be happy.

However, he was strongly opposed by Dongmei.

Dongmei said to Wei Guo worriedly: "Wei Guo, if you tell the two children about our deposit, in case the children accidentally say it, how can we stay in the unit, aren't you afraid that the thief will come to you in the middle of the night?"

Wei Guo explained to Dongmei that he wanted to tell the children why the family had money.

It turned out that when Wei Guo was young, Wei Guo's mother taught her children about poverty, and always told Wei Guo how poor and miserable the family was, and that they couldn't open the pot today, and they wouldn't have anything to eat tomorrow......

This directly planted the seeds of inferiority complex in Wei Guo's young heart, causing Wei Guo to always think that his family was extremely poor and miserable.

At school, Wei Guo always felt that he was the poorest child in the class, not only could he not hold his head up, but he also had extreme inferiority.

This also formed a lingering inferiority complex that accompanied the country all his life.

Although Wei Guo's mother and Wei Guo's father are the shortest and most honest in the village, they are very good at living, not only do they always have enough food to eat, but also have a surplus.

But in that era, poverty meant glory, so Weiguo's parents have always carried out poverty education for Weiguo.

Therefore, in order to prevent his children from following in the footsteps of his inferior character, he decided to tell the children about the family's savings.

In this way, children will have confidence in front of other children and will gradually form a confident character.

However, Dongmei completely disagreed with Wei Guo's idea.

She told Wei Guo that her family was also poor since she was a child, and her mother also told her that the family had no money and no food at home, but her character has always been very confident and she has never felt inferior.

At the same time, she can't understand what kind of character Wei Guo's so-called inferiority complex is?

In order to explain this inferiority complex to Dongmei straightforwardly, Wei Guo gave Dong Mei an example, for example, when Wei Guo was young, when she faced a girl she liked, his first reaction was not to chase this girl, but to think, he is so short, so ugly, so bad, how can this girl look down on herself, how can she be worthy of others, so she gives up on herself, and then gives up automatically.

However, a confident boy will think that although I am not tall, I am smart, although I am not handsome, but I can make up for my gentleness, he always thinks that he must do it, unlike Wei Guo, he always thinks that he can't do it.

Dongmei listened to the example given to herself by Wei Guo, she paused and told Wei Guo directly, you are not inferior at all, but you know yourself too clearly, you Wei Guo is too short, too ugly, and you should, you must take the initiative to give up.

Dongmei ridiculed Wei Guo's words, and Wei Guo was even more inferior.

But in order to let Dongmei accept his anti-inferiority education for children, Wei Guo continued to give examples.

For example, when I meet a living person, I want to become a colleague or friend with him, contact and communication, my first reaction is that the person in front of me must be very good, very capable, and noble character, and above board, and I defend the country compared to others, neither excellent, nor can I do, nor have any ability, so it is unnatural that I will feel inferior, depressed, painful, and even unable to let go of this colleague in my relationship with this colleague......

As soon as Wei Guo said this, it also explained why he always walked around and always avoided the leader when he met him, the main reason was because Wei Guo had low self-esteem, and felt that the leader was high and shining, and he was like an ant, the small can no longer be small, what ability do you have to talk to the leader, or even look at each other?

Therefore, Wei Guo will be scared and nervous when he sees the leader, which directly leads to Wei Guo's inability to let go and not talk to the leader.

This not only delayed the future of the country, but also posed a great obstacle to the people-to-people communication of the country.

After Wei Guo's painstaking explanation, Dong Mei finally understood the so-called Wei Guo's inferiority complex, and at the same time untied her heart knot, and understood why Wei Guo had worked for so many years and always couldn't do it.

After learning about Weiguo's mental illness, Dongmei also re-understood Weiguo from the bottom of her heart after agreeing to Weiguo's approach.

She felt that in fact, men were not as strong as they looked on the outside, they were the same as women, they were made of water, and they also had a weak heart in the depths of their hearts.

It's just that women tend to show it, while men generally don't.

After school in the afternoon, Wei Guo called the two children from the bedroom to the living room, and took out bananas, apples, oranges and other fruits bought from the county seat.

With the improvement of living standards, the two children of Dongmei's family have begun to eat fruits, and they can eat different fruits every once in a while.

And this kind of treatment, a few years ago, was still unimaginable.

In the past, people were generally nervous, and they didn't dare to spend money to buy fruits to eat.

And now, with the increase in income and the price of fruits, ordinary workers can also eat fruits.

Tao Tao loves bananas the most, so he picked up a banana and ate it happily.

And Nana likes to eat oranges, she peels an orange, gives half of it to her father, and usually eats it herself.

Wei Guo looked at the two children eating happily, so he asked them, "Taotao, Nana, Dad asks you a question, and you have to answer Dad truthfully." “

Dongmei, who was busy cooking in the kitchen, also poked her head out and said to the children: "Dad wants to educate you on anti-inferiority, that is, self-confidence education, you must cooperate well." “

The two children replied in unison, "Well, okay." “

I saw that Wei Guo came up with the questions prepared in advance.

He asked the first question, "Excuse me, do you feel inferior in school?"

Hearing this, two children, you look at me, I look at you, and shook their heads.

Seeing the child's reaction, Wei Guo was very happy, thinking that China's education, in addition to educating children in mathematics, physics and chemistry, has never shaped children's personalities, let alone taught children to build a confident heart, and Tao Tao and Nana actually shook their heads, which means that they are not inferior at all, and this alone is better than many children.

However, Wei Guo misunderstood the shaking of Tao Tao and Nana, the shaking of the two children does not mean that they are not inferior, but that the two children do not understand the meaning of inferiority at all.

Wei Guo was very surprised, he spent half a day and gave many examples to the two children, and finally let the children understand the meaning of inferiority.

After understanding, Tao Tao immediately nodded, indicating that he often felt inferior.

Nana, on the other hand, kept shaking her head, because she had never felt inferior.

Hearing Taotao's inferiority, Wei Guo immediately began to ask Taotao a second question.

He said, "Taotao, can you tell your father why you have low self-esteem?"

Tao Tao told Wei Guo honestly: "Because the children of dual income workers, when they are in school, they dress better than us, eat better than us, and even the skin on their faces is whiter than ours, and they have pocket money, so in front of them, I always feel inferior." “

Hearing this, Wei Guo looked Tao Tao and Nana up and down, and he found that Tao Tao always wore the khaki coat and cloth shoes made of Dongmei, while Nana always wore the clothes that Tao Tao worn.

He felt very uncomfortable, although he and Dongmei had saved a lot of money because of frugality, but he ignored that Taotao had no new clothes and shoes to wear.

In order to make Taotao confident, Wei Guo took out his and Dongmei's savings fold, and said to Dongmei, who was busy in the kitchen: "Dongmei, when it's Sunday, we will take Taotao to the county to buy new clothes and shoes for the children." “

Hearing that her father was going to buy new clothes and shoes for her brother, Nana on the side quickly changed her mind and said, "Dad, I also have low self-esteem, you can also buy me new clothes and new shoes." “

Hearing this, Dongmei put down her work again, poked her head out of the kitchen, and said: "The child is in school, the comparison is learning, what to eat and wear, if you lead Taotao to the county to buy new clothes and shoes, let the child know that the pursuit of fashion, he may not study well." “

Wei Guo disagreed with Dongmei's idea, he said: "When I was a child, it was because my parents were too thrifty that I wore tattered clothes every day, so that I couldn't hold my head up in school, and my inferiority complex was slowly formed at that time." “

Dongmei disagreed with Wei Guo's point of view, she said: "When I was young, I was also very worn, and I didn't see how inferior I was. “

Hearing this, Wei Guo immediately retorted to Dongmei and said: "Don't talk nonsense, since I know that you and I have made a doll kiss, I have been very careful to observe you, although you are not very well dressed, but you are definitely wearing clothes without patches, I am different, the patches all over the body, even the shoes on the feet have holes......"

After speaking, Wei Guo thought to himself, although his family conditions were much better than Dongmei's family at that time, but because his parents were too frugal, he guessed that he was like that.

On the other hand, if parents destroy their children's self-confidence and create their children's inferiority complex in order to save, it is better not to save?