The next day, Dongmei asked Taotao if he was ready to start having a second child?

In the face of his mother's enthusiasm and expectations, Tao Tao said euphemistically, don't do it for the time being, let's talk about it later.

Hearing that her son Taotao didn't want children for the time being, Dongmei was a little anxious.

She told her son that Jun Junwa was just over two years old, and she took this opportunity to have another child, and when the time came, the two children would grow up together, and you could save a lot of trouble.

If one child grows up and then another child, then there is a generation gap between the two children, and it is difficult for them to become friends.

is family affection, and there are no two children with a relatively close age difference.

In the face of his mother's bitter heart, Tao Tao really didn't want his mother to be in the dark.

So, he told the truth:

Mom, Zhang Wei doesn't want a second child.

Forget it, let's just have a child.

Hearing that her son, who swore yesterday, suddenly didn't want a second child today, Dongmei couldn't understand and said:

Your wife doesn't want a second child, don't you want a second child either?

She is a woman, she has hair, long and short knowledge, and very short-sighted, let me tell you, since the state supports a second child, then you should have a second child.

Otherwise, when you are old, how can you support the two old people just by relying on Junjunwa as a child?

At the same time, Dongmei gave Taotao an example of herself.

She said, if I only wanted you a child and didn't want your sister, I would definitely not be as happy as I am now.

Tao Tao knows that compared to his sister Nana, he has done a particularly poor job in filial piety to his parents.

Nana is a very attentive child, she not only buys mobile phones for her father, but also buys clothes for her mother, and even takes her parents on a trip to the suburbs of the provincial capital.

But as for himself, it seems that he has never done anything filial to his parents.

Tao Tao looked at his mother, and he felt very guilty.

He knew that he really did too little compared to his sister.

However, on the issue of having a second child, I really can't do anything.

I can't follow my mother's wishes and change my wife Zhang Wei's mind.

In desperation, Taotao could only find an excuse to comfort his mother.

He told Dongmei, Mom, you're right, the second child, if you want another daughter, it will definitely be a happy thing.

However, if the second child is like my cousin Yongyong, giving birth to a pair of twins, and it is two boys, then our family will not be in dire straits?

Hearing the brave twins, Dongmei couldn't help but feel numb in her scalp.

Before Yongyong, he already had a son.

When he gave birth to his second child, he gave birth to two boys very coincidentally.

A family, three children, and three boys, this is really stressful for parents.

Not to mention anything else, the cost of marrying the child in the future alone will be an astronomical amount.

Therefore, Tao Tao wanted to use Brother Yong's example to convince his mother.

However, what Tao Tao didn't expect was that his mother actually told him, like your Yongyong brother's example, but there is a 1 in 10,000 chance, I think, you are not so unlucky, right?

Besides, God is fair, energy is conserved, and someone as capable as your Yongyong brother should also send three light gourds to straighten it out.

A man like you, who is honest and does his duty, and who has no ability or ability, God will not send you three sons to torture you. ‘’

At most, God will send you a daughter, so that you can have a son and a daughter, and make up a good word.

Listening to his mother's optimism, Tao Tao didn't know what to say.

At this time, he felt very difficult.

The mother, on her side, is trying her best to persuade herself to give birth to a second child.

And his wife Zhang Wei refused himself vigorously and resolutely did not want a second child.

As Taotao is concerned, he wants a second child, but he doesn't want a second child, which is very contradictory.

If you want a second child, after all, having another child is still a very good thing.

I don't want a second child, because it's really expensive to bring a doll.

The other one, financially, is really stretched.

When Taotao was sad and sat on the sofa, helpless, Wei Guo came back from work.

When he saw Dongmei, he was saying something to his son Taotao, and he guessed it at once.

He immediately said for his son Taotao, don't listen to your mother, you want a second child, you don't want a second child, even if you don't want a second child, no one will force you.

Faced with her husband Weiguo's sudden interjection, the second monk of Dongmei was confused.

She looked at Wei Guo and said, how do you know that I am persuading Taotao to have a second child?

After Wei Guo entered the door, he changed into slippers.

He said, "I don't know about your little thoughts?"

If you want a second child, you want it, if you don't want it, forget it, don't force others.

Listening to her husband's words, the more Dongmei listened, the more she felt that it was not a taste.

She immediately refuted Wei Guo, saying, how can it be called persecution?

I'm suggesting it, okay?

Wei Guo knows that Dongmei likes children, but she likes children, and she also wants to see that it is built on the basis of what others want, how can it be difficult to be strong?

Wei Guo looked at Dongmei, then at Taotao, he didn't say anything, and walked into the bedroom.

Dongmei saw Wei Guo and walked into the bedroom, and she said to Taotao, Your father is talking more and more like words now, how can you say that I am not facing you?

As an elder, of course, I want to see you well, you are happy, you are happy.

As for having a second child, it's definitely up to you.

I, as an elder, can I still give birth for you?

Dongmei's words immediately amused Taotao.

Tao Tao's expression on his sad face just now suddenly bloomed.

He looked at his mother and said, "Mom, I know, you're good to us."

I'll try my best to tell Zhang Wei, if we can have a second child, we will hurry up.

Listening to her son's words, Dongmei's heart was also relieved.

At the same time, she also thought about it, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, one child, the benefits of having one child, two children, the benefits of having two children, everything will be natural.

So, Dongmei nodded and said to Taotao, okay, then you can watch it, don't embarrass yourself, as long as you live well, it's okay.

Tao Tao looked at her mother, and when she entered the back of the room, she thought:

It seems that the mother has really compromised on the issue of having a second child.

At the same time, Tao Tao also sighed.

She thought about her classmates, friends, and colleagues around her, and she couldn't help but discover a wonderful thing.

When they were young, children born into single-child families generally had a second child.

And children like himself and Zhang Wei, who grew up in families with more brothers and sisters, chose to have only one child.

couldn't help but suddenly remember some of what his mother said when he was a child.

At that time, everyone lived in the Changqing drilling base in Ganquan, northern Shaanxi.

The mother looked at the one-child families around her, and then at the families with two children around her, and she sighed:

All families with good family conditions and dual-income workers have chosen to have a child.

On the contrary, it is them, single-worker families, families with poor conditions, who have given birth to two, three, and some even secretly have four children.

But now, everything seems to be reversed.

Those wealthy families choose to have more children, while those with slightly worse conditions choose to have fewer children.

Tao Tao sighed and walked towards the bedroom.

He thought to himself that when his wife Zhang Wei heard that his mother no longer interfered with their idea of having a second child, she would definitely be very happy.