Chapter 1121 Serving Your Mother-in-law When You Are Young, You Serve Your Daughter-in-law When You Are Old
Seeing her daughter-in-law Zhang Wei running out with the child in her arms, Dongmei opened the door and prepared to chase out.
However, Wei Guo grabbed Dongmei and said:
"If you're not in good health, can't you just sit in bed and rest?"
Dongmei looked back at Wei Guo, she was so angry.
She said, "What about you, why are you so stubborn?"
Hearing Dongmei say that she was stubborn, Wei Guo said unconvinced:
"This daughter-in-law, she is lazy all day long and doesn't do anything, I just want you to rest and rest, why am I stubborn?"
Dongmei knew that she couldn't catch up with Zhang Wei, so she returned to the house.
She said angrily:
"Zhang Wei went to Gaoling, I sat in the back row and held the child, how tired can I be?
If you don't sleep at noon, can you die?"
After Dongmei returned to the house, she was extremely unhappy and said:
"I can't figure it out, other people's families are all conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law......
Our family is good, I have no conflict with Zhang Wei, but it's you, the father-in-law, who has a conflict with his daughter-in-law......"
Zhang Wei left, and Wei Guo dared to vent his dissatisfaction loudly in the house.
He said:
"Hey, Zhang Wei, as a daughter-in-law, she doesn't cook or do housework......
Moreover, they do not eat on time every day......
As a daughter-in-law, she wants you, a mother-in-law, to serve, isn't that true?"
Dongmei listened to Wei Guo's complaints, and she said:
"Weiguo, do you think it is now or in the past?
Today's young girls are all like Zhang Wei......
You let me say, as long as the daughter-in-law doesn't find trouble for you and me, and doesn't find trouble for Taotao, it's already very good......
Even if she is lazy for a day, you let her be lazy, the times have developed to this point, it's not that the daughter-in-law of our family is like this......
I can tell you responsibly that daughters-in-law all over China are like this......"
Wei Guo argued:
"Back then, when you married into our family, as soon as you entered the door, you took all the work from my mother......
Besides, you get up early in the morning and pour urinals for my mom and dad......
Even if you give birth to Taotao and Nana, and have two children, you still go out to farm and work every day......
But Zhang Wei, just with the child, he didn't do anything......
She slept until 10 a.m. every day and woke up at 11 a.m......
I can't figure it out, can she, as a young man, sleep?"
Faced with Wei Guo's doubts, Dongmei could only explain:
"The daughters-in-law of our time were like this, they had to work and serve their mother-in-law......
In modern society, this situation has changed, and it has become a mother-in-law serving her daughter-in-law.
Besides, I don't dislike serving Zhang Wei, as long as she brings me the Jun Jun baby, I am willing to serve her......"
After Dongmei and Weiguo argued for a while, Dongmei returned to the bedroom angrily.
Wei Guo sat on the sofa in the living room and lit a cigarette angrily.
On the way from Xi'an to Gaoling, Zhang Wei sat on a joint seat.
She put everything in the trunk and held the baby in her hand.
Zhang Wei was angry, so she called Taotao and wanted to complain to him.
However, Tao Tao, who works on the mountain, has become a frightened bird.
Since the last time, he received a call from his wife Zhang Wei, telling him to keep the phone on at any time, because his mother Dongmei may have a stroke or cerebral hemorrhage.
Therefore, Taotao's mobile phone stays on 24 hours a day.
He is very nervous all the time, especially in the uncertain time, when he receives a call from his wife Zhang Wei or his father Weiguo, he will be scared out of a cold sweat.
Especially the phone calls early in the morning, and the phone calls after 10 o'clock in the evening, it was almost life-threatening.
Taotao knew that early in the morning, Zhang Wei didn't get up from sleep, and if she was fine, she wouldn't call herself.
And one night, Taotao knew that although his wife Zhang Wei did not sleep, his father and mother slept.
Therefore, when Wei Guo suddenly called at night, he would also be scared half to death.
And at noon, when Taotao saw that it was his wife's phone, he was also terrified.
He quickly picked up the phone and prayed in his heart:
"God willing, my mother is fine, my mother is fine......"
After praying, Tao Tao picked up the phone.
When he picks up the phone, he closes his eyes and listens quietly.
After Zhang Wei called Taotao, she began to cry aggrievedly.
When Taotao heard Zhang Wei's cry, he was so frightened that he almost fell to the ground.
He trembled and said, "Wife, is my mother ......?"
Before Taotao's words were finished, Zhang Wei began to cry:
"Taotao, I see, I can't stay in your house anymore?"
Hearing this, Tao Tao suddenly woke up, and he said in his heart, his mother's body should be fine, since Zhang Wei said that he couldn't stay at home, it must be a contradiction between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
So, while thanking God for blessing, Tao Tao said, "What's the matter, did you quarrel with my mother?"
Zhang Wei shook his head and said, "It's not your mother, it's your father who kicked me out of the house." ”
Hearing that his father drove Zhang Wei out of the house, Tao Tao said incomprehensibly:
"I feel that you, as a daughter-in-law, don't make trouble for your mother-in-law, and you also stay at home, how can my father still be dissatisfied with you?"
Not only Taotao, but even Zhang Wei felt that as a daughter-in-law, he was still a good daughter-in-law compared to the exaggerated daughters-in-law around him.
At least, I don't run around.
At least, take the baby by yourself, instead of directly taking the baby for a lifetime, and then throw it to your mother-in-law, like a person who has nothing to do, don't care about anything, and go around to play.
At least, I don't spend money indiscriminately, unlike some girls, who compare with others every day, her husband earns one, and she spends two......
Zhang Wei cried: "I also feel that I can, but I can't figure it out, what does your father dislike about me?"
Tao Tao knew that as a son, as a person caught in the middle, he was very embarrassed. 、
Tao Tao must be a good mediator.
So, Taotao said: "Wife, don't be sad, it's okay to have me." ”
After speaking, Tao Tao added:
"My dad's guy, he talks nonsense......
However, he has a good heart, don't be afraid.
If he has a bad heart and doesn't like you, then he won't add money to buy a car for us. ”
Zhang Wei nodded and said, "I know that your father, on the whole, is still a good father-in-law......
However, he was intolerable in some small things. ”
In the past, Tao Tao was also unacceptable to his father's requirements in some details.
But now, Tao Tao has accepted all of his father's wrongdoings.
Because Tao Tao feels that God is fair, and no one is perfect......
If my father is not confused in these small things, then he will be confused in the big things.
If he doesn't care about the little things, he will do the big things.
So, since the father wants to care, let the father take care of it, it doesn't matter.
After all, it's much better to be careful about small things than to be careful about big things.
Moreover, your father is already old, do you still want him to change himself, has formed a lifelong way of thinking, a lifetime of behavior?
It's simply impossible.
Therefore, as a young person, you should first follow the old people for the time being, and follow the old people, especially in front of them.
It's over, when the old man is gone, or when the old man can't see, you can do it your way, that's completely fine.
So, Tao Tao told Zhang Wei about the set of principles for getting along with the old man that he summed up in various failures.
After listening to it, Zhang Wei felt that what Taotao said was also right.
Moreover, Taotao told Zhang Wei to be a smart woman and not to miss big things because of small things.
Zhang Wei understood what Tao Tao meant, although Wei Guo couldn't get used to seeing himself, he still bought milk powder and clothes for Junjunwa every month.
If you really work against your father-in-law and offend your father-in-law, then you have to pay the money yourself?
At the same time, in order to comfort his wife, Taotao also sent Zhang Wei a red envelope, which can be regarded as comforting her injured heart.
After some comfort from Tao Tao, Zhang Wei was no longer angry with his father-in-law.
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