It's not just trust that matters between people, it's more important to communicate.

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"Dad, in fact, I've been very worried about my future recently, I know that you and my mother have secretly planned my future, but I want to go alone. Do what you love. Xu Liuli knew what it meant to retreat and advance, and what it meant to attack the heart, so she showed weakness first to fight for the initiative.

The more the use of the art of war in life, the better, so that the negotiation will have its own initiative.

"Ah Li, Mom and Dad are all for your good. As a girl, there are so many different people in the outside world, and the society is so mixed, we just want you to have a stable job. As I said before, I don't want you to be rich, I want you to be happy for the rest of your life. When Dad Xu heard Liuli's words, he sat on the chair with a sad face and told Xu Liuli sincerely.

"I know. But the path you chose for me was not what I wanted! I am an independent person, living in a different era from yours, with different thoughts from yours. Maybe in the future it will prove right that you made the decision, but for now, it's not what I like and love, and I can't give my passion to it. "Pave the way for the prelude, wait for the enemy army to relax, and reason step by step.

"You are still young now, what do you like or dislike, but after a long time, your mentality will naturally change. When the time comes, when you look back, you will find that those likes are just a flash in the pan, time will smooth out your enthusiasm, a stable job, a satisfied family, such a plain life is good. Father Xu shook his head and smiled when he heard his daughter explain her interests and hobbies, and talked about her so-called jokes.

"Dad, when you were young, did you have something you liked, but in the end you didn't do it for various reasons. "Layer by layer, with feelings into the scene, with things about people, lead out the core, attack the heart.

Xu Qingping heard his daughter's seductive words and recalled that when he was in school, he liked to play football, but his family was poor and he had to go to school hard to win a hard-won scholarship, and he had no time and energy to play football. In addition, he and his younger brother have been brought up by their mother alone since they were children, so how can they play that kind of time-wasting activity?

Although I like it, watching others play is just envy. The kind of hardship in his own life, the kind of life that is very different from others, is also the motivation that supports him to work so hard.

"No, I just do what I want and rely on my own skills. Because, ah, I didn't have such good conditions as you do now. People, learn to be content!" Xu Qingping didn't want to admit those pasts. Sometimes, people will inevitably be burdened by some worldly worlds, and the past is the past, so why bother with nostalgia.

When Xu Liuli heard this, he knew that his plan had come in handy, and he only needed to add a fire, and he could do whatever he wanted.

After carefully considering the wording, Xu Liuli said with emotion: "I also want to do my best to do my own thing, instead of being a young eagle and passively waiting to grow up." After all, for such a long time in the future, I need to grow up alone and alone, I can't rely on you for a lifetime, I have to learn to fly alone and forage for food alone. “

Xu Qingping looked at Xu Liuli with a sluggish expression, when did his daughter become so strange, she was no longer the innocent and cute person he knew, and she didn't know anything about the world. Such a thorough truth, did she really just get it from books?

I know these truths myself, after all, age is set aside here. At the age of 25, he got married on his own strength, and now he is about 40 years old, so that his old body can support him for a few years, and how long he can accompany his children, but he is reluctant!

I have suffered all my life, and now I am only slightly better, how can I bear to let my children experience the sin I have suffered.

"Okay! Your mother and I can't stay with you for so long, in the future, you and your brother must love each other, as the boss, you must be responsible, we won't restrict you too much to do what you want to do, if you like liberal arts, choose the essay!" Xu Qingping knew that sometimes he had to learn to let go, the big deal, the child was injured, and he was behind her to protect the escort.

"Of course, I will definitely fulfill my responsibilities as a sister in the future. Dad and Mom will definitely live a long life and be healthy. Xu Liuli saw that her goal had been achieved, so she sprinkled good words without money.

At the same time, thinking that there was still one thing to do, he slowly got up from his chair, slowly walked to his father's side, helped him pinch his shoulder, and spit out the unpleasant and sharp words from his mouth: "Dad, I want to go to Landu with Tan Lin during the summer vacation to see, see." ”

Xu Qingping was enjoying his daughter's filial piety, and when he heard this, the whole person was excited, and he suddenly stood up, staring at his daughter with big pupils.

"What, what do you want to do, go to Landu?" Father Xu felt that his brain was a little insufficient, and he couldn't catch up with his daughter's train of thought, wasn't he still discussing the division of arts and sciences just now, why did he turn here in the blink of an eye.

The corners of Xu Liuli's mouth twitched, her original intention was this matter, and the words she said before were also for the preparation at this moment.

Xu Liuli coaxed Xu's father's body to stand up a little bit, asked him to sit down quietly, and then pinched Xu's father's shoulder unhurriedly, and said in a moderate tone: "Isn't this after the summer vacation, I'm going to go to the second year of high school?

"Is it really just like this?" Father Xu looked at Xu Liuli suspiciously, and suddenly felt that there seemed to be a lot of traps in his daughter's words waiting for him to enter.

"Of course, you see that I have never been out since I was a child, and I envy the people who live in big cities and want to get a glimpse of the culture and life of the bustling city. And there are some feelings that cannot be experienced in books, and must be experienced firsthand. Besides, I'm going to take the college entrance examination in two years, and I want to go to a university in a big city, and by the way, see how about the school I want to apply for in the future?" Xu Liuli nodded vigorously, and said his purpose in a voice full of expectation.

"Summer vacation? According to the day, your brother should have just been born, and your mother and I should not have time to accompany you, otherwise we will wait for the next time! When we have time, we will go together as a family, after all, we as parents of your two children are not at ease. "Father Xu thinks that what his daughter said is quite right, but his wife is about to give birth at the end of April, and he has no time!

"No, Tan Lin's aunt is in Landu, let's go to her house to sleep when the time comes, and when I arrive, I'll call you twice a week." Don't worry, I'm so smart, how could I be deceived, it's fine. Xu Liuli rolled her eyes, and her face was not red and she lied.

"When I think about it, it's still early before the summer vacation anyway? Father Xu thought about so many things, and his daughter was also a little uneasy, and couldn't help but be a little irritable.

"Okay, it's a little late this day, I'll go to bed first, and I'll see you tomorrow morning. Xu Liuli heard her satisfied words, and also sensed that her father would be in a somewhat unstable mood, so she let go of the movements in her hand and said good night to her father.

"You kid, you really throw it away when you're done with it! Okay, go to sleep, I'll go down and see if my mother is asleep." Father Xu waved his hand to Xu Liuli, stood up slowly with his waist on his back, and walked down leisurely.

Communication is about skills, and every sentence will be said with some meaning, which makes people comfortable, satisfied, but able to achieve their own goals.

Layers of stairs, beams of light, and twinkling stars in the sky, everyone has their own path to follow.

That road is destined to be lonely and long!