If a person has had a bad experience, he will leave a knot or heart disease in his heart.

Heart disease is the most difficult to treat.

For Wu Xiaozheng, in his past and present lives, he has encountered too many bad things, so he has also left too many heart diseases and knots.

For his heart diseases and knots, others can't help him, he can only rely on himself to solve them one by one.

Now, he's finally unraveled another one.

At this time, he hoped that the miserable experience he had suffered would be better not to be experienced by others. At least in Xiangshui Village, he can do as much as he can.

It's just that he didn't expect that what he said and did just now would make the noses of the other two people sour.

One is Wu Minxia.

When it comes to the patriarchy of the countrymen, she has the most personal experience.

Because of Wu Changhe's patriarchy, he left a lot of heart disease in her heart, and also shattered her dream of life, which generated a lot of resentment in her heart, which could not be resolved for a long time.

Fortunately, with Wu Xiaozheng, the fate of the Wu family has changed completely, and Wu Changhe is also under his influence, and he no longer excessively shows the idea of patriarchy.

This is very gratifying to Wu Minxia.

But when she heard that Wu Xiaozheng asked Liu Shiquan to include the patriarchal point in the uncivilized norms of Xiangshui Village, she still couldn't help but have a sour nose.

Another natural person with a sour nose is Ma Li.

Before, although Wu Xiaozheng mediated the marriage of Liu Xuewen and Xiumei, Ma Li felt the same way.

Because of a painful marriage experience, Ma Li suffered a huge blow, she felt that she had changed from a yellow flower girl to a worthless second-hand goods, so she had a tendency to give up on herself.

In the mediation process just now, Wu Xiaozheng successfully pulled the bias, which made her sigh again.

If you are looking for a wife, is it important to have a yellow flower daughter, or is it important to be virtuous, be able to run a family, make money, and honor your in-laws?

It wasn't until after the crowd dispersed, when everyone was ready to go back to Wu's house, that Ma Li was still thinking about this issue.

Isn't it true that she won't be disliked if she is not a yellow flower girl and has had marriage experience?

She wasn't sure.

Therefore, as soon as she got in the car, she asked Wu Xiaozheng: "If you are Liu Xuewen, do you really not mind if Xiumei is divorced and has a baby?"

Wu Xiaozheng glanced at her with strange eyes.

As soon as Ma Li asked this, he could roughly guess what she was thinking.

His mind spun again.

Do you really not mind?

He couldn't be sure.

If you have been divorced, it is not a big problem, but if you have a baby, it is not necessarily.

Unless he loves that woman to the bone!

He came to such a conclusion.

It seems that he is still a layman!

He couldn't help but admire Liu Xuewen.

In this regard, Liu Xuewen is much stronger than himself.

Of course, such thoughts can't be spoken, otherwise Ma Li's heart disease will be even worse.

"What's so strange about that? Do you think divorce is a big deal?"

In order to hide his thoughts, Wu Xiaozheng asked rhetorically.

"Isn't that a big deal?"

Of course Ma Li didn't agree with this, she felt that Wu Xiaozheng didn't have a backache when she stood and spoke.

She feels that people who have never been divorced do not know the sadness of divorced people.

In her case, in her marriage, she was obviously Xiong Hanming's scum, and there was such a big scandal, but in the process of her divorce, she also experienced many resistances.

When she had the idea of divorce, her parents and sister-in-law didn't understand, saying that once she divorced, her reputation would stink, and there would be so many rumors outside that she couldn't stand it, and her family would be disgraceful, so she was persuaded to endure it.

Then when she returned to school, the school leaders also came to persuade her, saying that marriage is not easy, and that Xiong Hanming should be given a chance to change.

Then the other students at the same time saw her with strange eyes.

When it came to the specific divorce, the procedures were also very cumbersome, asking for a letter of introduction from the school, a letter of introduction from the neighborhood committee, and then going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle it, which made her suffer another round of strange eyes.

It is precisely because of this that she made up her mind to escape from Xiangshui.

"It's really not a big deal, and after ten years, you will find that divorce will become a common thing for everyone, and couples can get divorced if they quarrel casually. ”

Speaking of divorce, Wu Xiaozheng really doesn't have back pain when he stands and talks.

If you count the previous life, he experienced this earlier than Ma Li.

Therefore, he is clear about the matter of divorce.

However, he also knows that the divorce in this era is really different from ten years later.

He is not very clear about the specific content of the current marriage law, but he knows that by next year, the 94th edition of the "Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration" will be promulgated and implemented.

In this version of the Marriage Law, divorce is still a troublesome matter, in addition to the certificate of the unit, the neighborhood committee or the village committee, the civil affairs bureau may also conduct multiple mediations.

Therefore, once people in this era get divorced, it will be known to everyone.

In 2003, the new "Marriage Registration Regulations" will be promulgated, and according to the regulations, both parties can easily get a divorce as long as they present valid documents, a divorce agreement signed by both parties, two 2-inch photos, and a cost of 9 yuan for the "Divorce Certificate".

At that time, divorce becomes a very private matter, and if both parties do not say it, then both parents and children may not know.

It is precisely because of this that the divorce rate in China has begun to grow rapidly.

In 2003, the number of divorces increased by 20.6% compared to 2002, and has been rising year by year since then, and China's divorce rate has even climbed to the top three in the world, behind Russia and the United States.

As soon as he thought of this, Wu Xiaozheng thought a lot.

He wondered whether the rapid rise in the divorce rate in later generations had anything to do with changes in social customs, or was it related to the 2003 version of the Marriage Ordinance.

Alas, the world is changing so fast!

Ma Li also does not believe that there will be such a change in ten years.

She pursed her lips, indicating that she was not impressed by Wu Xiaozheng's words.

The group returned to Wu's house, and everyone made a meal together.

Next, it's time to arrange for Ma Li and Zhang Ying to go home.

Among the three women who came back together, Zhuang Ningwen was determined to spend the New Year at the Wu family, but Ma Li and Zhang Ying had their own homes, and they should go home to accompany their parents and family for the New Year.

But Wu Xiaozheng immediately ran into a problem again.

Ma Li immediately replied: "I don't want to go back so early, and when I go back, I have to listen to rumors and face complaints from my parents." ”

When she came like this, Zhang Ying also coaxed: "I also want to play here for a day or two." ”

Wu Xiaozheng: "......"

It's the twenty-seventh day of the Dula month, and you still haven't gone home?

What is the rationale for this?

Zhang Ying even if she doesn't care, she definitely still wants to be sticky to herself.

But Ma Li ......

It seems that her heart disease is not ordinary!

In desperation, he had no choice but to say: "Then let's go to my county town and settle down first." ”

This is a last resort.

The Wu family's new villa has not yet been completed, and the old residence simply cannot accommodate so many people.

Fortunately, Wu Xiaozheng also bought a three-bedroom apartment in the county seat at the beginning, and now he is just accommodating these three women.

He just didn't know if there would be any more moths in this way.