Chapter 166: Save yourself first to save others

Well, since then, the family has been destitute again, and the house to be repaired cannot be repaired, and some material fees are owed.

Finally, it was not easy, the family was relieved again, but as a result, my father was falsely accused again!

Why do you think you're always being falsely accused?

You have a reason for it, right?

Because you always do things like this repeatedly.

It's really not the first time for my father to save people by the riverside, from childhood to adulthood, I'm afraid there are more than a dozen lives he saved, right?

The other party didn't say any special thanks to him.

Of course, when the person was rescued, he may have expressed his gratitude verbally, after all, many people watched it.

That time, in the cold winter wax moon, the river water was biting cold!

The one who fell into the water was a drunken middle-aged man, who was drunk and somehow fell into the river.

Seeing that the person who fell into the water gradually had no strength to struggle, he loomed in the water, and was swept farther and farther away by the water.

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happened to be seen by my father, who didn't have time to think about his personal safety, so he jumped into the water without taking off his clothes.

The father struggled to swim to the man who fell into the water, and the man in the water dragged his father to death, and he struggled desperately in the water, constantly churning.

His father dragged him with one hand, and tried to swim to the shore, but the river was not calm, and his father dragged the man downstream for a long time, and finally hit a big rock before he stopped.

The father dragged the man ashore, and he was exhausted.

As a result, the rescued person seemed to suddenly wake up, and slapped his father with a "snap"!

yelling that his father had pushed him into the water.

Of course, his father was arguing with him, and it would be noisy and attract a lot of people.

It turned out that he was also a man from a nearby place, and the wine hadn't woken up yet!

Everyone persuaded it, forget it, forget it, don't worry about drunks.

At that time, his young brother was still following him all the way, and he was crying angrily!

The father obviously saved the man, but the man slapped the father in the mouth.

The younger brother stepped forward and kicked and beat him to avenge his father.

Pulled away.

And my father didn't have anything to say, he was cold enough, and only said to go back and take a hot shower.

saved a life, he has a clear conscience, drunk, what is the theory with him?

Some of them sent the drunkard home, and some accompanied their father home.

Is this the end of it?

For that drunk, probably.

Due to the timely rescue, the drunk man was only frightened and not in danger of life.

After that, I didn't say anything to thank my father for saving his life.

But for my father, his whole life was changed because of this.

Because of the long immersion in ice water, my father suffered from severe cold.

In addition, my father was hit by a large rock, and his waist was damaged, and since then, he can no longer bear the force.

My father was originally a person who relied on strength to eat, and this waist could not bear the force, and for him, it was a whole person.

I can't do any work, that is, the family farm work will be dominated by my mother from now on.

Mother is so angry that she wants to go to that person!

What's the use?

Will he admit it?

At that time, he lied to his father that his father pushed him into the water!

Therefore, those who want to help others should first help themselves, and those who want to save others should first save themselves.

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If you affect your own life, or even your life, by helping others, it is not worth it.

Cardamom felt that his father's behavior was theoretically noble, and that was right.

But he did influence the character, growth, and destiny of the entire family.

Some people will think that such a good father, it stands to reason that at least Cardamom should have had a great father's love, right?

Fart!

Cardamom wanted to say, really, when a little girl chooses a mate, she really shouldn't just value the other party.

This kind of good doesn't mean that it's only good for you, it's good for everyone, and you think you have caught a good person, and you quickly pick it up in the bowl!

Of course, Cardamom's worries are really superfluous, and people in this world who are like their fathers are different.

Besides, who would appreciate such a good person now?

Only when you get along with him in close proximity will you know that such a person, the so-called self-sacrificing for others, not only refers to himself, but also to his family.

So his family is out of his care.

Because he is like this to himself, how can he think of how to care for his family?

Cardamom is also very mysterious sometimes, why is there such a strange contradiction in human nature?

My father was very kind to all relatives, outsiders, and even strangers, and even to the animals in the family.

That kind of thoughtfulness, Cardamom simply thinks it's a bit excessive, okay!

Because it's a domestic animal in the countryside, it's not a pet raised by people in the city.

Father doesn't feel too sorry for that cow and dog!

Needless to say, the dogs eat leftovers, and the dogs of the cardamom family have special meals.

The cows of the people eat grass, and the cattle of the cardamom family eat fresh radishes, chopped and cooked, and then mixed with ingredients, of course, sometimes other dishes.

In winter, I am afraid that Niu Niu will freeze, and in summer, I am afraid that Niu Niu will be hot, so I want to open a window for it to ventilate and dissipate heat, and I am afraid that he will be bitten by mosquitoes, so I want to light mosquito coils for it.

Oh, my God!

When have you been so patient and considerate to your own daughter and son, even if it is only a tenth!

If you really come to your son and daughter, it's called an explosive impermanence!

Some people say that that's strict with you!

Okay, didn't you care about it at all?

I haven't paid attention to my life or study at all.

And from beginning to end, there is only accusation and reprimand for cardamom.

Cardamom is so hard-working, hard-working, diligent, and has such superior grades, she can't get a word of praise, let alone praise, as long as she doesn't get scolded, thank God.

No matter how hard she tries, she can't get a recognition from her family.

So much so that until now, even after crossing over, even if he already has a supreme and tall system and space, Cardamom is still not confident.

There was always a voice telling her, you can't, you can't, you can't do anything.

You're not worthy, you're not worthy, you're not worthy!

Not only for the children, but also for the mother, moody!

If one sentence is wrong, it is vicious!

When I was young, I would beat people, my mother, cardamom, and of course, my younger siblings.

If Cardamom hadn't experienced it herself, and others told her, she wouldn't have believed it if she was killed, right?

How could a person who is so kind and kind to outsiders be so unreasonable to his family?

Who knows, that's just the way it is.

When cardamom grows up, it often analyzes, why is this happening?

Maybe it's because my father's long-standing dissatisfaction is concentrated on his family, right?

Don't mention it, don't mention it!

Thinking of those things, Cardamom felt panicked!