284. Behind the glitz is desolation
In Shi Jianren's eyes, he will not pay attention to the ups and downs of Minister Song's officialdom, as if he basically doesn't care about wealth or status, these things that others have spent their lives pursuing, in Xiao Buyi's eyes, are just tools. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
What did the schemers care about money and power?
It's really an insult to the noble identity of the strategists.
So at most, it is just for Ji Ruotang to propose to replace Liu Qing with Wu Di, and let the former financial department personnel who can especially stick to the principles go to the car sales center that will be operated after the Spring Festival as the vice president, so that the car sales center that is likely to be a mess in the future is in the hands of Wu Di, and he should be able to ensure that his interests are not damaged as much as possible, and the rest, Shi Jianren didn't even bother to ask Qin Liangyu about what happened.
But for the little changes in Wang Xueqin's mood, he sees it in his eyes and is anxious in his heart.
Listening to Wang Xueqin's deep voice, Ji Ruotang hugged her arm tightly, and focused more on the silent figure in the driver's seat.
Not everyone is accompanied by such a calm and wise man, Ji Ruotang once again affirmed his luck.
Sitting in the spacious and luxurious back seat, Wang Xueqin began to reluctantly speak: "It's too difficult...... It's not the material difficulty, as Ah Ren judged on the front line at the beginning, such a big country, wholeheartedly wants to fight the earthquake and provide disaster relief, so the condensed material strength is huge, and there is still a steady stream of materials being transported to the disaster area, but the difficult thing is the psychological problem. ”
When the psyche suddenly experiences a huge trauma, the more people with a high level of education, the more they will think about life, life and other complex things unnaturally, and it is easy to rise to the level of philosophy and faith.
The earthquake has occurred for more than a month now, and it is just more than a month of gradual cooling and forgetfulness to the outside world, and for those who have experienced it on the front line, after the temporary emotions of excitement, panic, and emotion have faded like a tide, they are lonely, anxious, and It is only after a long period of complex negative emotions such as grief that they begin to spread, especially in the very small settlements, where the psychological comfort workers sent by the state are simply a drop in the bucket, and even those who have not experienced the disasters of war can be swallowed up by the huge negative wave.
Wang Xueqin looked at the roof of the car with some hollow eyes and leaned on the headrest: " In particular, many grassroots cadres must put all their emotions into their work, and the superiors require us to step up and do our best, only to be strong, and not to show the weak side to the victims and the masses, almost just holding on, many times I really can't hold on, running to the river and crying, and even have the idea of simply jumping down, so that I don't have to think of them anymore, think of those countless faces, and don't have to bear such heavy pressure, but when I look back and see those tents, I can only think about it, if something like this happens in Shilong Town, it will be disastrous for the overall situation。 ”
Shi Jianren didn't interject, he saw something wrong from Wang Xueqin's somewhat gray eyes, some people may just think it's a big deal and depressed, but they have been struggling in a gloomy place, and all they see is death and depression, which will inevitably make them more and more negative, occasionally looking at the two women behind him from the rearview mirror, Ji Ruotang has met his gaze, very gentle.
Maybe at this time, she realized that in the past month, after the two returned to Jiangzhou together, how lucky she was to have been in the warm and meticulous company, and actively focused on the work of the hotel group, and successfully obtained a series of results, perfectly escaped the erosion of psychological haze, and the difference between all this is not this man.
So Ji Ruotang only hugged Wang Xueqin's arm tighter at this time, because of the bicycle, the back of the seat could only be partially up, and the two women were squeezed together, at this time Ji Ruotang finally regretted that he bought so many things, and the co-pilot's seat was full of bags, bags of various brand-name products.
Even these bags irritated Wang Xueqin a little, so she raised her head: "I went to the county, city, and province to hold a meeting, accepted the banquet of the business boss, looked at the delicacies on the table and removed them without moving a few chopsticks, watched me report everywhere in the police car, and looked at the famous brand shopping malls in the downtown area, I would think of the ruins, the bodies pressed inside, and the lives that beckoned to me for help, but disappeared in the end......"
Speaking of which, Wang Xueqin may really lack a way to confide in her, and she covered her face with her hands: "A week and a half after you left, the ruins of the office building began to be demolished one after another, and I wanted to see everyone's bodies, I didn't want to go...... But you must go, have you seen the decomposing and unrecognizable bodies, I have seen them all my dreams around me, crying and crying out to me, saying that I did not save them......"
Until this time, Wang Xueqin didn't seem to be the cadre who faced the world with a strong smile on the TV screen, but an ordinary woman, a young woman who was not yet thirty years old, and the cry began to flow out between her fingers, Ji Ruotang seemed to think of something, hugged her and began to cry silently.
Shi Jianren didn't say warm words to comfort him, and slid along the evening rush hour traffic that was a little congested, and then just when Ji Ruotang seemed to cry too, and Wang Xueqin's crying reached a peak, he suddenly shouted loudly: "Enough! Don't let go of your emotions anymore!"
In the face of negative emotions, in fact, there are various ways to deal with it in psychology, the most common thing people say is that it may be good to cry, psychologists are usually inclined to catharsis, many psychological treatments are based on telling catharsis, but Shi Jianren categorically cut off this catharsis, the two women were startled, Wang Xueqin was crying in the head, and when he was interrupted, he was caught off guard and burped, Ji Ruotang pouted aggrievedly, isn't it just crying, what's the big deal, and they have never seen Shi Jianren so angry, hasn't he always been gentle。
Shi Jianren was really not angry: "The mood is not right, the more you cry, the more bitter it becomes, the more dangerous the tone of your emotions becomes, don't cry if it's not good, and you've already cried so much that you have forgotten what you want, remember? What do you want? When the three of us meet in that ruin, what do you want?"
This is not difficult to recall, Ji Ruotang said: "Mom...... I want to find my mother, even if it'...... Even if my mother is gone, I want to do my best in Shilong Town and try to show my mother all the time. "Her psychology is the healthiest, except for the father-love complex from a single family, which relies on the subconscious, and now her eyes immediately reveal a confident and determined look.
Wang Xueqin is much more difficult: "Ah Ren...... It's not so easy, I thought too simply, I thought that I could get rid of it by doing things desperately, and I didn't think that if I called them out, they wouldn't all die in it, but now the more I do it, the more I see, you don't know, the victims of the disaster are scolding the government, and now they drink and gamble all day long, and there are even those who secretly take drugs, and they will suffer if they survive...... You know, I really might as well run away with me, at least ...... now?"
Shi Jianren drank again: "Enough! You are indulging your emotions to slide to the more and more negative end, you have a mission! Most people don't know what mission they have in their lives, they only see those colorful things in their eyes and are dazzled, you are now fascinated by these emotions of theirs, this is called flashiness! Flashiness makes you slowly lose your sense of mission, do you understand!"
Maybe only in the face of the two most difficult and helpless friends in front of her, Wang Xueqin will expose her unknown side like this, maybe it was when she was just and fragile and there was a crack in the gap, she finally unloaded the strength that everyone thought she had, and still covered her face, but opened her eyes and looked ahead a little confused and helpless: "I don't even dare to see a psychiatrist, for fear that they will say that I am sick and moaning, since I have survived, I still keep being an advanced person, and I still pretentiously say that I am uncomfortable......"
Obviously, Wang Xueqin was already very sick, and Shi Jianren immediately made a decision.
"Go back, I'll accompany you back to Shilong Town immediately, not only you, but the entire Shilong Town needs to reverse this emotion, you can't even control your own emotions, what to talk about saving yourself?!" )