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The old lady of the Tang family looked at her hand, turned to look at her with a smile, and said, "Zhi'er, when you are at home, you still have to do needlework often." Things like writing are generally passable. ”

After Su Qingzhi looked at her hand repeatedly, she found that there was a cocoon mark on the pen between her fingers, and she smiled and said to the old lady of the Tang family: "I listen to my grandmother's words, and in the future, I will spend more time on needlework." ”

The old lady of the Tang family looked at her and shook her head, this granddaughter was too solid-eyed, she was a little worried about whether she would be too obedient.

The old lady of the Tang family hurriedly said to her: "Don't use all your thoughts on needlework, you still have to go out more, take a look at the patterns on others, at home, in your spare time, learn to paint with your brother, it is good for you to do needlework."

If you go around the streets, you can see what the most up-to-date clothes look like、、、、、。 ”

Su Qingzhi could feel the sincerity of the old lady of the Tang family, she was willing to listen to these old people, even if it was a big truth, she had already understood.

However, companionship and listening are probably the best way for her to be grateful.

The old lady of the Tang family could understand Su Qingzhi's demeanor, and her heart warmed, such a sensible child, fortunately, her daughter finally came back sensibly to rebuild the relationship between mother and daughter.

The old lady of the Tang family never spoke for the Tang family in front of Su Qingzhi, she thought that she had hurt the mother-daughter relationship, and she wanted to make up for it, and it was not on Su Qingzhi's side.

Su Qingzhi happens to like this kind of relationship, and she can hear more about some old things from the old lady of the Tang family.

When the old lady of the Tang family was young, the old lady of the Tang family was still there, and their life as a young couple was relatively relaxed, and they had a lot of interactions with the people around them.

Later, after the old Tang family and his wife went, after the official position of the Tang family was promoted, they slowly interacted with people, and they became a little different.

The old lady of the Tang family sighed and said: "There are so many people like the Lin family, the ancestors are not allowed to divide the family, and everyone lives in the same house for five generations.

It sounds good on the outside, but there is a lot of trouble inside. In the past, when the old lady of the Lin family first married, the old lady of the Lin family still treated her with affection, but the relationship between the young husband and wife was too good, and the old man looked down on it unpleasantly, so he gave people something to toss the little couple. ”

Su Qingzhi's eyes widened, she never knew that the old lady of the Tang family and the people of the Lin family still had a friendship back then.

She said curiously: "I heard my classmates mention in the ethnology that the old lady who is now in charge of the family is serious and capable, and she is fair in her family. When she was young, was she also so capable?"

The old lady of the Tang family sighed lightly and shook her head and said, "When she was young, she was as capable as she is now, and this is why the world forced her to be capable."

The husband has a concubine, and naturally has children. If she is weaker, how can she protect the young girl. ”

In the mouth of the old lady of the Tang family, when the old lady and his wife were young, the husband and wife had a good life.

It's just that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can't get along, and then slowly the old lady of the Lin family shifts, and the couple still live in harmony.

The old lady of the Tang family said with a smile: "Naturally, you have to get along in harmony, and your arms can't twist your thighs, so naturally you can only live by holding on and not letting go." ”

This may be a kind of wisdom that women have to approach, women can't get affection and love in men, so they have to use men's hands to hold the authority of the family.

Su Qingzhi sighed softly and said, "It's a pity." This man can choose the woman he wants from trip to time, and the woman has no choice on the day she marries.

An enlightened family like the Tang family is finally willing to choose the Tang family to live in the future.

The old lady of the Tang family looked at Su Qingzhi's expression, and she said with a smile: "Ordinary people still don't want to live such a thrilling life. ”

The old lady of the Tang family never arranged for someone to go to her daughter-in-law's side, and she never reached out to take care of the affairs in her son's room.

Su Qingzhi has been in and out of the Tang family for so many years, and looking around, she feels that in addition to paying some attention to the eldest daughter-in-law, the old lady of the Tang family also treats other daughters-in-law with the same kindness.

In this regard, her performance is not quite the same as that of the old lady of the Su family.

The old lady of the Su family is only willing to get along with the Tang family more, and treats other daughters-in-law lightly.

Of course, this is related to the character of the daughters-in-law, Su Qingzhi can see that the aunts and uncles of the Tang family have good temperaments and can be considerate of each other.

And among the concubines of the Su family, only the Tang family is more generous, and other people are a little thoughtful and calculating.

Su Qingzhi quietly inquired about the news with the old lady of the Tang family and said, "Grandmother, how did my grandfather and grandmother fall in love with my second aunt back then?"

The old lady of the Tang family poked her finger lightly and whispered: "Can't you let your grandfather hear the gossip between the two of us, your grandfather said that women can't gossip too much."

However, in this world, only a stupid woman will marry someone stupidly without knowing anything. ”

After the old lady of the Tang family's explanation, Su Qingzhi understood that the boss of the Su family always looked like a master in front of his children and grandchildren, but when he wanted to meddle in such a major life event as his sons, he could not be objected to.

The major events of Su Zhenlei's brothers marrying are all candidates set by the boss of the Su family.

Of course, at that time, the old lady of the Su family could not find any suitable family, so she could only follow the will of the old lady of the Su family.

Su Qingzhi was a little curious about the old lady of the Su family, and asked the old lady of the Tang family: "Grandmother, you know so many people, why doesn't my grandmother seem to know too many people?"

Su Qingzhi also heard the old lady of the Tang family mention things when she was young, and found that she and the second lady of the Su family sometimes listened to the old lady of the Su family talk about the past, and it sounded like it was all about her parents and siblings.

The old lady of the Tang family looked at Su Qingzhi's innocent and curious eyes, she smiled and said, "When your grandmother was young, she was very happy, but the people in her family were very guarded and easily did not allow her to go out. ”

Su Qingzhi could see that the old lady of the Su family was born well, but she couldn't imagine that her grandmother was so happy when she was young.

The old lady of the Tang family looked at her look, laughed, and said, "Her family is guarding against people, and everyone is also worried about the people in her family, so everyone usually doesn't come and go."

Aren't you the same now? You're all with your cousins, and you don't have much contact with anyone else. ”

It turns out that history is walking, and future generations are walking forward along the path of their predecessors.

The women of the Su family are not very sociable with people, Su Qingzhi used to think that it was the actions of the boss of the Su family that blocked her, but now she understands that the family style is like this.