717 The Torment of Menopause
Dongmei glared at Hongxia, but she didn't speak.
And Hongxia seems to be silent in her own world, unable to extricate herself.
At the beginning, Li Jing was pregnant because she was unmarried, and the troubles and depression caused to Hongxia seemed to be chased by two high-achieving students at the same time after Li Jing went up the mountain, and the breakthrough disappeared.
Hongxia seems to have seen the strangeness of Dongmei.
She suddenly converged a lot.
She looked at Dongmei and said, "Taotao is still in the drilling team, right?"
Dongmei looked at Hongxia's expression of indifference, and she suddenly figured it out in an instant.
Maybe at that time, when Hongxia said these words, she was just joking.
And he is taking it seriously, taking it seriously, as a thing that is slapped on the board, or something that is nailed on the board.
Although he has helped Hongxia countless times, although he has solved countless difficulties for Hongxia......
Even Hongxia's two daughters, Li Jing and Li Mao, grew up eating at Dongmei's house.
However, just because he helped others or took care of other people's children, he couldn't let his daughter marry his son?
It seems to be true, there is no cause and effect, right?
After a long time, she finally spoke: "Taotao is still in the drilling team." “
Hongxia heard that Taotao was still working in the drilling team, she expressed disappointment and said: "Hey, our family Li Jianjun and your family Weiguo, both of them have worked in the drilling team for a lifetime, and now my son is working in the drilling team again. “
Dongmei smiled coldly, and she said: "Isn't it all the same on the oil production team, they are all oil workers, aren't they all doing manual work?"
Hongxia retorted to Dongmei and said: "However, oil extraction is the main business, and it is basically based on children, while drilling is a sideline business, and it is basically based on social miscellaneous personnel recruited from the local government. “
Dongmei didn't want to argue with Hongxia about anything, she looked at the sky and said, "This weather, although it is cloudy, it doesn't rain. “
After finishing speaking, Dong Mei turned around and left, and Di Hongxia stood there alone, not understanding what Dong Mei meant by what she just said.
Although Dongmei will not break off the sisterhood because of this incident, Dongmei has at least been injured by Hongxia.
As she walked, she thought that since Hongxia didn't want to tell her daughter Li Jing to Taotao, then she didn't want to open her mouth casually and swear casually......
Now that you have made a vow, you have sworn an oath, and now you have all quietly overturned it, what is going on?
Dongmei returns to her empty home.
She looked at the empty room and felt very uncomfortable.
She said in her heart that Wei Guo is an oil worker, and since she and Wei Guo got married, they have been living this kind of separation between the two places.
The children are brought by themselves, the family is run by themselves, and the big and small things are handled by themselves.
Now, his son is on the drilling team again, will he live a life without home, children, and parents like Wei Guo in the future?
The women of their own generation can at least live in an empty house, endure loneliness, and wait for their husbands.
However, can a girl in Taotao's life do this?
If Tao Tao gets married, throws his wife at home, goes to the Sulige Desert by himself, and only comes back once or twice a year, can he still live this life?
Thinking of this, Dongmei's head is big.
At the same time, Hongxia just overturned everything she had said before, and canceled Taotao and Li Jing's matchmaking appointment.
Dongmei suddenly felt that she couldn't bear it anymore.
Now, I have to call Wei Guo, otherwise, my mood will become very bad, very depressed, and very painful.
Since Dongmei entered menopause, she doesn't know whether she is worried about Taotao's work or other things, she always feels that sometimes she really doesn't want to live.
Although her life is so good now, the housing is so good, and everything is so good, she doesn't know what's going on, and she suddenly becomes depressed.
Wei Guo once suggested that Dongmei go to the doctor, but Dongmei felt that she could adjust, so she did not go to the doctor.
But right now, Dongmei's situation has not improved, but has taken a sharp turn for the worse.
When Wei Guo's phone call was connected, Dong Mei immediately cried to Wei Guo on the phone: "Wei Guo, Hongxia's daughter Li Jing has a boyfriend, they don't want Tao Tao anymore, you say Tao Tao, if you don't have a daughter-in-law, what should I do?"
Wei Guo knows that Dongmei has been abnormal recently, and knows that she has often been worried about people recently.
So, Wei Guo comforted Dongmei and said: "Where is there no grass in the world, why should you love a flower?"
Dongmei immediately understood what Wei Guo meant, and she said: "However, if Taotao wants to live in the future, you and I live a life of separation......
If the daughter-in-law that Taotao is looking for in the future is not our oilfield child......
It's not a girl who has been exposed to it since she was a child, and her parents live separately in the oil field, so what should I do?
If the object Taotao is looking for is a local girl, then she will definitely be difficult to accept, or even completely unacceptable, Taotao's nature of work, this way of life between husband and wife?"
Wei Guo has never been worried about Taotao's marriage, he said: "Even if Li Jing is gone, Rao Li's daughter Rao Di is still there." “
Although Dongmei knew that Rao Di had not yet gone on a blind date with Taotao, she felt that the odds of winning were not high.
Dongmei always felt that there was an 80% chance that Rao Di would not look down on Taotao.
She said, "What if Rao Di doesn't look down on Taotao?"
Wei Guo laughed and said: "I can't look better, when your father wrote to you back then, didn't he tell you that when it comes to marriage, you should pay attention to the right family, and you would rather be low than high?"
Wei Guo suddenly mentioned something more than 20 years ago, which made Dongmei a little unexpected.
At that time, Dong Meisheng, who was in her early twenties, was beautiful, with red lips and bright teeth, and she was working in a hot-pressed retreaded tire factory in the city.
In the factory, the sons of two leaders have taken a fancy to Dongmei.
At that time, Wei Guo hadn't replied to Dongmei, and he hadn't told Dongmei that he had taken a fancy to her.
So, Dongmei wrote a letter to her father and asked her father what she should do?
And his father's reply was exactly what Wei Guo had just repeated, and it was exactly the same word.
Dongmei was suddenly amused by Wei Guo, she said: "That was more than 20 years ago, I forgot everything, but I didn't expect that you, who have never had a good memory, still remember?"
Although Dongmei has almost forgotten about this incident, Wei Guo has a deep memory.
The reason why Wei Guo has a deep memory of this incident is also because of this incident, which directly determines Wei Guo's marriage, marrying Dongmei, not someone else.
If Dongmei's father replied to the letter at that time and asked Dongmei to choose to climb high instead of low in marriage, then Weiguo would definitely have no fun.
Therefore, Wei Guo thanked the old man for this letter for a lifetime.
Wei Guo was on the phone, and when he heard that Dongmei was in a good mood, he continued: "Besides, when this year's winter break is over, we will buy a house for Taotao in the provincial capital."
When the time comes, Taotao will have a house in the provincial capital, which girl do I think is still unwilling to marry Taotao?"