Chapter 879: Is the house really that important for getting married?
After Dongmei and Fang Fang's mother hung up the phone, they came to Taotao's room.
At this time, Nana was still playing with her bull temper.
Dongmei stepped forward, patted Nana on the shoulder, and then said, "My good girl, don't play with your temperament anymore, I have already called Fang Fang's mother just now." ”
Hearing that her mother had negotiated with Fang Fang's mother on her behalf, Nana turned around.
Her eyes were full of hope, she looked at Dongmei and said, "Mom, did you call Fang Fang's mother?"
How about it, Fang Fang's parents agreed to buy me a house in the provincial capital?"
Dongmei didn't know how to tell Nana, she felt that since Fang Fang's family was really difficult and really couldn't come up with money, she had to spare people and go around people, forget it for the time being.
Dongmei said to Nana: "Nana, I discussed it with Fang Fang's mother......"
Before Dongmei's words were finished, Nana interrupted her mother's words, she said, "How is the discussion, how many roads are the Fang family going to buy a house for me in Fengcheng?"
Hearing this, Dongmei said embarrassedly: "No, we discussed it and decided not to buy you a house for the time being." ”
Hearing the result of the discussion between her mother and Fang Fang's mother, she didn't even buy a house for herself, and Nana almost cried.
She looked at Dongmei puzzled, and said: "Mom, when other mothers marry their daughters, they are all forced to choke on the man's family and buy a house for their daughter, for fear that after the children marry in the past, there will be no house to live in the future, how can you turn your elbows out, talk to others, and not buy me a house?"
Dongmei looked at Nana's expression when she was about to cry, and explained the reason to her, saying: "Nana, it's not that my mother's elbow is turned out, but that the Fang family is really in difficulty, and it is true that they can't come up with money for the time being." ”
Hearing that Fang Fang's family couldn't come up with the money, Nana said angrily: "Since I don't have the money to buy a house, then when I got engaged before, he should have made it clear to me, and I still considered marrying their son."
It's good now, I promised it at the beginning, but now I regret it, what's the matter?"
Dongmei looked at Nana who was crying, and she couldn't help it.
She said, "Nana, is it so important that the girl gets married and the man has a house?"
Nana doesn't know how important it is to have a house, anyway, she is looking at the classmates around her, whenever a girl gets married, the man must have a house anyway, whether it is a mortgage or a lump sum payment.
She said: "When my classmates get married, the man has a house, so I can't get married and don't have a house, right?"
As she spoke, Nana cried even harder.
She cried and said: "I saved 100,000 yuan myself in order to buy a house, which girl have you ever seen get married and pay for it?"
Dongmei looked at the sad Nana, so she persuaded her, saying, "Nana, let me tell you, your mother-in-law and father-in-law are not going to buy you a house, they really don't have money for the time being."
Maybe they'll buy you a house after you're married?"
Nana didn't agree with Dongmei's point of view at all, she said: "My mother-in-law is full of truth, do you believe her words?"
My father-in-law once said to me that he was a small bag of men, and he would pay more than 100,000 yuan in wages to his migrant workers every year.
I don't believe it, I took out 100,000 yuan, Fang Fang's parents took out 100,000 yuan, and made a down payment of 200,000 yuan for the house, but they didn't have it?"
Dongmei knew that Fang Fang's parents liked to talk big, especially in front of outsiders, and they preferred to talk big.
Fang Fang's parents, compared to Dongmei and Wei Guo's plain dress, they simply dressed themselves like nouveau riche.
Although they looked very rich, and they also said that they were very rich, but at the critical moment, they couldn't come up with the money, which made Dongmei very annoyed.
Dongmei explained to Nana, saying, "You know that your father-in-law and mother-in-law both like to show off their wealth and brag about it......
You know, people generally show off what they lack, maybe they really don't have money. ”
Nana said dissatisfied: "Isn't that house in their county town money?"
Dongmei thought that Nana was talking about Fang Fang's homestead, she said: "The house in Dongguan, the county seat, but other people's homesteads, you can't force others to sell the homestead, right?"
The house that Nana said was not Fang Fang's homestead, she was talking about the contractor and the house that Fang Fang's father paid off his debts.
Nana told Dongmei, "Didn't Fang Fang's mother tell you that their family has a house to pay off debts." ”
Dongmei remembered the conversation with Fang Fang's mother just now, she said, "I know, but you can't let people sell that house, right?"
Nana felt that she should sell the house, she said: "Anyway, Fang Fang's family has a house, and it's useless for them to want that house now, and Fang Fang and I don't live there, so it's better to sell it and buy a house for me and Fang Fang in the provincial capital." ”
Although Nana is her own daughter, Dongmei still considers the problem from the perspective of the Fang family.
She disagreed and said: "Selling a house is a big deal, as someone's daughter-in-law, where do you have so much power to decide the affairs of other people's houses?"
Nana disagreed and said, "Since selling the house is a big deal, isn't it a big deal for me to get married?"
Hearing this, Dongmei was speechless by Nana.
She was speechless for a long time, and finally said: "Nana, you also know that you are sick, the fibroids in your uterus are constantly growing, and the most important thing at the moment is that you get married quickly, and then get pregnant quickly, and when it is time to give birth, remove the fibroids in your uterus together......"
Although Nana knew that the fibroids in her uterus were constantly growing, she still couldn't swallow this breath when she faced Fang Fang's parents who were open and didn't keep their promises.
Nana said: "I don't care so much, anyway, the Fang family, you have to buy a house for me in the provincial capital before I get married." ”
Hearing this, Dongmei sighed helplessly.
She said, "My words have already been given to you for this part, see for yourself."
If you have to force someone to buy a house, then you can force it.
In case the time comes, your marriage with Fang Fang is yellow, don't blame me for not reminding you in advance. ”
Although Nana loves Fang Fang very much, Nana at this time is bent on asking for a house in the provincial capital.
For this reason, she was not afraid that her marriage with Fang Fang would be yellow.
Dongmei saw Nana's unrepentant appearance, and she walked out angrily.
Nana saw her mother go out, she closed the door, and while crying, she said: "Who doesn't know Fang Fang's mother's thoughts, she wants to keep the unit in the county seat and live with her daughter Fang Juan in the future......
However, Fang Juan is also going to get married in the future, what's the point of keeping that house?"
Dongmei stood on the balcony, her heart beating hard.
She took a deep breath and regulated her mood.
She said in her heart, what's wrong with the girl now, she looks at the house more important than her life?
Is the house really so important for marriage in Chinese society?
While questioning, Dongmei also sighed, fortunately, Wei Guo was far-sighted and bought a house for Taotao early.
Otherwise, if it were put here, Taotao would definitely not be able to find a daughter-in-law because he didn't have a house.