The second floor is designed with a raised arc railing, which can be raised above the hall on the first floor, and there is an inner arc railing on the third to seventh floors, so the upper floors can lean on the railing to overlook the forum platform on the second floor. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

This is actually a common design inside a hollow-type commercial building, forming this visual center area, it is very convenient for shopping malls to organize various activities, in some shopping malls just the price code of this promotional position, a weekend can find merchants to collect a large amount of money.

Therefore, Shi Jianren stood here to speak, which was equivalent to facing thousands of people, as if it was a place specially tailored for him.

Those who come here should have some interest in reading, at least in terms of cultural level, they tend to be intellectuals.

This seems to have screened the audience for him.

So when Shi Jianren spoke loudly, even if the lecture was only facing the forum, it was obvious that many readers on the opposite cliff raised their heads, and then many people upstairs couldn't help but stand on the railing and look down.

Of course, Shi Jianren's shocking tricks, and the opening remarks that are not shocking are also the focus of attraction, the most common sentence in these years is that talent determines the upper limit, and hard work determines the lower limit, he actually said at the beginning that these two things are not the most important?

Coupled with Shi Jianren's appearance from a great stick to today, no matter from which point of view, he can be regarded as a successful person, right?

In these years, only successful people are qualified to talk about experience, and no matter how cold people are, they will feel that they will listen to it?

Shi Jianren's eloquent talk is professional: "When you may have loved to read with books in your hands since you were a child, some of your peers are more keen to sing and dance, play ball or go to a variety of different occasions to show their talents, when some friends are fascinated by science and literature, some peers have nothing to do, when the college entrance examination comes, some classrooms are brightly lit, but other classrooms are hip-hop playing, some people are immersed in piano, painting, When the literary masterpiece is loved, what some people love is the time when they are showy, addicted to games and even pornographic books, a gap has been invisibly opened between them, and when this difference is discovered, the trajectory of life has begun to be different, what will everyone become in the future, there have been invisible and difficult to penetrate the division, cruel separation of strength and weakness orderly, insurmountable, why has it become like this? My personal feelings, that is habit, what determines the direction of everyone's destiny is not talent, not effort, but habit!"

It should have been from this moment on, almost all the dense readers on the opposite cliff looked up at this side, and those who could stand up and lean against the railing all leaned on this side to look at the man who seemed to be standing in the center of a thousand pairs of eyes.

This may be the largest speech scene that Shi Jianren has faced so far, and it also has a bonus effect on him, and he is in better shape: "Today we will not discuss the definition of success, because this topic has been debated a lot for thousands of years, and it is famous, luxury, or power, or the pursuit of inner calm, maintaining calm elegance, these are all different opinions of everyone, I will only talk about today to achieve these goals, at least as a successful person in the general sense, habit is the decisive factor." ”

At this time, Shi Jianren actually had the leisure to be funny:" Friends over there, I know it's a good habit to take notes in class, but I don't have a blackboard and no key outline, and the speed of speech is relatively fast, so unless it's a shorthand major, it's difficult to write it down word for word, but it affects the listening and thinking at this time, I'm talking about a family, it's best to take the habit of thinking to critically confirm whether it's right, I'd rather you listen to refute me, rather than remember a bunch of unobtrusive words, and forget it all when you look back, I believe that the coordinates of the times will arrange professional manual records, and finally you can ask for the manuscript, thank you... …”

From the beginning of his note-taking with the style of a TV column, many people laughed, it was really Shi Jianren who was too good at controlling the atmosphere: "Okay, back to the point, successful people are actually formed by two habits, study habits and thinking habits, since you are friends who like to come to the bookstore, then liking to read books is a common habit for everyone, this is a learning path, and there are many other learnings, such as piano, Dance and the like, if this kind of learning habit is formed early, it will be helpful for the future lifelong learning, for example, memorizing textbooks, learning boring knowledge, people with good habits can insist on controlling themselves not to give up, patience to read or understand, and what about the kind of playful people that everyone often says? Their habit is to give up boring things to seek happiness, from playing, After the two completely different habits of pleasure are established, it is conceivable who can stick to and resist in the face of learning this inevitably boring thing. ”

Many parents with children listened thoughtfully, but there were many people, and they didn't know who it was on the far side of the book cliff, anyway, they said in a loud voice: "But what is the habit of the guy who plays better than anyone else all day long, and is better at exams than anyone else?" Because the scene was suddenly a little quiet, the voice actually echoed.

Shi Jianren turned around as if he was taken aback: "Well, I have to say that this is really a spontaneous rebuttal, not arranged by me to praise it, this kind of talented guy mentioned by this friend is the habit of thinking I want to say, well, please raise your hand first when you refute the question next time, even if it is behind your back, shout first and then ask questions, this habit of easily interrupting thinking is not good." ”

In the midst of another burst of laughter, there was really a young man on the book cliff who waved his hand embarrassedly: "Got it!"

Shi Jianren faced this side: "When we solve problems, we often compare them through known experience or theory, and older people are more reliable in doing things, that is, they have accumulated more empirical theories in their lives, for example, when talking about probability theory, when talking about the law of large numbers, a person who has heard of the law of price regression value can instantly understand, and a person who knows it from a book." People who know that the horsepower is getting better and see the hearts of the people over time' may be easier to understand, but people who do not have any thinking ability and will only memorize by rote, I am afraid it will take more time to test the probability theory well, which is the reason why the more empirical theory reserves, the more labor-saving learning will be, especially all people will be like children, when they encounter completely new things and do not understand things, they can only rely on thinking habits when trying to solve problems, such as the reading habits that everyone here has benefited from, which is a kind of thinking habits. ”

On the podium, a chair was arranged for the lecturer to be used as a background decoration, and Shi Jianren casually picked up a book from it:" The formation of reading habits can help the acquisition of thinking habits to the greatest extent, the role of books is two, one is to provide experience, the other is to teach theory, a useful novel, is a series of highly organized, highly orderly experience, a popular science magazine in addition to experience also has a series of easy-to-understand theories, children who are keen to read novel news, in the early stage of learning, can quickly improve their experience through reading, with far more than their peers of the early experience accumulation, more importantly, develop this habit of inducting theories from experience, just like some video games now, someone can always quickly find a shortcut to upgrade and fight monstersThis is also a kind of habit of thinking, but leaving the game, in the whole process of life, he has been accustomed to the kind of refreshing stimulation that can be quickly upgraded in a few minutes and hours, and can not face the need for life to accumulate learning or several years of upgrading, then it is easy to become a loser, which is why many people of insight are more opposed to children's contact with video games, because video games are about success in a short period of time, psychologically speaking, this virtually makes the child's excitement and stimulation become very high, more and more pursuit of excitement, in the face of learning this relatively boring thing, it is more boring。 ”

Wu Xiaoying and Hong Qiaoyun couldn't help but glance at each other, and Liu Qing was even more surprised: "Is he already studying education because he wants to take care of children?"

Or Hong Qiaoyun is more knowledgeable: "Maybe in the eyes of a scholar like him, to a certain extent, what theory is reasonable?"

Wu Xiaoying nodded anyway: "Now I can finally rest assured that I will hand over the child to my father, haha!"

Liu Qing estimated that he was envious, jealous and hateful, so he pouted: "Maybe he is a theoretician!"

was so angry that Wu Xiaoying secretly kicked her!

As a result, Ji Ruotang and Geng Haiyan made a comprehensive observation on it, and they were also a little whispering.

In fact, there were a lot of whispers in the audience, after all, it sounded very reasonable, Shi Zhengzheng's reputation was not for nothing, and some parents raised their hands and asked questions in a very regular manner: "That...... Is it because of this excitement that children don't like to learn?"

Shi Jianren nodded: "What inspires human beings to move forward is usually a sense of pleasure, the pleasure of getting along with a lover brings love, those career strongmen support them more of a sense of achievement, and learning is the same, who forces you to read books you don't like, even if the knowledge in the book is useful, there is no sense of pleasure, it looks like you want to doze off, but I said that children with good study habits are happy every time they get good grades, right?" Second, after completing the question and writing the article, they often have a sense of accomplishment and happiness, and good habits mean strong execution, and children who can strictly demand their own habits will get a series of rewards, whether it is grades or psychology, and even social feedback and parental feedback, let him develop better habits, which has embarked on a virtuous circle. ”

Some people are also worried: "But our children have worked hard enough, and their grades are not very good......

Shi Jianren took the time to look at the child's face, he was a little stupid, but he didn't stifle it: "If you don't work hard, if your thinking habits are not good, it's useless, there is indeed a gap in talent, but most people overestimate the role of talent, and use it to perfunctory their own non-effort or pretend to work hard, ah, I'm stupid, I'm like this, my life is gone...... Let me tell you, since I was a child, I kept telling myself that I was very smart, and I didn't study hard, so I'm sorry for this intelligence, but now I believe it......"

Looking at the young man standing on the stage shaking his head and pretending to be proud, many people laughed.

Geng Haiyan also smiled, put his chin on the railing and looked at Shi Jianren with some distraction: "Yes, when I first met him, he said that he was very smart, and he died ...... soil."

As a result, Shi Jianren said surprisingly at the end: " Now many people are talking about class solidification, as the rich are getting richer and richer, there are more and more opportunities, and the poor are getting ahead more and more, we don't discuss this social issue today, but what I want to say is that the formation of this kind of learning habits and thinking habits is another form of class solidification, and the life that this habit determines is almost impossible to change, because those who don't have good habits are too good at cowardly escape, this is given by my parents, that is a natural talent, I really can't, I just live a lifetime in my pocket, so it is easy to change the nature of the country and the mountains is difficult to change, and it is not impossible to change the habits the day after tomorrow, but it is too difficultCultivating habits from the beginning is the core of a lifetime of success...... Thank you. ”

Then in the huge bookstore space, there was no thunderous applause.

I even found that most people didn't applaud and immediately took it back.