Soon, a year passed.

Hongxia's daughter, Li Jing, was admitted to a junior college in an ordinary university in Xianyang.

In the beginning of the school season, Hongxia found Dongmei and wanted her to accompany her to school.

After all, Dongmei took Taotao and went to the university to report, so she must have experience.

Dongmei is a warm-hearted person, and she is also responsive to Hongxia's needs.

So, Dongmei and Hongxia took Li Jing in a bus and walked towards Xianyang City.

On the way, Dongmei asked Hongxia curiously, and said, "Hongxia, Song Nian's daughter-in-law is also a very experienced person, why don't you look for Song Nian's daughter-in-law, but come to me." ”

Hongxia sat by the window, she said: "Where can Song Nian's daughter-in-law compare with you, you are not only good at communication, good communication, but also clear and straightforward, simple and fast, and Song Nian's daughter-in-law is not only grinding, but also confused, I am afraid that after running away with her for a day, my child will not even be able to report his name." ”

Dong Mei said with a smile: "Where is there such an exaggeration, in fact, the university report is very simple, adults don't go, as soon as the child enters the gate of the school, someone will receive it, after paying the tuition, assigning the dormitory, it is step-by-step, much simpler than you think." ”

Hongxia disagreed and said: "The child is going out for the first time, how can parents not go, otherwise they will not worry." ”

Dongmei said: "Some time ago, I thought about our education methods, and in the end, I think that our education methods for children are still somewhat problematic. ”

Hongxia asked curiously, "What's the problem?"

Dongmei said: "Don't you think that we take too much care of the child, and we have not cultivated the child's independence and self-judgment ability to do things." ”

Hongxia said disapprenously: "The child is still young now, it would be good if he grew up a little longer." ”

Dongmei said: "Your Li Jing is the same age as my Taotao, they are both eighteen or nineteen children, and they are mature enough, so we must learn to let go of our children, otherwise we will develop the kind of children who rely on the behavior of their parents for everything, and there will be endless troubles." “

The county seat is very close to Xianyang City, and the three of them arrived in a short time.

Dongmei saw that Li Jing's school was very small, and the teaching building was very simple.

She said: "Hongxia, you haven't thought about letting your child tutor for another year and take the undergraduate exam." “

Hongxia shook her head and said, "Li Jing can't learn in the first place, and if she tutors for another year, it's still the same, so it's better for her to go to this school." “

The registration went smoothly, but when Li Jing moved into the dormitory, she felt completely uncomfortable.

Because Li Jing found that her roommate actually had tattoos, and she was still on the other side very conspicuously.

At that time, in the Northwest Territories, in the eyes of everyone, children with tattoos on everything would be classified as delinquent teenagers.

Li Jing was afraid of living in a dormitory with this kind of person.

So, she begged her mother to find a teacher to change her dormitory.

No way, Hongxia and Dongmei found a way to find a teacher and readjusted a dormitory for Li Jing.

At noon, the three of them ate in the cafeteria.

Suddenly, Li Jing saw another scene that made her unhappy.

As she ate, she said in her mouth, "It's disgusting." “

Dongmei said differently: "Child, the meal is not bad, why are you saying disgusting." ”

Li Jing looked at the pair of little couples in front of me who were kissing me and said, "I'm not saying that the food is disgusting, I'm saying that the little couple is disgusting." ”

Following Li Jing's eyes, Dongmei looked over.

I saw that in a huge canteen, a small couple was kissing in front of everyone.

Moreover, the girl wears a miniskirt and sits on the boy's lap.

The two didn't care about the feelings of the people around them, and they were kissing unlovely.

Dongmei was also stunned, she said: "Young people nowadays, they are really not big or small, and they don't pay attention to the occasion." ”

Hongxia said: "When we were young, let alone kissing, we had to find a place where no one was there to hold hands, and we had to hold hands secretly. ”

Dongmei said: "I was married to Wei Guo at the time, and I didn't dare to hold hands in front of everyone, let alone kiss. ”

Dongmei looked at Li Jing with a look of disdain and asked her, "Li Jing, are you ready to fall in love in college?"

Li Jing shook her head and said, very resolutely: "I don't fall in love." ”

Dongmei said: "Actually, during college, as a student, you should talk about love, after all, love is also to learn, if you haven't experienced love, when you get married in the future, you accidentally meet your own Prince Charming, and you can't judge it, you can't grasp it." ”

Hongxia disagreed with Dongmei's words, she said: "Dongmei, what you said is wrong, what love needs to be learned, let me say, it's all fate, whoever you meet, it's whoever."

I think back then, when I was still the daughter of Huanghua, I accidentally met Li Jianjun, and I got married in such a daze, isn't it good, who studied love before getting married?"

Dongmei said: "We were in the past, and now, the times are different, if we judge the things of this era according to the standards of our era, and don't let the child fall in love, maybe the child will suffer in marriage in the future." ”

After Dongmei and Hongxia arranged Li Jing, the two left the school.

Because the enrollment was too smooth, when the two came out of school, it was still early.

So, the two decided to take a look around the city.

Dongmei walked on the streets of Xianyang City, and couldn't help but evoke memories of her youth.

She told Hongxia that when she was eighteen or nineteen years old, that is, when she was the age of Li Jing, she worked in a tire factory in the city and retread tires.

At that time, I was doing the work of several people by myself.

Sometimes, if you work the night shift all night, you can continue to work the day shift the next day without resting.

In the blink of an eye, more than 20 years have passed, and the changes in the city have also been earth-shaking.

If I hadn't stayed here 20 years ago, I wouldn't have believed that such a modern city would still be so dilapidated more than 20 years ago.

Dongmei accompanied Hongxia to buy a few clothes, and ate a bowl of Jing cake on the side of the road, and then got on the bus back.

On the bus, Hongxia asked Dongmei worriedly: "Dongmei, did you say that Li Jing would fall in love during college?"

Based on her own judgment, Dongmei said categorically: "Your family Li Jing, after seeing that little couple, she showed such jealousy and hatred, I think, she will definitely not fall in love." ”

Hongxia said: "That's good, I'm still afraid that she will fall in love and accidentally lose herself." ”

Hearing this, Dongmei said in surprise: "What age is it now, when you get married, which man still cares if a woman is a first daughter, I think you are too feudal." ”

Hongxia said: "That's not necessarily, what if the man of the family, on the wedding night, checks the red, and the child is not red, then what should I do?"

Dongmei felt funny and said: "In our era, after the wedding night, the mother-in-law would come to the room, uncover the bedding, and check the falling red, so as to determine whether the new daughter-in-law is the first daughter, but now, when you and I start to be mothers-in-law, will you check the so-called falling red?"

Hearing this, Hongxia shook her head and said, "No." ”

Dongmei said, "That's fine." ”