Chapter 1004 Marriage is not a child's play, we must be cautious......

Dongmei told Nana and Wei Guo, saying, "Taotao chose Cheng Hong." ”

Hearing Cheng Hong, Wei Guo immediately expressed dissatisfaction.

He said: "Cheng Hong is thirty-three years old, if Taotao marries Cheng Hong, can he still have children?"

Although Dongmei was not very satisfied with Taotao's choice of Cheng Hong, she still respected Taotao's choice.

She said to Wei Guo: "You don't want to be blind, as the saying goes, a female junior, hugging gold bricks, what's wrong with thirty-three, women give birth to babies at forty, let alone thirty-three years old?"

Nana didn't expect that her brother would choose Cheng Hong.

She shook her head in confusion, and without expressing her opinion, she went back to her bedroom.

Dongmei saw that Wei Guo and Nana stopped talking, so she continued to talk to her son Taotao on the phone.

She asked Taotao curiously, and said, "Taotao, I didn't mean that I was not optimistic about the Cheng Hong you chose, I just wanted to know, why are you so good-looking Cheng Hong?"

Tao Tao told his mother why.

He said: "Cheng Hong is more positive, as long as I send her a message, she will reply to me.

Moreover, Cheng Hong and my three views are also relatively similar......"

Dongmei listened to Tao Tao's words, she kindly reminded Tao Tao, and said, "Tao Tao, you only look at Cheng Hong's photos, right?"

Moreover, you haven't seen a real person?

In case you are there, although it feels like the two of you have a good conversation, and it feels pretty good.

But what if you see a real person and don't feel it?

Therefore, my suggestion is, don't make a promise to Cheng Hong too early, and don't give up other girls too early......

You're all in touch, and when you go back to Xi'an, you'll see them one by one, what do you think?"

Compared with before, Taotao, who can't fall in love, is reckless, and can't come to things, now Taotao has thought about a lot of questions and opened up a lot of things.

He said: "Although I am optimistic about Cheng Hong, I am just maintaining a friend relationship with Cheng Hong.

We didn't, we talked about things emotionally.

Moreover, as for those girls I am not optimistic about, I did not delete them, or directly eliminated them, after all, without meeting, I can't figure out which girl is the most suitable for me......"

Since the failure of his last marriage, Taotao has been reminding himself in his heart that marriage is not a child's play, and he must be cautious......

Even very optimistic couples may not be able to get together in the end......

Even if you are very unfavorable, it does not necessarily mean that you cannot get married......

Therefore, Tao Tao held the mentality that there is no absoluteness in everything, and came to have a simple contact with these girls.

Hearing that Taotao is still relatively mature in dealing with the blind date, Dongmei is also relieved.

Hanging up his mother's phone, Tao Tao thought to himself, if he returned to the provincial capital and met these girls, would they be the same as he thought?

Among these girls, Cheng Hong is the one who has the closest connection with Taotao.

She can be more active, and even take the initiative to call Taotao.

As for the other girls, none of them took the initiative to call Taotao.

Moreover, as Cheng Hong and Taotao's chat deepened, Cheng Hong even put forward the idea of coming to Yan'an from the provincial capital to visit Taotao.

Hearing that Cheng Hong wanted to come to Yan'an to visit him, Taotao immediately refused.

Because Tao Tao thought of the relationship between himself and Cui Fei, Cui Fei took the initiative to come to visit him, and then something that shouldn't have happened to each other, and then unknowingly, they became a couple, and finally got married in a daze.

Taotao even thought that if Cui Fei hadn't come to see him at the beginning, and he and Cui Fei hadn't had a relationship so quickly, maybe he wouldn't have married Cui Fei, let alone become a divorced man.

And when Taotao rejected Cheng Hong's idea of coming to visit him, Cheng Hong was not angry.

She told Tao Tao that the reason why she wanted to come and visit Tao Tao was because she was worried that Tao Tao would be snatched away by other girls.

When Taotao heard Cheng Hong's explanation, Taotao was very shocked.

He told Cheng Hong that as a man, he has always been a hit, rejected, and tortured character in love since college, and no girl has ever robbed him.

However, Cheng Hong told Tao Tao that she said that in today's society, there are not many boys like Tao Tao who don't drink or smoke, and then take care of their families, don't spend their own money when they make money, and save it.

Moreover, Taotao not only has no bad habits, but also does not have high requirements for women.

Hearing Cheng Hong's explanation, Taotao told Cheng Hong that he felt that there were many boys like this, and his good friends, Li Pengpeng, Wang Xiaochao, and Zhang Jiaqiang were all there.

However, Cheng Hong told Taotao that there are very few such boys around her, but there are more boys who spend money like water and cannot make ends meet.

Therefore, Cheng Hong feels that Tao Tao is definitely a man who lives a life.

If a woman marries a man like Tao Tao, then this girl will at least experience a lot less ups and downs in her life.

Again, Tao Tao and Cheng Hong's understanding of marriage is also relatively similar.

Tao Tao thinks that the hot kang head of his wife and children is the best life.

What to pursue in marriage, high consumption, advanced consumption, buying luxury goods, buying a good car, wearing famous brands, etc., are all very unrealistic things.

Cheng Hong believes that a man has a formal job and a stable income......

And then there is the house......

Personality and quality are okay......

And if you have a common language with yourself, then it's no problem.

Unlike Cui Fei, she pursues the kind of aimless enjoyment in marriage......

Or even, the kind of life that you don't give but enjoy.

Cheng Hong takes marriage very lightly, it is nothing more than two people living together, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Where is there so much romance......

Where are there so many surprises......

Men are not superhuman, they have to work hard outside the home, and they have to be considerate at home, which is too unrealistic.

Tao Tao couldn't figure it out, I didn't know if it was because Cheng Hong was three years older than herself, or because she had more social experience than herself......

In short, Cheng Hong is very mature and not at all like an ignorant little girl.

Compared with Cheng Hong, although Wei Xiaoyun is young, she is far from having the advantages of Cheng Hong.

Compared with Cheng Hong, although Chu Miao is tall, she is far from having the correct and thorough understanding of marriage in Cheng Hong's heart.

Compared with Cheng Hong, although Wang Na is more golden, she has a fatal shortcoming:

It's just that in the chat, I always bring some private things in.

For example, she told Tao Tao that her ex-husband was very bad, he was simply a three-second toothpick, and he didn't dislike him for too short a time, and he also disliked himself for being too thin......

Moreover, Wang Na also told Taotao that her desire in that regard is relatively strong, and she hopes that in the future, if she is together, she will not scare Taotao.

Tao Tao is a conservative, introverted man.

Whenever she and Wang Na talked about these topics, he would always feel red and red-faced, unable to talk about it.

Compared with Cheng Hong, it is difficult to contact Yin Zhuzhuan.

Often, Taotao forwarded a message to Yin Zhu, and she always replied to Taotao a few hours later, or half a day later.

Even, sometimes, Taotao forwarded a message to Yin Zhu, and only received her reply the next day.

Tao Tao thought to himself, if he married a woman like Yin Zhuan, wouldn't he have to worry about death?

Tao Tao is originally a person who is easy to worry, especially his relatives.

If Tao Tao can't contact his beloved wife for a few days, he will definitely die in a hurry.

Therefore, Taotao is looking forward to taking a vacation, looking forward to returning to the provincial capital, and going to see Cheng Hong.