After sending off the two children, Dongmei and Wei Guo returned to the gate guard house where they lived.

Wei Guo walked into the house and complained that Dongmei just now, she shouldn't have said in front of her children, saying that if she doesn't save, she won't have money to buy a house, and if she doesn't save, she won't have money for her children to study.

Dongmei walked into the house and felt that the inside of the house was unusually warm.

He immediately took off his coat and said, "I'm right, if you don't tell your children these facts, they won't know at all, and they will think that we parents treat them badly or don't love them." ”

Wei Guo was not afraid of the cold by nature, and even in winter, he wore very thin.

He said, "But if you tell your child, he will be stressed." ”

Dongmei took off her coat and hung it on the wire at the head of the bed, saying: "They are old enough, they should let them know that the adult world is not easy, otherwise, they always think that the world is flat, life is smooth sailing, everything is a matter of course, food comes to open the mouth, clothes to stretch out, so how to do it?"

Wei Guo sat on the edge of the bed, looked at the thin leather shoes on his feet, and said, "They are still young now, and when they grow up, they will know everything they should know." ”

Dongmei changed into cotton slippers, poured a glass of boiling water, and said: "Don't spoil your children anymore, Taotao is about to be twenty-three, Nana is also about to be twenty, in the past, they are all people with children, in your eyes, they don't seem to have grown up yet?"

Although it was very hot inside the house, Wei Guo still put his hands in his pants pockets.

"The children are not yet in the workforce, and when they do, they will understand that money is hard to make and life is not easy," he said. ”

Dongmei drank hot boiled water and felt comfortable in her stomach.

She said: "There are some truths, you have to tell them, otherwise they will have to understand, do you think with Taotao's innocent character, can he understand?"

When it comes to Taotao, Wei Guo also has a headache.

He feels that his son, although he is about to graduate from college, feels very naïve, no matter how he looks at things or thinks about problems, just like an underage child, he will always see the superficial phenomenon, and will not see the essence through the phenomenon at all.

Wei Guo opened the window and said: "Then you are fine, just tell Taotao more about work, life, love, and marriage, so that he can take a little less detour when crossing the river by feeling the stones." ”

When Dongmei was young, she was not afraid of the cold, but as she grew older, she gradually began to be afraid of the cold.

She saw Wei Guo open the window, and she went to close the window again.

She said: "Just let me tell the children the truth of life, what about you, like a stuffy gourd all day long, without saying a word, and you can't beat a fart with three sticks, don't you know that the son is not the fault of the father?"

Wei Guo saw Dongmei close the window again, he wiped the sweat from his forehead, then took off his coat, and said: "I work on the front line all year round, and I only come back a few times a year, after all, I don't communicate with the children much, so you have to be able to understand me." ”

Hearing the understanding, Dongmei imagined the education method of Wang Xue'e's husband Wang Chaoying, she said: "You are fine, can you learn more like others Wang Chaoying." ”

Hearing Wang Chaoying, Wei Guo felt that Wang Chaoying's education method was similar to his own.

He said, "What is it to learn from Wang Chaoying?"

Dongmei sat on the bed, pulled out the quilt, covered her knees, and said: "Every time Wang Chaoying comes back, she has to talk to the two children, either to discuss life, or to foresee the future, what about you, either watering the flowers on the balcony, or sitting on the edge of the bed in a daze, I don't know what you are thinking about in your head for a day?"

Hearing this, Wei Guo sighed, to be honest, in terms of communicating with children, Wei Guo seems to have a natural obstacle.

Whenever he is with his child, he really doesn't know what to say?

Or, if you have something you want to say, you just said two sentences and you won't say it.

Therefore, for Wei Guo, it is better to choose silence than to speak incorrectly and express unsatisfactory.

After Dongmei covered the quilt, she rubbed her knee joints.

Due to the fact that she walked a lot during this time, Dongmei obviously felt that her knee joint was not good.

She always felt like a ripp, a feeling of looseness.

After rubbing her knees, Dongmei took out the Nokia mobile phone that Tao Tao had eliminated for herself from her bag.

She studied it and said, "How can this mobile phone make calls?"

Faced with a new mobile phone, Dongmei didn't know where to make a call.

Wei Guo felt funny and said: "Dongmei, you were so smart when you were young, no matter what kind of thing is in your hands, within three minutes, you can play with special turns, why now, in the face of a small mobile phone, you can't get it?"

After speaking, Wei Guo took Taotao's mobile phone and showed Dongmei how to make calls and send text messages.

After Dongmei learned to make phone calls, she began to learn to text again.

However, because Dongmei always spoke the Guanzhong dialect, she couldn't spell the words she wanted when she spelled words in pinyin.

She complained to Wei Guo, saying: "Wei Guo, this mobile phone, when you send a text message, where is the handwriting?"

Seeing that Dongmei couldn't spell out the words, Wei Guo smiled and said: "This mobile phone, there is no place for handwriting, you can only type pinyin or five-stroke fonts." ”

Dongmei shook her head and sighed: "No wonder Hongxia and Song Nian's daughter-in-law have to spend a lot of money to buy the kind of mobile phone that can write hand-written on the screen. ”

After complaining, Dongmei put her phone aside.

She rubbed her eyes.

Wei Guo saw Dongmei rubbing her eyes, and he said, "Is it that the words on the phone screen are too small, and your eyes hurt when you look at it?"

Dongmei finished rubbing her eyes, squeezed out two tears from her eyes, and said: "Hey, I'm old, the parts on my body are aging, looking at my phone, my eyes hurt, I walk, my knees hurt, I watch TV, my neck hurts, I think about problems, my brain hurts, ......."

Wei Guo looked at Dongmei's stupid appearance, and said funny: "You are just forty-seven years old, and you will be like this, if it is ten years later, you won't be able to walk, you can't see your mobile phone, and you won't be able to think about problems." ”

Hearing this, Dongmei suddenly said worriedly: "Oh my God, I shouldn't have menopausal syndrome in advance, right?"

Wei Guo reminded Dongmei: "In general, menopause begins at the age of forty-six, and you are now forty-seven years old, which is already considered very lucky." ”

Dongmei recalled some of the manifestations of menopausal syndrome in Li's sister-in-law, she said: "When Li's sister-in-law was menopause, she was anxious, depressed, and couldn't sleep. ”

Wei Guo asked with concern: "What about you, is there such an obstacle?"

Dongmei thought for a while and said, "I don't have anxiety or depression, but I can't sleep, but it happens from time to time." ”

Wei Guo nodded and said: "That means that your menopausal syndrome is not obvious, but you have to adjust your mentality and supplement more estrogen if you have nothing to do." ”

Dongmei looked at Wei Guo curiously and said, "Supplement estrogen?"

Wei Guo explained to Dongmei, saying: "Female menopausal syndrome is mainly caused by the decline of ovarian function and low estrogen secretion, which leads to various metabolic disorders, so if you take estrogen, it can relieve your symptoms." ”

Dongmei looked at Wei Guo curiously and funny, and said, "You are a big man, how do you know this, you really deserve to be the director of the Women's Federation." ”