After dinner, Jia Qianqian, Jia Youwei, and Jia Youbin were not in a hurry to get off the table. They're not grinding because of the question of who washes the dishes.

The division of labor is very clear, Jia Youwei is responsible for stir-frying and cooking, Jia Youbin is responsible for washing and cleaning up, Jia Qianqian is not doing nothing, he can still feed the fat man, dry peeling garlic, picking vegetables, picking onions and other things.

"In the evening, aren't you going to go on a date with Tang Weiwei?" Jia Youwei pressed the base of the red wine glass with two fingers of his right hand, and gently circled the table in a counterclockwise circle.

"Not available. I still have to play video games, and when I am tired from work during the day, I have a little time to have fun and relax at night. Jia Youbin said bluntly.

"You don't take your work seriously all day long. Even if it's not three days of fishing, two days of drying nets, it's still a mixed time to get off work. I didn't see you working overtime to know about video games.

If you put all the thought you put into your work for video games, you're already the head of a subsidiary. Now, even the money you make yourself is not enough for you to buy video game products. Jia Youwei couldn't laugh or cry.

"Because I don't have enough money to spend, I don't have money to date. This kind of thing is better for aspiring young people to work hard. I won't fight with them. Jia Youbin said confidently.

Jia Youwei knew that he was an excuse. He stopped moving on his right hand, looked in the direction of his daughter, and asked, "How did you arrange it tonight?"

"Read, learn. I will never live aimlessly and messily like my little uncle. I am inspired to be at the helm of the next generation of our Jia family. Jia Qianqian swore an oath.

"Brother, don't just ask me and Qian Qian how to arrange time, what are you going to do?" Jia Youbin didn't care at all about her talking about herself, and interjected and asked.

"I'm going to watch a Korean movie called Prostitution. Jia Youwei said with a red wine glass in his right hand.

"Most of them were recommended to you by Teacher Jane. Jia Youbin smiled.

Jia Youwei didn't deny it, nodded slightly and said, "Tell me concisely that it's a good movie." The film depicts the process of humanism being damaged in Korean society, politics, and economy after 1970 by narrating the life of a prostitute, and shows the history of ethical changes that have changed with the growth of the economy. ”

"Brother, tell me the real story about ordinary Chinese people. At the very least, I think it's much more realistic than what you say about art films. Jia Youbin said seriously.

After Jia Youwei drank the remaining red wine in the cup, he slowly put the empty red wine glass on the table, and said slowly: "It's been more than ten years since I graduated from college.

Among my classmates who graduated at the same time as me, there are also people who can't afford to buy a house and are still renting a house. Even if you get married and even give birth to your second child, you don't plan to buy a house, to be precise, you can't afford it, it's all the magic life of the seaweed couple in "Snail House".

Even if both of them graduated from prestigious schools, and the children were sent back to her hometown to be taken by their parents, they still had a headache buying a house. ”

"No, according to what you said, the husband and wife should have a monthly income of 20,000 yuan each, and they should have about 50,000 yuan together!" Jia Youbin raised his own doubts.

"With a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, not only in Beijing, but even if you look at the whole country, not many people can get this amount.

When you go to university, you don't feel the huge difference between urban and rural students. Perhaps, as I guess, in the same university, in the minds of many rural students, they will feel that their grades are better than yours, and they will definitely be better than you in the future, become the CEO, marry Bai Fumei, and reach the peak of life.

However, in reality, the reality is always very cruel. The quality of your background really determines the direction of your life to a great extent.

At my age, the parents of urban students have already retired one after another. They have their own pensions. Even if you can't help the child, you won't hold the child back.

Under normal circumstances, urban parents can still get a down payment, so as to help their children buy a small house outside the fifth ring road of Beijing.

People who have done things in third- and fourth-tier cities are not difficult to buy a house for their children in full within the third ring road. The family moved from the local area to the capital and gained a foothold, and there was basically no problem.

In any case, the average salaried person in a small city still has a house in his hometown, even if it was a welfare house at the beginning, he also has a full property right.

The only children in the city are a few with their bare hands, and most of them have financial support from their original families. ”

He paused deliberately, reached out and picked up the crystal gooseneck bottle containing the red wine from the side, and poured a third of the red wine into his empty glass.

After Jia Youwei put it back in its place, he said calmly: "Rural students are completely different. They carry too much on their backs, and they don't have as much of an ease of action as city students.

After graduation, even if you have a decent job and income, it will not be easy at all. A significant portion of them are still in arrears with student loans.

Even if there is no money owed to the public, there is still a debt owed to the private sector. Among them, there are not only relatives and friends, but also younger brothers and sisters, or older brothers and sisters who go out to work for him to study in college.

This is not only an economic debt, but above all a debt of favors. Economic debts are easy to calculate, while personal debts are often not clear.

From an economic point of view, the reason why the debt is not clear is that there is an opportunity cost problem.

It is precisely because of the support for you to go to college that almost all the resources in the family are allocated to you, so that the family has to give up the opportunity to choose other options.

Regardless of the moral values of rural China, or whatever it is, it is natural for you to shoulder the mission of changing the fate of a family, or even a family.

Not only limited to Chinese mainland, Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan, and even overseas Chinese are more or less faced with the same traditional concept of the Chinese nation.

You have to take care of the pension of your parents. You also have to take care of the things that are repaired in your hometown. You still have to take care of your younger siblings' future studies. Your sister and brother will get married in the future or something, you have to take care of it......

The essence of management is that you have to pay for it. And you still have to live, and you are also facing various life events such as marrying a wife, having children, and even buying a house. The pressure is so great that it speaks for itself. ”