Dongmei started from the overall situation, she judged the situation and said: "Taotao, do you know that you and Cui Fei have been married for less than a year.

If you divorce Cui Fei now, the people in the surrounding yard will definitely think that it is your problem.

After all, you are a man, and Cui Fei is a woman.

Besides, if you divorce Cui Fei, according to the Marriage Law and the principle of equal division of property between husband and wife, do you have to give Cui Fei half of the house you live in?

When your father and I bought you a house, it was more than 400,000 yuan, and now it has risen to 700,000 yuan, do you have to give Cui Fei 350,000 yuan......

Moreover, your father and I already owe more than 100,000 foreign debts outside in order to marry you, if you and I are burdened with more than 300,000 foreign debts because of divorce, then how can I and your father marry you again......"

Dongmei felt that even if she got divorced, she couldn't sell the house in order to give Cui Fei money.

After all, that house is Tao Tao's house.

If you sell the house, then you have struggled with the country all your life, won't you fight in vain, and your son will become a man without a house again.

Besides, now the houses in the provincial capital are too expensive to buy.

Dongmei and Weiguo are no longer able to buy another house for Taotao.

When Tao Tao heard his mother's analysis, his original firm heart for divorce suddenly wilted.

A penny is hard to beat a hero, and five buckets of rice can definitely make a hungry person bend their waists.

When Tao Tao was faced with this large sum of money, he had no way, let alone the slightest confidence, to pat his chest and say that he could share all the external accounts for his parents.

Taotao's salary discount, before this, has always been held by Cui Fei.

So in the first half of the year, Taotao didn't save a penny.

Since Tao Tao and Cui Fei had a conflict, and Cui Fei returned Tao Tao's fold to Tao Tao, he began to save money.

Although Tao Tao is very economical, until now, he has only accumulated 10,000 yuan in his salary.

And this 10,000 yuan is a drop in the bucket for divorce.

However, compared with Taotao, Wei Guo did not bow his noble head to the hundreds of thousands of foreign debts.

He said: "What are you afraid of, it's a big deal that I will go to a private cementing team and work as an engineer for a few years."

I still don't believe it, with my qualifications as an old oilman who defended the country, I can't marry a daughter-in-law to my son?"

Nana also stood up, she said: "Mom, you let my brother and Cui Fei leave, and after I give birth to the child, I will go to work to make money."

I am not only a cadre now, but I am also a director, and I can earn more than 60,000 yuan a year at the worst, and I will help you pay off your foreign debts together. ”

Listening to the words of his father and sister, Taotao, who was sitting on the sofa with his head down, raised his head in an uncomfortable mood.

He looked at Wei Guo and said, "Dad, I'm thirty years old, and you're fifty-seven years old, I can't toss you and my mother anymore......"

After speaking, Taotao looked at Nana again.

With tears in his eyes, he said, "Nana, you are also married, and you have your own home......

And, when you have a baby, the cost of having a child is huge.

Moreover, you and Fang Fang's house still only paid the down payment, and the rest is in the monthly payment......

You're stressed, how can I spend your money?"

Dongmei watched Taotao give in, she persuaded Taotao, and said: "Taotao, it's not my mother who persuades you badly, in this life, who hasn't made a mistake."

Although Cui Fei cheated on other men, he also traveled with other men.

However, if she can change her past mistakes and become a new person, you should stop pursuing her faults and continue to live well with her.

After all, it's not easy to get married once, and if you leave so hastily, wouldn't it be a re-entry into the old path of happiness?"

Speaking of which, Dongmei sighed that when she was young, she laughed at Xicheng getting married, divorced, married again, divorced again, married again, divorced again......

But now, his son has staged a happy divorce farce in front of him.

Dongmei really hated herself for being ignorant, ignorant, and laughing at people when she was young......

If he knew that his son would divorce like Xicheng, he really wouldn't laugh at others for being happy.

What a retribution.

Tao Tao did not bow his head in front of marriage, but he bowed his head in front of money.

Not only because he has no money to pay for the cost of divorcing Cui Fei, but also because he doesn't want his parents to take on more debts for the sake of his remarriage.

Tao Tao said in an extremely complicated mood: "Then I'll take a look." ”

Dongmei continued to give examples and said, "Taotao, do you remember Cui Xiaotao's father, Cui Dongbei?"

When it comes to Cui Xiaotao, Taotao is very familiar.

When Tao Tao was in elementary school for four years, a boy transferred from their class, and his name was only one word short of his own.

Although Cui Xiaotao and Cui Tao's names are only one word apart, their family situations and the degree of care they receive from their parents are very different.

Cui Xiaotao's parents divorced when Cui Xiaotao was very young.

In that era and place where everyone is generally more conservative and divorces are rare, Cui Dongbei is obviously very different.

Moreover, in the entire family yard, most of the children are parents, but Cui Xiaotao only has a father and no mother.

He was alone, not only did he have no place to eat, but he often had no clothes to wear.

Tao Tao nodded and said, "I remember, when I was on the drilling team in 07, he was still on the drilling team with me." ”

Hearing that Tao Tao still remembered Cui Xiaotao and his father Cui Dongbei, Dongmei continued: "Cui Dongbei has been looking for a woman to marry since he divorced his wife.

However, after all, halfway couples are not as good as first-time couples, and he has been married twice, both of which ended in failure.

If a man always gets married and divorces all his life, then he will not only not be able to accumulate any money, but he will not be able to educate his children well, let alone have a healthy body.

Do you know that a few days ago, Cui Xiaotao's father, Cui Dongbei, passed away. ”

Hearing that Cui Xiaotao's father had died, Taotao couldn't believe it and said, "He was only fifty-five years old at most, why did he die suddenly?"

Dongmei continued: "A man, especially a man without a wife and a family, simply can't live long.

Therefore, I am afraid that after your divorce this time, you will be like Xicheng and Cui Dongdong, you will fall into the quagmire for the rest of your life, and you will always be on the road of marriage and divorce. “

Tao Tao listened attentively, and he felt that his mother's analysis made sense.

He said: "However, if I don't get divorced, Cui Fei will continue to unscrupulously." “

Dongmei said: "Taotao, don't talk first, listen to what I say to you."

Do you know why Hee Sung and Cui Dongbei divorced at that time?"

Tao Tao shook his head and said, "I don't know." “

Dongmei said: "There are legends outside that Xicheng and Cui Dongbei are alcoholics and have serious violent tendencies.

But do you know what's the news among our families?

The reason for the divorce of Hee-sung and Cui Dongbei was because of his wife's cheating in marriage.

Faced with his wife's cheating in marriage, the two did not choose to forgive, but chose to divorce.

If we imagine again, if Xicheng and Cui Dongbei both chose to forgive at that time instead of divorce, would their situation in this life be different from now?

Will Xicheng be poor all his life, borrowing money everywhere to marry a wife?

And will Cui Dongbei die early?"

Dongmei's words were deafening to listen to.

He couldn't believe that if he let himself go back to the old path of Cui Dongbei and Xicheng, he might not be able to walk better than the two.

And, most likely, worse.

Tao Tao lowered his head.

His mind was in turmoil, and his mind was in chaos.

He sighed and his hair was messy.

Dongmei once again threw her opinion to Taotao.

She said: "Taotao, who didn't make mistakes when they were young?

To err is human?

Can't you open your manly arms and take the initiative to forgive her once?

Maybe, after you forgive her this time, she will turn back, suddenly wake up, and then be grateful to you for a lifetime, and love you for a lifetime?"

Tao Tao licked his chapped lips, he didn't have any idea in his heart.

Dongmei continued: "Modern society, unlike the past society, is generally a man cheating.

In today's society, men are working hard outside, desperately earning money or starting a business, where do they have the time and energy to cheat?

Moreover, in this society where there are more men than women, whether it is the bride price, or the cost of marriage, or the cost of divorce, it is too great.

Therefore, the cost of cheating is too high for a man, and it is not worth taking such a big cost risk to do a meaningless thing.

And women are different, they not only have time, but also the cost is small, so they dare to take this risk......"

Dongmei said a lot.

After speaking, Dongmei told Taotao in a summary and said, "So, I ask you to forgive Cui Fei for cheating this time and try to redeem ......"