1169, poor children, rich daughters?
Dean Sun was also a little excited, and came out and insisted on inviting Shi Jianren to his office to sit, Hong Qiaoyun gave Shi Jianren a look, and then left separately. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć ļ½ļ½ļ½ļ½
Compared with Dean Sun, in fact, some artists are high-spirited, and another department head who was not very cold to Shi Jianren before was much calmer, but his tone became a lot more formal, and he shook Shi Jianren's hand before speaking: "Teacher Shi is indeed capable, but some views dare not agree, your statement is too realistic......
Shi Jianren walked side by side, and waited for the other party to finish speaking, and then responded simply: " The real purpose of education is not only to train students to adapt to the traditional society, not only to impart practical knowledge and skills, I understand this truth, but the reality is that even this point has not been achieved, rather than rapping a high-profile and high-profile view of the absolutely correct but in the air, I prefer to choose a down-to-earth way, first awaken the strength of students, cultivate their self-learning initiative, abstract induction and understanding, so that they can make meaningful choices in the current unpredictable future situation. ā
The head of the department squinted his eyes and pondered: "Dean Sun, Professor Hong has indeed found a good teacher for us, thank you, and you are welcome to come and give lectures often in the future." ā
Shi Jianren did not have the slightest triumph after convincing, and still respectfully shook hands with the other party and said goodbye.
Dean Sun watched with a smile, and finally walked around the campus with Shi Jianren, this artist is still different from the administrative leading cadres, more emotional: " Xiaoshi, it's not abrupt for me to call you that, since the time of Professor Wang Runan, I have known and understood that you are a young man with feelings, and I have been very surprised by your career development ability when I was in the cultural industry park, but today I am really amazed at your mind and mind, very good, very good, I hope this kind of course can continue to open, we have to sign a contract and sign an agreement, and we can't forget to teach our small college because you are busy in the future. ā
So when Shi Jianren met with Hong Qiaoyun again to get off work, he was already carrying a letter of appointment from a visiting professor under his arm, Hong Qiaoyun glanced at the red book: "It's a cabbage for you, others are fighting for their heads in order to grab this kind of fame, and you are the one who can catch it." ā
Shi Jianren actually didn't open it at all to see: "As long as it can play a little role, I don't mind these vain scenes of fame and reputation, don't you buy something for Xiao Ai?"
The driver got off work early and took Hong Qiaoyun's driver away, so Shi Jianren was still a little unaccustomed to driving this American wide car, Hong Qiaoyun moved from the back seat to the co-pilot, and watched Shi Jianren drive on the road for a while before speaking: "Let's become a family, I don't want to see you put all your energy on these things alone, then you are too sage." ā
Shi Jianren thought about it: "It's not to this point, I haven't felt lonely and lonely, it's good now, I can focus on work without distractions, if I have a family, especially children, I'm afraid I will devote a lot of energy to take on this responsibility, I don't think I can calmly downplay this responsibility." ā
Hong Qiaoyun could hear it: "Well, are you afraid that you will be particularly immersed in family life and family affection?"
Shi Jianren nodded: " This car is much better than the first car we bought, the food we ate in the hotel tasted much better than the box lunch we tinkered with, this material enjoyment feeling is undoubtedly different, now I have to be equipped with a driver when I go a little farther, because one or two hours on the road, I can deal with some official business or study something, time efficiency is more cost-effective than letting me use a driver, and now I use the latest and most expensive mobile phones, because I can indeed receive information at any time to facilitate work, well, no matter how I try to make myself content with poverty, life is simple, or unconsciously there will be these changes, if there is a familyIt was a huge change for me, and it's hard to guarantee that I'll stick to it as always. ā
Hong Qiaoyun had infinite affection in her eyes, which seemed to be infected with the atmosphere in the carriage, and she was much softer, Shi Jianren glanced at her and smiled: "As for it, you have to change your clothes and change your image every day when you go to and from work?"
When she was in the teaching center, Hong Qiaoyun was still wearing a rather slim royal blue skirt, with shiny black high heels and a silver cumbersome necklace around her neck, the standard strong woman or noble intellectual female style, very dazzling, and now it has become a gray topped velvet jacket, and even the hairstyle is simply straightened, dissipating the edges and sharpness, Hong Qiaoyun smiled: " I don't want Xiao Ai to feel that I have changed her fate, I don't want my economic conditions and influence to be decisive and important to her life, I hope she can feel this society freely and grow with the clearest heart possible, so I am just a more ordinary mother, and a little strict, I hope you take the responsibility of doting, because you will definitely rarely see her, so that she is more expectant. ā
So when Shi Jianren and Hong Qiaoyun arrived at the kindergarten, he had already filled his hands with gifts such as toys and clothes, Hong Qiaoyun had already bought them and put them in the trunk, and pointed out that Shi Jianren went to a very expensive cake shop to get an ordered cake, saying that the little girl actually likes to eat cakes very much, but she never took the initiative to ask for it, and the life in the welfare home still gave the little girl a deep trace too early.
Hong Qiaoyun did put a lot of thought into it, with her economic strength, not to mention the dividends of the decoration company, just by virtue of the income from the painting and the professor-level salary and social status, Xiao Ai can also be enrolled in the best kindergarten, but she just found an ordinary kindergarten downstairs nearby, the focus is to facilitate the ordinary life of the mother and daughter, and there is no need to let the child feel different in the car.
In fact, Shi Jianren put on his old-fashioned blue-black jacket and black-framed glasses, he looked like he must be a middle-aged man over thirty years old, and it was very likely that he was a civil servant in a nearby government unit, so standing with Hong Qiaoyun did not seem to be much of an age difference, when the teacher smiled and pulled Xiao Ai out, Hong Qiaoyun stroked his palm and welcomed: "Xiao Ai, look, who will pick you up?" She was already beginning to instill this identity relationship in Xiao Ai.
In more than a month, the four-and-a-half-year-old girl's complexion has obviously become much more mellow, this is not only the difference in the nutritional conditions of the welfare home, but also the change in mentality, the child who gets the warmth and nourishment of the family, the physical and mental feelings will show significant changes, at least the eyes looking around are not so timid, but still don't dare to look at Shi Jianren squarely, in Hong Qiaoyun's infinite expectation, he actually held back a sentence that everyone was stunned by: "Yes...... Daddy, Director!"
This is the third time Shi Jianren has seen Xiao Ai, the last time was at the parent-child open day of the water plant, but there were too many things that time, as the host leader, Shi Jianren basically didn't have much intimate contact with the child except for meal time, but obviously the four-and-a-half-year-old child can already distinguish and remember the characteristics of his profession.
Hong Qiaoyun couldn't help but quickly explain to the teacher: "Her father works in the factory all day, and he is so busy that he rarely comes back, so he is a little resentful!"
Shi Jianren struggled to concentrate everything on one hand, and tried it with his free hands: "Okay, I bought you a cake during the factory holiday today, and let's go home and eat together, okay?"
A little unexpectedly, the child's eyes did not immediately fall on the beautifully packaged cake box, but did not hesitate to reach out and hold Shi Jianren's hand, and the feeling of dependence came from the soft little palm, which made Shi Jianren suddenly wonder if it was his own flesh and blood.
Because Xiao Ai also clearly made him immediately feel a sense of intimacy that he wanted to take good care of and protect, the legendary magical blood-related feeling seems to be just a subjective emotion?
Shi Jianren is really boring enough, and this rare feeling of family closeness can also be regarded as an academic study by him.
Hong Qiaoyun still couldn't help but take out a small camera from her bag and asked the teacher to help take a group photo, the little girl was a little impatient and couldn't wait to go home with her father.
When I got home, as soon as I opened the door, Xiao Ai obediently squatted inside to take out the prepared slippers for Shi Jianren, and reached out to help take the things in Shi Jianren's hands, Shi Jianren couldn't help but look forward to what would happen if she was lost at this age, while looking back at Hong Qiaoyun, she was silently holding a small camera to shoot a video, but secretly, and she also had a smug expression on Shi Jianren.
It should be said that the whole family is cleaner and tidier than Shi Jianren's previous studio and professor building, and there are a lot more feminine decorations, Hong Qiaoyun told Shi Jianren that she arranges a nanny twice a week to quietly go to work and school and then clean up and do laundry, and dinner is basically made in advance every day and put on the cupboard, plus details such as supplementing firewood, rice, oil and salt, so it seems that the life of mother and daughter depends on each other, and it is not too difficult, as long as they are willing to spend money.
It is indeed different from the previous two times I saw Xiao Ai, the little girl waited for Shi Jianren to change his shoes and pulled him everywhere to introduce, here is the living room, kitchen, here is her mother's bedroom, here is her room, Hong Qiaoyun smiled and leaned against the door of the master bedroom and added: "At this stage, our mother and daughter still live in one room, and when she gets used to it, she will go to elementary school or when, and then start to sleep in separate rooms." ā
Shi Jianren saw that Xiao Ai's room was actually full of princess atmosphere, no matter how much Hong Qiaoyun controlled herself not to spoil the child, she still equipped the child with the best conditions, just the exquisite little bed made Shi Jianren want to take a photo and turn back to Wu Xiaoying to compare.
He was also a little surprised why he had to compare himself with the mother and son.
But the four-and-a-half-year-old little girl is really too different from the one-and-a-half-year-old stupid little skin monkey who is not stunned, and has eaten dinner and cake together, Hong Qiaoyun also naughtily put some cream on the tip of the nose of the child and Shi Jianren, so that Xiao Ai's giggles have not stopped, until the time is close to nine o'clock, Hong Qiaoyun reminded the child to wash up and prepare for bed, Xiao Ai went to the master bedroom to take out his little quilt and pillow and carried it to the small bed in the small bedroom, and then stuck his head out of the bathroom vaguely with a toothbrush in his mouth:" Father...... You're going to take me to school tomorrow morning, huh?"
Looking at the eyes full of anticipation, Shi Jianren didn't have to be soft-hearted, and had already nodded vigorously in agreement.