Chapter 062: Family Education
After the meal, the father and daughter of the Jia family said goodbye to Tang Weiwei and went home directly. Tang Weiwei, who was hit by Jia Qianqian, was useless, and was inferior to Qin Qing everywhere, not only did he not eat anything, but his whole person was decadent.
Now, her mental world is gray. I sat in the private room stupidly and fell into an inexplicable self-blame.
On the other side, Jia Youwei, who returned home, turned around and sat on the sofa in the living room on the first floor, while Jia Qianqian took off his shoes and sat down cross-legged by his father.
"When is it now, why don't you go upstairs to take a nap?" Jia Youwei leaned back on the sofa, slowly closed his eyes, and gently pinched the bridge of his nose with his right hand.
Jia Qianqian got up and moved his buttocks in his direction, and said without sleepiness at all: "Old Jia, that young lady named Tang Weiwei is not suitable for you." She was too young, younger than our simple teacher. ”
"Whether it is suitable or not, do you have the final say? Don't you know that we men have always been very single-minded in the matter of liking women, and have never changed since the age of twenty?" Jia Youwei did not open his eyes, and continued to move on his hands.
"Tang Weiwei is only eleven years older than me. If you really marry her, will I call each other sister or mother in the future?" Jia Qianqian said with a serious look.
Jia Youwei stopped the movement of his right hand, opened his eyes, and gently tapped her head and said, "You are embarrassed to say." Previously, you called someone one aunt after another, and hit her again and again.
This made the other party's whole person about to collapse, causing them to begin to doubt their own lives. I really hope that Tang Weiwei won't suffer from depression because of this. ”
Jia Qianqian raised his left palm, gently rubbed the door of his brain, and pouted: "You sing red face, I sing white face." The good people have let you be the one who is good, and I will really be the wicked person for you. ”
Jia Youwei moved his body sideways to face her and said, "Xiaoxian, you are quite aggrieved, all for my good." Can you hide that little bit of caution from me?
All along, you didn't want me to remarry, lest another woman take away her love from you. If I have another child with another woman, and you are worried that your brother or sister will take away your father's love. ”
Jia Qianqian did not deny it outright, and said confidently: "People are inherently selfish. What's wrong with me actively striving for my own happiness?"
"Could it be that your grandfather told you again?" Jia Youwei didn't think of it when his daughter heard her words, so he naturally thought of his father.
"Wrong, very wrong. That's what my mom used to say. You forgot about this?" Jia Qianqian suddenly grimaced.
Jia Youwei turned his body again and leaned back against the sofa again. Through such a reminder from my daughter, it really evoked my memory.
His ex-wife is really like what she said. He said indifferently: "You are worthy of being Qin Qing's biological daughter." What she said, you remember. Why can't you remember what I told you?"
"Lao Jia, why are you angry? Do you think you have raised a white-eyed wolf?" Jia Qianqian saw that his father was a little unhappy, and asked with a smile.
Jia Youwei closed his eyes and put his hands crossed in front of his chest, showing a look of closing his eyes and recuperating. I pretended not to hear and didn't reply.
Jia Qianqian took the initiative to stretch out his hands and shook his body and said, "Don't be so stingy! Actually, you also know that my heart has always been towards you, not my mother." ”
Jia Youwei still pretended not to hear anything and did not understand anything. What does his own daughter look like, and he will not know?
The most effective way to clean up this child is to clean it up. Otherwise, she would mistakenly think that she was extremely important, just as the moon had to revolve around the earth.
Jia Qianqian looked at his father and couldn't help but start to get anxious, so he increased his strength to shake his body, and repeatedly shouted loudly: "Lao Jia, Lao Jia, Lao Jia......"
Jia Youwei thought it was too loud, so he used the index fingers of both hands to plug the ear piercings. I neither open my eyes nor do I respond.
Jia Qianqian had nothing to do for a while, and sat on the sofa with a little discouragement. She stared at her father with an unhappy look on her face.
"At the mention of my mom, you are not happy. She was the one who hurt you, not me. Jia Qianqian put all the responsibility on his mother, and did not review his personal problems from himself.
"Don't change the subject to your mother. The things between me and her, the things that should be broken have been broken, and the things that are not broken can't be broken.
You should take a good look at your mistakes?" Jia Youwei put down his hands that were plugging his ears and said without hurrying or slowing.
"You're finally willing to talk to me. Thank you!" Jia Qianqian said without thinking that he was at fault.
Jia Youwei returned to the state of taking a nap again, and then did not continue to count his daughter's various wrongs downward. He doesn't like to put pressure on her with a condescending attitude, so as to force her to act unconvinced.
As a result, children will use this as a way to cope with themselves, admit their mistakes in time, but do not change their mistakes, and lose the meaning of family education.
Violence is absolutely forbidden here in Jia Youwei. His purpose is to make Jia Qianqian fully realize what is wrong, not to make her afraid and obedient.
Even if she doesn't admit her mistake verbally, she will admit it in her heart. For this reason, his purpose is to achieve his daughter's self-examination.
Jia Qianqian stopped talking when he saw his father. So, I didn't repeat the old tricks. She knew that using the same method on her father a second time would not only be ineffective, but would also have the opposite effect.
She drooped her head and thought about it, and only then did she say something: "Lao Jia, I will remember your teachings to me in the future." ”
"What else?" Jia Youwei nodded.
"And then there's the need to listen to you. When you are old in the future, you will not be able to move, and I will honor you well. Jia Qianqian said with a smile.
"No, I don't. You still have to take care of yourself, and I'll be angry with me. Jia Youwei said calmly.
Jia Qianqian got up, moved his buttocks, sat directly on his lap, and then snuggled into his father's arms, and said with a smile: "I'm your pistachio, how can I be angry with you? That's absolutely, absolutely, absolutely impossible!"