Chapter 416
At the end of the year, the Lin family's long house seemed busy, and the sisters-in-law of the long house did not have time to come to the garden.
The Ming family deliberately took Su Qingzhi with him and told her about the Lin family's close relationship with the world.
It turns out that the public middle school will still arrange New Year's gifts for the daughters-in-law who have not been mothers-in-law, and as for the daughters-in-law who have become mothers-in-law, if they want to send New Year's gifts back to their parents' homes, then prepare their own.
Here in the fifth room, except for the five ladies of the Lin family, there is no daughter-in-law who is a mother-in-law for the time being.
It's just that Ming's smiled, and she also wanted not to receive the New Year's gift arranged by Gongzhong next year.
Su Qingzhi smiled slightly, the eldest son of the Ming family, she heard Lin Wangshu mention it, but it was actually because she was too cautious, but it was not so easy to succeed.
Su Qingzhi has seen the eldest nephew of her husband's family, and she looks like an eldest brother.
This is probably the reason why many families know that the wife of the eldest son is not good, but they still prefer to marry their daughters to the eldest son.
Before the Chinese New Year, the public middle school distributed New Year's gifts, and Su Qingzhi saw the gifts at the fifth lady of the Lin family.
The people in the Lin family's big house still did their best, and the gifts were prepared in a decent manner, and it was a bit decent to give them out.
At night, Su Qingzhi mentioned to Lin Wangshu that if he really couldn't spare time, he could also ask his nephews to send it to the Su family.
The distance between the two families is so close, Su Qingzhi still doesn't pay special attention to these aspects.
Her mind is all about Su Fengdao's marriage next year, and after the New Year, Su Fengdao will get married.
Lin Wangshu vetoed Su Qingzhi's kindness, and he insisted on sending it over in person.
Before the Chinese New Year, Lin Wangshu took the time to send a New Year's gift to the Su family.
On this matter, the fifth lady of the Lin family looked at Su Qingzhi coldly for a long time, and said: "Su, the Lin and Su families are neighbors, Shu'er is so busy that her feet are about to stop touching the ground, you still have such heavy rules, you, I am so disappointed." ”
Su Qingzhi came down silently, if she explained, she was afraid that the fifth lady of the Lin family would not let her go.
Ming sighed softly on the side, she was a little worried that after her eldest son and daughter-in-law entered the door in the future, whether this mother-in-law would still not care about her identity, and only obey her heart so picky and fresh.
The concubines of the Ming family didn't dare to say much on the side, they went through these things back then, and the fifth lady of the Lin family was unhappy, and she would always be like this.
Su Qingzhi's expression was calm, and Ming's concubine breathed a sigh of relief, it was also a good thing to have a big-hearted concubine.
The fifth lady of the Lin family originally thought that Su Qingzhi would at least explain a few words to her, but when she saw her without saying a word, she suddenly felt bored, and only thought about seeing this daughter-in-law rarely.
It's just that this daughter-in-law is the most well-behaved person, and she comes to say hello to her every day, rain or shine.
Su Qingzhi said hello to the fifth lady of the Lin family, it was an authentic greeting, and of course there were no superfluous words.
The fifth lady of the Lin family looked at the daughter-in-law next to her, and in her eyes, she only felt that they had pity for Su Qingzhi.
The fifth lady of the Lin family had the intention to discipline her daughters-in-law, but the fifth master of the Lin family suddenly came back at this time, and she could only let the daughters-in-law ask for peace and take care of themselves.
It is rumored outside that the five masters of the Lin family are not in good health.
But after Su Qingzhi got married, she felt that the couple's health was not bad, but the relationship between husband and wife between them tended to be one-sided.
Su Qingzhi has never paid attention to the affairs between her parents in her parents' family, and in her husband's family, she naturally does not pay too much attention to the affairs of her in-laws.
It's just that when the sisters-in-law talk about family affairs in their spare time, they occasionally mention things about the elders.
Su Qingzhi always had an illusion after hearing this, and there had never been a couple in the Lin family.
Of course, when she was quiet later, she thought about it quietly, and she quickly understood that a family with a wife and concubine, and a legend of a good couple, it was a complete joke.
In this era, Su Qingzhi does not believe in any legends of husband and wife.
Of course, she is convinced that husband and wife respect each other like guests, and in this era, husband and wife can really respect each other like guests, which has become a good story.
Su Qingzhi looked at it very carefully, even if the relationship between the husband and wife of the Tang family, the old lady of the Tang family had a sense of awe for the old lady of the Tang family.
The equality in the relationship between men and women is something that can be aspired to but cannot be hoped for.
After Su Qingzhi followed Ming's side for a few days, she always felt that her sister-in-law was too indulgent to her, and there were some things that were obviously inconvenient for a little daughter-in-law like her to know for the time being.
Ming also told her the truth, seeing that she didn't understand a little, and carefully crumpled the small details inside and told her to know.
Su Qingzhi was suspicious, but she was unwilling to give up such a good learning opportunity.
Maybe in her life, she will go through the big family to divide the family, but looking at the current physical condition of the fifth master and wife of the Lin family, I am afraid that by the time the small family is separated, her daughter-in-law will already be able to bear things.
After Su Qingzhi followed Ming's side, she found that Ming's way of doing things was quite bright and organized.
See great wisdom in the details, and there are some details that can make people feel the intentions of the people.
Every time she learns and makes progress, Su Qingzhi can feel it a little deeper.
In this era, it is not so easy for a woman in the house to be conscientious.
Su Qingzhi studied very hard, but her talent was still a little worse.
She was deeply touched and said to Ming: "Sister-in-law, if I give birth to a daughter in the future, when I am a little older, I will ask my sister-in-law to help me take her with me and teach her for a few years." ”
Ming looked at her, and said with some amusement: "Actually, as long as you put your heart into everything, anyone can do it well." In the future, when you have the opportunity, you will understand my words. ”
Su Qingzhi suddenly had an idea in her heart, she didn't dare to understand the meaning of Ming's words, so she could only look at Ming's with a smile on her face.
In secret, she wanted to talk to Lin Wangshu, but seeing him work hard every day, she could only pick up some troubles at home and share one or two with him.
For example, a person who has a mother-in-law wants to give a New Year's gift to his mother's family, but he doesn't want to pay out of his own pocket, so he discusses with his daughters-in-law and asks them to do their filial piety.
For example, the daughter-in-law who has a room finds that the New Year's gift to her mother's family has an extra gift that is not available in the public.
Mother-in-law like the fifth lady of the Lin family, who assigns whatever is arranged in the public middle school, accounts for the majority of the Lin family.
But of course, there are a few mothers-in-law who discuss the daughters-in-law's filial piety to their ancestors, but it is just a quiet matter between the rooms.
After coming back every day, Lin Wangshu felt a little tired, but he also wanted to know some family matters, he listened to Su Qingzhi mention the matter of following Ming's side, and then heard her mention interesting things about the family.
Lin Wangshu felt that married life could be so interesting, and between the two, they could get along happily without quarreling or making trouble.
Su Qingzhi also felt that people outside still misunderstood Lin Wangshu in the past, and he was clearly a broad-minded person. 56