"I owe you, do I want to pay you back?" Qiao Dongliang sneered: "Who mentioned that he wanted to have a second son in the first place?"

At the beginning, Lao Ding said that there was only one son in the family, and he was too lonely and wanted to have a second child, because of the conflict with family planning, Lao Ding said that he wanted to have another child, and how important was it to have a child in his work future.

Qiao Dongliang does not deny that he is a traditional Chinese man, and he thinks that only by having a son can he inherit the lineage, but he does not force it.

Later, after listening to his wife's proposal, he was also moved or confused for a while, and lost his job and future in order to have a son.

What Qiao Dongliang regrets is not that he has Qiao Nan, a little daughter, but that he should not sacrifice everything, just to have a son.

If it weren't for this, the wife would not have blamed Nan Nan for not giving birth to a son and work.

"Lao Ding, if I don't say some things, it doesn't mean I don't know. What is the situation of your Ding family, and how you grew up, you should be clear. Are you ready to let Nan Nan suffer what you have tasted now? Is it that Nan Nan owes you, or do you owe Nan Nan? ”

Ding Jiayi has lived in a patriarchal family since she was a child, and the reason why the old cadre of Qiao's father's old friend introduced Ding Jiayi to Qiao Dongliang was to find a way out for both of them.

Qiao Dongliang's father and mother are gone, and his relatives are almost broken.

It's hard for people like this to find a daughter-in-law.

It's just that when he was in the army at that time, Qiao Dongliang was just a platoon commander, only a little better than ordinary soldiers, and his future was not obvious, so he couldn't find a target, he couldn't get up or down, and if he was bad, he didn't look down on Qiao Dongliang.

In this way, Qiao Dongliang's choice to marry a daughter-in-law is more and more embarrassing, and it is difficult to find.

As for Ding Jiayi, the living conditions of the Ding family are not bad, but Ding Jiayi has three younger brothers.

Ding's father and Ding's mother calculated that marrying a daughter-in-law for their three sons would always be beautiful, and the house had to be there, and the family had not enough money to spend.

So, Ding's father and Ding's mother hit the idea on their eldest daughter Ding Jiayi.

The three younger brothers were all brought up by Ding Jiayi, even so, Ding Jiayi's status in the Ding family is like that of the little maid of the Ding family, who works the most and eats the least, so she has to be scolded.

Ding Jiayi is also smart, when the eldest brother is learning knowledge, she takes the opportunity to take care of her younger brother and always reads her brother's books.

Sometimes, when the eldest brother who goes to school doesn't understand, Ding Jiayi can teach the eldest brother.

In this way, Ding Jiayi stumbled, and intermittently finished self-learning at the elementary school level, at least she recognized a lot of Chinese characters.

In Ding Jiayi's time, she was considered to have a high level of education.

When Ding Jiayi grew up to be a big girl, Ding's father and Ding's mother didn't think about keeping their eldest daughter at home all the time, so that the eldest daughter's work money could be taken home.

Ding's father and Ding's mother had the idea of finding a "good family", asking the other party for more bride money, and then quickly marrying off their eldest daughter.

At that time, Ding's father and mother not only found a good family, but also even negotiated the bride price, saying that they were marrying their daughter, but in fact, many people understood that it was simply selling their daughter.

The man Ding Jiayi is going to marry is short, not to mention, in his forties, which is older than Ding's father.

But the problem is that after that red era, this man will make a fuss, he is a pioneer, he has good ingredients, and he has a little power in his hands.

Ding's father is equivalent to finding an official son-in-law.

This man's age doesn't count if he looks ugly, and the worst thing is that this man has a bad temper, and no one can say clearly how the daughter-in-law who died in front of him.

As soon as she heard that she was going to marry such a person, Ding Jiayi was so frightened that she didn't want to die.

This matter spread left and right, and reached the ears of the old cadres, and the old cadres summed up that their old friend's son was a soldier in the army, but the old friend was framed, and on the surface, it looked bad, and there were no other relatives at home, so he was worried that his daughter-in-law was not easy to find.

This girl looks good, and she is literate, but her mother's family is not very reliable, if the two of them are willing, they can make do with it.

The old cadres didn't want to mess around, so they explained the situation of the two sides to each other, and asked Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi to consider whether it would be successful.

As soon as Ding Jiayi heard Qiao Dongliang's situation, she immediately nodded.

At that time, I didn't have any work as a soldier.

There are no elders in the family? It doesn't matter if she marries, then she will be in charge, and she can still have two fewer elders to manage and two less to serve.

There are no brothers without brothers, as long as their men are angry, they are stronger than anything else.

Ding Jiayi agreed quickly, but Qiao Dongliang hesitated slightly, and finally agreed, and the two got married and became a family.

Relying on Qiao Dongliang's relationship, with the help of old cadres, Ding Jiayi not only got married and had a new life, but also had a good and decent new job, and her life was simply a qualitative leap.

At that time, Ding Jiayi felt that marrying Qiao Dongliang was the most correct decision she had made in her life.

Ding Jiayi has been a little nanny since she was a child, and her three younger brothers have brought them up one by one, and they are all taken care of at home and abroad.

After having her eldest daughter, Ding Jiayi was not disappointed for long, she treated her eldest daughter very well, and wanted to make up for the happy childhood she missed.

is also a daughter, and when it is Qiao Nan's turn, the treatment is one in the sky and one in the ground.

"At the beginning, you said that you didn't have to work in order to have a second child, but you didn't want me to give birth to this second child. For this, I left my favorite unit. Lao Ding, for the sake of this child, my sacrifice is greater than yours. Nan Nan is not a son but a daughter, who is to blame, can you blame her?

Speaking of the back, Qiao Dongliang couldn't help but get angry.

With his eldest daughter, Qiao Dongliang finally figured it out, telling himself that his son and daughter were as good, and he really liked life in the army, he liked to be a soldier, and his father always said that he was born a soldier.

Even in order to continue to stay in the army, Qiao Dongliang has already figured out how to raise this daughter honestly.

didn't think about it, Qiao Dongliang stopped thinking, and Ding Jiayi began to make trouble with her son.

"Are you blaming me now?!" Ding Jiayi was like a hedgehog, and the prickly hairs on her body stood up: "Who said that sons and daughters are as good, don't blame me for letting your Qiao family cut off children and grandchildren, and become the head of the household." Old Joe, your thinking is too backward!"

What Ding Jiayi can't hear the most is that her stomach is not angry, just because she gave birth to two daughters in a row, and she also lost their jobs.

For this matter, Ding's mother once came to find this daughter who was married far away, and held her grandson to deliberately ridicule Ding Jiayi for having no conscience, so God opened her eyes and made her unable to give birth to a son.