Chapter 95: Dongmei distinguishes everyone's mouths
Dongmei looked at Yan Ning who was lying on the ground, and then said lightly to her brother and younger brother: "Let's go." Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info"
Hearing that Dongmei was leaving, Brother Dongmei looked at Dongmei incredulously and said, "Just leave, it's too cheap for this kid, right?"
Brother Dongmei also felt very surprised, and pulled Dongmei and said, "This brute, there is no guarantee and signature, so he left?"
Dongmei pushed away the crowd, walked out with an indifferent expression and said: "We don't have to change this animal anymore, Chunmei must divorce this scumbag." “
Hearing the divorce, the surrounding villagers let out an exclamation.
"Divorce, no one in our village has ever been divorced, no matter how bastard Yan Ning is, Chunmei can't get a divorce?"
"Yes, divorce, that's a big rebellion, no matter how much you drop, you can't get a divorce. “
When Dongmei's brother and younger brother heard about the divorce, they also followed Chunmei out, looked at Dongmei and said, "Do you really want Chunmei and Yan Ning to divorce?"
Dongmei turned around violently and said, "If you don't get divorced, do you still let this brute beat Chunmei in front of so many people?"
Regarding Dongmei's proposed divorce, Dongmeidi and Dongmeige both expressed their disapproval.
After all, in that era when the mind is conservative, the information is blocked, everyone is honest, doing their duty, staying at home to farm, and no one goes out to work, a woman unilaterally proposes to divorce a man, which is a big deal.
However, in Dongmei's eyes, as long as this woman is unhappy with this man, and there is no room for recovery, then, instead of following him to suffer for a lifetime, it is better to find a new master and start over.
Men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, once they marry the wrong person, the punitive consequences caused are very terrible and unimaginable.
And Yan Ning saw Dongmei's three siblings go out of the gate, he didn't think that Dongmei said that it was true that she wanted Chunmei to divorce herself.
He thinks that Dongmei just wants to scare herself, and it will be good to wait until it passes.
So, Yan Ning stood up from the ground like a nobody, patted the dust on his body, and shouted at the onlookers with a smile: "Look at what, go back to your house." “
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In the hospital, after the doctor's treatment, Chunmei and the child's lives were saved, but they still need to stay for a while to recover.
Chunmei saw that she had spent a lot of money and insisted on being discharged from the hospital.
Dongmei stopped Chunmei and said: "Money is something outside the body, the body is important, you live well, when you are completely recovered, and then you will be discharged from the hospital with the child." “
Chunmei took Dongmei's hand and said, "Sister, we have already spent a lot of money, and we can't get so much money from farming in a year, so I'd better be discharged from the hospital." “
Dongmei stroked her sister's rough hand and said: "When I came back from northern Shaanxi, I had already mailed you 3,500 yuan, and it will arrive in the account in these two days. “
Hearing that her sister had mailed so much money to herself, Chunmei's tears burst out of her eyes instantly.
Since she was a child, she has followed her sister as a mother.
Now, my sister takes care of herself like her child.
Chunmei sobbed and said, "More than 3,000 yuan were mailed to me, what do you and your brother-in-law and the two children eat and drink?"
Dongmei sighed, looked at her sister's pitiful expression and said, "Your brother-in-law has a salary every month, and I also went out to sell popsicles in the summer, three thousand yuan, and it took less than half a year to earn it back." “
Chunmei looked at her sister enviously and said: "Sister, when Weiguo came to you, you didn't take a fancy to it, and in the end you listened to your family's words and chose Weiguo, and now you are living happily, but I didn't listen to my family, I chose Yan Ning's bastard, the fire pit I chose, and the sin I deserved." “
Having said that, Dongmei wanted to propose to Chunmei and suggest that she and Yan Ning divorce, but Dongmei was poked by the eldest brother standing behind, meaning that when Chunmei recovered, he would bring it up to her again, so as not to irritate her.
There was no way, Dongmei chose to be silent.
She can only choose to carry Chunmei on her back and hold a family meeting first, what should she do when she sees the end of this matter?
After a while, the nurse came over to change the dressing, pointed to Dongmei and said to Chunmei: "Chunmei, let your sister get out of the way a little first, and when I change the medicine, she will come over." “
Hearing the nurse's words, Chunmei was stunned, looked at the nurse and said, "Sitting on the edge of my bed is my sister, I am my sister." “
The nurse couldn't believe her eyes, she looked at Dongmei, who had fair skin, no wrinkles, and was rich, and then looked at Chunmei, who had rough skin, wrinkles, and was thin, it was hard to imagine that Dongmei was her sister, but Chunmei was her sister, and it was impossible to know that Dongmei was eight years older than Chunmei.
Before getting married, Chunmei was originally much more beautiful than Dongmei, she was not only whiter and more tender than Dongmei, but also more beautiful than Dongmei.
However, several years of working in the field, facing the loess with her back to the sky, and the days when the wind and rain came and went, completely changed a woman's appearance.
And because Dongmei lived in the city with Wei Guo, she didn't work, didn't have much labor, and couldn't get sun, so her skin was always fair and tender.
After Chunmei changed the medicine, she could only smile awkwardly and said: "A woman, the most important thing in this life is marriage, if the marriage is not successful, then this woman will fail everything." “
Dongmei listened to Chunmei's words, her heart was like a knife, and she regretted that she didn't try her best to get Chunmei to give up Yan Ning's bastard.
When people are young, because they have no experience, they don't understand love and marriage at all.
When she understood, it was already too late, and she had reached a point of no return, and Chunmei could only sigh.
Dongmei thinks about herself, when she gave birth to her second child, Nana, Chunmei rode a bicycle and took three-year-old Taotao to the hospital for herself.
Lying on the maternity bed, looking at her sister Chunmei, her skin like clotted fat and her face like a flower, she was extremely envious.
However, it has only been a few years, and my sister seems to be dozens of years old, and I can't believe that the sister in front of me is just a girl in her twenties.
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Dongmei gathered everyone in the family.
Dongmei's father and Dongmei's mother sat in the kang, and Dongmei's eldest brother and sister-in-law sat on the edge of the kang.
Dongmei's younger brother and sister sat on a stool under the kang.
Dongmei is like a speaker, walking back and forth in a small house, expounding her views in as much detail as possible.
However, when everyone heard that Dongmei wanted Chunmei and Yan Ning to divorce, no one agreed.
Dongmei's mother feels that a woman must be loyal in this life, even if the husband and wife are not in harmony, they must make do with it for a lifetime.
Dongmei's father felt that although Yan Ning's kid was a bastard, he could still correct it after education.
Brother Dongmei thinks that if Chunmei and Yan Ning are divorced, what will happen to the two children?
How can Chunmei be a woman who can feed her two children, she can't watch Chunmei and her two children starve to death, right?
Dongmeidi felt that although divorce was simple, it would be too difficult for the divorced Chunmei to remarry, because there was no divorce in the countryside within a radius of 100 miles nearby.
Since there is no divorced man, how can Dongmei, a divorced woman, get married?
After listening to everyone's point of view, Dongmei sighed and refuted them one by one.
First of all, the mother said that a woman should be loyal all her life, but only if the man loves the woman and treats her well, can the woman be loyal to him.
If a man abuses this woman every day, and humiliates and beats her in public, how can he be loyal?
Could it be that a woman is born a cheap life, so she should put up with this bastard for the rest of her life?
Hearing Dongmei's words, Dongmei's mother had nothing to say, indicating that what Dongmei said made sense.
As for Dongmei's father, he wanted to correct Yan Ning through criticism and education, Dongmei only said one sentence, dogs can't change eating, Yan Ning's nature is bad, no matter how much he educates, he can't make him realize his mistakes from the bottom of his bones.
Therefore, if Chunmei continues to live with Yan Ning, she will still be beaten, and the abuse will continue to be suffered, and it may even worsen.
Hearing Dongmei's words, Dongmei's father frowned, picked up an old dry cigarette from the table, and smoked it with a solemn expression.
Brother Dongmei was worried that after Chunmei's divorce, Chunmei would not be able to support her two children, and she was afraid that the children would starve to death, so Dongmei directly pointed to everyone who was doing it and said, if Chunmei is divorced, will everyone watch Chunmei starve to death?
Can't Chunmei go back to her parents' house, live in her parents' house, and eat at her parents' house?
Brother Dongmei interjected and said: "Dongmei, have you seen a woman who got married, came back to live in her mother's house, and was seen by outsiders, where did our Yin family's face go." “
Dongmei sternly refuted the eldest brother and said: "Others' scolding is someone else's business, why should we care so much, the living person is living for himself, not living for others, besides, who said that the daughter who married out can't go back to live in her mother's house, these are some old feudal old ideas, now it's a new society, and it should have been abandoned a long time ago." “
Hearing Dongmei's words, the eldest brother was speechless, took out a foreign fire from his pocket, took out a cigarette and smoked it.
The younger brother was worried that Chunmei would not be able to get married, Dongmei told her younger brother directly, saying: "There are no divorced men, there are always widowed men, there are always poor men who can't afford to marry daughters-in-law, there are always bachelors, from ancient times to the present, there are only men who can't marry wives, and there are no women who can't marry, not to mention that Chunmei is still so beautiful, is this a worrying problem?"
Dongmei's younger brother was dumbfounded by what Dongmei said, he thought about it carefully, every word his sister said seemed to be reasonable, and the truth was indeed like this.
The room full of people, after Dongmei's enlightenment, no longer objected to Chunmei's divorce.
However, they did not explicitly support Chunmei's divorce.
In the end, Dongmei's father said a serious sentence: Marriage and divorce are major events in life, not playing at home, nor playing games, what others see is always the appearance, only the parties know the ups and downs, as for whether Chunmei and Yan Ning are divorced or not, we said it is just a reference, whether to continue or leave immediately, we must ask Chunmei, Chunmei is the party, we are all outsiders, so this can only, and it must be, Chunmei to decide.
Dongmei's father's words can be regarded as suppressing the scene.
Dongmei also decided to wait for Chunmei to recover her vitality before mentioning this matter to her thoroughly.
However, Dongmei is confident that she feels that her sister is not the kind of woman who is obedient to the contrary, she is a woman with backbone, insight and courage.
At the same time, Dongmei also saw the arrival of Chunmei's good days after Chunmei and Yan Ning's divorce.