637. Chapter 637
Is Liu Wei's name wrong? It is indeed wrong, but what is wrong? Fang Hanyun couldn't say it clearly. Fang Hanyun thought about it carefully, Liu Wei's mistake was that he was not responsible for his marriage and was not loyal to his marriage, he chose to be responsible for love and be loyal to love. It's a pity that this love is divided into three, so he can't take responsibility for this love.
"Why do you want to sue me about this? You can say nothing. Fang Hanyun did not answer Liu Weiming's question.
"Because you are my friend, I feel uncomfortable holding back some words, so I want to talk to my friends. It is difficult for people who walk in officialdom to have friends, and it is even more difficult to have friends who can make you feel at ease. Liu Weiming said with a lonely smile.
"Thank you. Fang Hanyun paused, then nodded and said.
"Thank you for what? What is there to thank for, you are originally my friend, and what I said is just a matter of facts. Liu Weiming asked very strangely.
"I want to thank you for reassuring me so much, this brother trusts me. Fang Hanyun said.
"Don't thank you too early, people who have been in the officialdom for a long time are pure snobs. There's a reason why I'm so relieved of you, and the first one is what you said, I trust you because we're friends. The second is that we don't have any conflicts of interest and emotional entanglements, and you won't have the possibility of being bought by your opponents, and third, you are very tight-mouthed. Of course, the most important thing is the first point, but it is not only the first point, and if the latter two did not exist, I probably would not have said these things to you. Prudence is now something in my bones, and it is an instinctive thing. I've tried too much in this area, so a subconscious has been formed, and I hope you don't get offended. I know, you're a spiritualist, and you feel dirty about these things, but there's no way, I'm different from you, I'm already a person polluted by the real society. Liu Weiming laughed at himself.
"The world is like this, and it is an eternal truth that people do not destroy the heavens and the earth for their own sake. ”
"Since you are my friend, then you sue me, what should I do?" Liu Weiming spread his hands and said. Then he continued: "You say that I am distracted and shameless, but now the problem is here, it's not that I can do whatever I say, three women, three children." I don't want to give up anyone, it's not a question of greed or not, it's a matter of whether I'm greedy or not, but I really love the three of them, more than life. As for my official position, it is too unimportant compared to them, and if I can live happily with the three of them, I can resign immediately, but only if I complete the task that your grandfather gave me to me, and she is kind to me, I must complete the task he gave me, and I must fulfill my promise to him. ”
Fang Hanyun suddenly fell into deep thought, she was also thinking, this Liu Weiming is obviously a shameless carrot, he should be a person who is to be ridiculed by society and blamed by ethics and morality, why doesn't she feel that he is wrong at all now? Maybe it is really as he said, he really loves, not playing and teasing feelings.
"I don't know what to do, maybe, maybe this is the best way to do it now. Although they are not very happy, they are still together. In fact, if you really love someone, you don't need to get all of him, you just need to be able to see him by chance and know that he has himself in his heart, that's enough, isn't it? I believe very much that the three of them love you very much, in such an open and democratic world, a woman can agree to have you with 2 other women regardless of one qiē, this is either too much love, love to the bones. Either they don't love you at all, but they have something for you. And now it seems that they must belong to the former. Fang Hanyun finally shook her head and said.
"yes, it's the best I can think of right now. Although they will always have a thorn in their hearts, they are not so strict, are they?" Liu Weiming suddenly smiled, knowing that what he had done over the years was not wrong.
"Actually, if it's in an African country, then your problem will be solved very well. I've been to Africa before, and a lot of them seem to be polygamous. Fang Hanyun said unintentionally.
It's just that her unintentional sentence made Liu Weiming feel like he had discovered a new continent, and Liu Weiming immediately said: "Is it true? Tell me quickly, tell me everything you have seen in Africa, mainly about monogamy, the more detailed the better." Liu Wei was very eager. The problem that has plagued me for years now finally has a solution.
Fang Hanyun didn't expect Liu Weiming to have such an excited expression, but thinking about it, she knew that Liu Weiming had an idea in his heart. So he began to slowly recall, telling Liu Weiming all the information he knew about monogamy bit by bit: "As far as I know, some countries in Africa, such as Senegal, Uganda, Libya, Eswatini, Egypt, Sudan, Ethiopia and many other countries practice polygamy. However, with the development of the times, polygamy has become more and more a controversial topic, with both supporters and opponents. African Arab countries such as Tunisia have long since legally abolished polygamy, and black African countries such as Benin have recently announced the abolition of this backward system. I've been to Senegal, which is considered by the West to be a country with better democracy, but a country with a more stubborn polygamy system. Senegalese President Wade in 2000, before adopting the new constitution, rejected the abolition of polygamy, arguing that it "cannot be banned", although he proposed many articles on women's emancipation. "of" ancient traditions. "What's more, in Africa, there are heads of state who openly defend polygamy. For example, when a 2003 United Nations report pointed out that polygamy was one of the reasons why Eswatini had too many people living with HIV, the country's king, Mswati III, publicly spoke out on television. It turns out that polygamy is completely legal in this country, and a man can marry as many wives as he wants. The 37-year-old King Mswati III has had nine wives and two "fiancées" since he first married at the age of 18. His father, the old King Sokhuza, according to his official autobiography, married a total of 120 wives during his reign from 1921 to 1982. With nearly 40 per cent of Eswatini's population living with HIV, the highest in Africa, the King's speech shocked both the country and the rest of the world. According to the locals, in the governments of many African countries today, there are many ministers who practice polygamy, and even the presidents of individual countries are polygamous. In fact, there is a reason for the practice of polygamy in Africa, Africa has always been in the midst of war, and when the war is torn, many women's husbands or lovers will die on the battlefield, and they will have no one to take care of them. We can recall the death toll of the First and Second World Wars, which resulted in the loss of millions of women to their husbands or lovers, leaving them and their children without a source of income and no one to care for and protect them. In such a situation, if only one wife is allowed per man, what about the millions of helpless women, who have no hope of getting a husband. To put it bluntly, if they were to keep it, they would be old and childless, and if they were willing to be human beings, they would not receive legally recognized rights, and their children would be treated as illegitimate children, without protection. Most women don't like either way, and in any case, they always want to have a legal husband and family, and be safe. In this case, polygamy can be a compromise. They need to face the reality that they would rather have several women working together as a husband than not having a husband at all. It is undeniable that polygamy is common in Europe and the United States, except that Westerners have no legal obligations to him and the children he bears, while Muslim husbands have full legal obligations to his second, third, and fourth wives and their children. In addition to the war-torn environment, there are other situations in which polygamy in Islam can be seen as a better institution. For example, the first wife is crippled or has a chronic illness. Of course, some men can tolerate these situations, but we cannot deny that there are potential dangers. In a number of cases, a second marriage may be considered acceptable in all three ways. In some cases, the wife has no children to support, and the husband wants to have children. According to Western law, if his wife does not have children, there is nothing he can do as a husband, and he has to endure the fate of having no children, otherwise he will have to divorce his wife in order to marry someone else. However, if polygamy is recognized, divorce can be avoided if the marriage is re-entered into with the consent of each person concerned. In other cases, the marriage is on the rocks, and the husband falls in love with another woman. This kind of thing is heard from time to time, and it is generally called a love triangle. According to Western law, if a husband does not divorce his first wife, he cannot marry the second. But the first wife may not want a divorce, she may no longer love her husband, but she may still respect him ~ in order to maintain the family, to be protected, for herself and her children. In the same way, the second woman does not necessarily want to destroy the man's first home. When these happen, the men and women concerned will naturally recognize the benefits of polygamy, because divorce or sneaky maintenance is not a good solution to the problem. The reason why I bring up the above example is not to advocate polygamy, nor to ask you to really immigrate to abuse this system, but to hope that you will not take the risk of going there until you understand its function, because it is because of the existence of this system that the plague epidemic and AIDS were abundant at that time, and if you don't get it, you will be done. So, Africa seems to solve all your problems, but it is not a place to live. ”
Fang Hanyun directly gave Liu Weiming a complete denial, yes, polygamy is allowed in Africa, but it is obviously not a suitable place to live. If you don't do it well, you will get the plague, and if you don't do it well, there will be civil strife. After Liu Weiming heard this, his heart was cold.
"Forget it, I'm just joking, I never thought there would be such a good thing. Liu Weiming said very dejectedly.
"Actually, there is another country that is also polygamous, and this country is also the richest country in the world. Fang Hanyun thought for a while and said.
"Which country?" Liu Weiming's silent heart came alive again, you know, the most important thing for immigrants now is money, and he is not short of money at all.
"The UAE, it's a polygamous and rich country. ”
"It's indeed a rich place, but why didn't you say it before?" Although Liu Weiming was happy, he also knew that Fang Hanyun would definitely have something to say if he didn't say it before, so he was not so happy.
"Not to mention the above, it seems that it is because this warring country does not allow foreigners to immigrate, at least I have been in the UAE for two months, except for the foreigners who stayed there for their ancestors in history and the foreigners who married local men, I have never seen a foreigner who can become a UAE citizen. I don't know if there is a nationality policy, but I do know that even if there is, it means that there is none. Fang Hanyun said with a smile.
"Forget it, I don't want to think about it, I'm in my thirties, and half of the most energetic years of my life have passed, so there's nothing to think about. Liu Weiming shook his head and said, in fact, he began to have his little Jiujiu in his heart, and he had already begun to have some thoughts in his heart, but these thoughts would not be said to Fang Hanyun.
At this time, there was the sound of a car outside, and it didn't take long for Li Lao to appear in the house.
"Old Li. Liu Weiming stood up and saluted respectfully.
"Uncle Lee. Fang Hanyun also got up.
"Here comes the great name. Li Lao was not too surprised to see Liu Weiming, but then looked at Fang Hanyun and was a little surprised, but he couldn't remember who this girl was for a while, but she was a little familiar.
"Uncle Li can't remember me, I'm Hanyun, the granddaughter of the old Fang family. Fang Hanyun said with a smile.
"Oh, it's you, girl. I haven't seen you for many years, and they all say that the eighteenth change of the female college is really getting more and more beautiful. Sit down, I'll go change my clothes first. Li Lao smiled, and then said to Liu Weiming: "Help me greet Fang girl, I'll go in and change my clothes." By the way, where did Mengqing go?"
She went out to buy vegetables, and she called her aunt back, saying that she would cook a few dishes for us in the evening, so that you could try her handiwork. Liu Weiming said very euphemistically, suspected of helping Li Mengqing curry favor.
"Hehe, only when you come can you get this treatment, I, just follow you to get some light. You talk, you talk. Li Lao smiled, then walked into the bedroom to change clothes.
"Looks like you've been here quite a lot. Fang Hanyun said with understanding.
"What do you say?" Liu Weiming did not choose to answer this question, but used a rhetorical question. That's much better than any answer.
"You're always so cunning, and when you encounter a question you don't want to answer, you can always do everything possible to avoid the past. Fang Hanyun shook her head and said. But there was no dissatisfaction, she was used to Liu Weiming's way of speaking.
"Actually, I've already answered you, haven't I?" said Liu Weiming with a smile.
Fang Hanyun thought about Liu Weiming's words carefully, indeed, Liu Weiming had indeed answered his own question.