Chapter 118: Psychotherapy

Su Bei is a little warbrow about his mental illness, but he will definitely not tell Dean Shen about his life experience. Therefore, even if this woman is very accomplished in the study of mental illness, as Tian Qi boasted, she cannot fully understand the patient's psychological state and experience, how can she talk about the right medicine.

Dean Shen seemed to see Su Bei's thoughts, and said lightly: "Mr. Su, I have seen the injuries you have suffered, and frankly it scared me. However, everyone has secrets that he does not want to confide in, and I am a doctor, not a judge, and I have no right to ask you these private questions. ”

"Thank you Dean Shen for your understanding, what exactly is the question you just asked?"

Dean Shen habitually pushed the myopic glasses on the bridge of his nose, looked at him and asked, "Are you in love with my daughter?"

Su Bei was stunned by her question, "What?"

"Oh, you don't have to answer me so quickly. Knowing a daughter is like a mother, my own daughter still understands, these days without her night shift, but she took the initiative to take a break with her colleagues, Tian Qi has never been so concerned about a patient. ”

"Dean Shen, I think you misunderstood......

"No need to explain, did Tian Qi tell you that I am a very rigid person? Actually, I am a very open parent, and I have always taken a neutral attitude towards my children's private issues, okay, let's talk about your condition first. ”

Su Bei looked at her with a smile and a smile, you girl is on the night shift just to practice acupuncture with me, don t say that the two of them have never thought in that direction, even if they have this kind of thought, at least they don't like the type of Tian Qi washboard airport very much.

In this way, Su Bei didn't think that Dean Shen had any ability to cure the disease, so because she was an elder, she had to cooperate.

"Mr. Su, I feel from your experience of being hospitalized and accompanying the bed several times that you don't seem to have fully integrated into your current life, right?"

"I take the liberty of asking, can I smoke a cigarette in your office?"

"No problem, with the patient's recovery, your request is very insignificant. Dean Shen propped his elbows on the table and carefully examined the patient introduced by his daughter, "It seems that you have guessed what I am thinking." ”

Su Bei did behave a little unnaturally, especially when he was asked about his privacy head-on, and he had a psychological state of escaping from humility, and none of this escaped Dean Shen's insight.

This atmosphere was silent for a long time, and Dean Shen swiped a few treatment plans on Subei's private medical records, then archived them in his computer, and handed a handwritten copy to Subei.

"Mr. Su, let's start with a stage of treatment. I may not be able to know your knot at the moment, and I don't need to know, but people's feelings are the same, you think I only see your surface, maybe I have found your individual differences from the common characteristics, the essence of the individual and the group is strikingly similar, and the reason why the individual is an individual is because of a single individual, to have a little difference from the group, all the individuals are integrated together, and all the characteristics are brought together, this is the overall ......"

"Ahem, Dean Shen, I don't seem to understand what you said. ”

Tian Qi's mother smiled and said bluntly: "That is to say, don't always think that you are the most special in this world. In fact, everyone is the most special and unique, but everyone is ordinary and ordinary, at least everyone is a mammal, you don't deny it. ”

"Hehe, your analogy is a bit exaggerated. Moreover, I never considered myself an immortal, and I was born a mortal in the world. ”

"Mr. Su, calm down, what I mean is very simple, I just want to tell you a truth from the philosophical and psychological level. Don't imprison yourself in the cage in your heart, thinking that outsiders can't understand you, and you don't allow others to enter your world. ”

"So, to solve the problem of your mental illness, Mr. Su himself has to jump out of this cage, and others can't help you. Do you know why I asked you if you are in love with Tian Qi just now?"

Su Bei shook his head, this Dean Shen is really not an ordinary weirdo, he beat himself up and put on a high hat for himself.

"Don't hide in a dark corner and lick your wounds by yourself. Finding someone you can talk to, of course, because you are younger, preferably a woman, and sharing the joys and sorrows, pains and experiences in your heart with the other person, is almost a panacea. ”

"Find someone to talk to? It's as simple as that......" After Su Bei finished speaking, he realized that this was not a simple question, could he stand up bravely and pour out his pain and sorrow as Tian Qi said? Who are you going to talk to? The knot that bothers him the most now is how to tell Han Yan about Han Xue's death.

Dean Shen nodded slowly, and then said, "You are like being in an illusion now, without the help of friends and lovers, you can't get out of this shadow." Of course, this is a cure for the root cause, and you need to slowly look for opportunities. I've made two more palliative strategies for you. ”

You say. Su Bei suddenly felt that Dean Shen's words were reasonable, and maybe they could really help him.

"If you're in love, hang out with your friends, relax and turn your attention to other foods, I think you're a good person. ”

Su Bei was dumbfounded, he always felt that Zhou Man was this kind of person, but he didn't expect to be criticized by the psychiatrist by name, this is really not knowing the true face of Lushan only because he is in this mountain.

"In addition to distracting your mind and getting in touch with nature...... Dean Shen smiled inexplicably, which seemed to Su Bei to be a wicked smile, "A young man like you, if you don't get that kind of life for a long time, it will also cause adverse effects, both physically and psychologically." ”

"This ......" Su Bei of course heard what she meant, and his face turned red with embarrassment.

"That's why I asked straight to the point about your relationship with my daughter, and now I understand. With that, Dean Shen stood up, looked at his watch, and was about to go to a meeting, patted him on the shoulder and whispered, "Pay attention to safety measures, you don't have a house or a car now, and it's not the time to have children." ”

Su Bei's head was completely stunned, and he waited until Dean Shen left for a long time before dragging heavy steps out of the office.

As soon as he returned to his ward, Tian Qi jumped over like a ghost: "How is it? ”

Su Bei didn't know how to answer, shrugged his shoulders and said with a smile: "Your mother said that we are here." ”

"Ahh

Tian Qi's cover-up was too excited, causing her to become more and more unnatural, and she could only rely on counting her mother to alleviate it. "It's over, it's hard now!"

"What's so difficult? You won't really be interesting to me, will you?" Su Bei joked.

"Don't talk nonsense, people like beautiful men, not uncles like you. ”

"Uncle?" Su Bei couldn't cry or laugh, "I'm not a few years older than you, so I don't have such a big generation gap." ”

Tian Qi originally wanted to introduce a psychiatrist to Subei, not only to help the hospital attract a big customer, but also to blackmail him, but who would have thought that her mother would think that she and Subei were procrastinating, which made her very embarrassed now.

However, Su Bei still agreed to invite her to dinner, and went to find Zhou Man, because she wanted to help Liu Hanyan make the budget for the company's travel, she couldn't get away, so she simply asked Su Bei and the two of them to eat, and brought one back for herself after eating.

Tian Qi is a native of the south of the city, where the things are delicious and where the authentic ones are, she knows everything clearly, she doesn't need to go to those expensive seafood restaurants, and picks a very authentic restaurant with crab roe buns.

"No, running so far, just to eat a few buns, you will also be able to live, haha. Su Bei laughed at her for being too heavy a little girl.

"You are a corny uncle who knows a six, the crab here is the best, that crab roe, oops, wrapped in a thin layer of bun skin, with some soup in it, a small bite, and a little vinegar...... Suck and suck!"

It was the first time Su Bei saw such a greedy person, he heard Tian Qi's saliva flowing out and swallowed back by her very clearly, this girl seemed to have no troubles at all, it may be the unique youthful atmosphere of this age, just like a sweet spring in summer, diluting all the heat and troubles.

Su Bei didn't know if this was a psychological suggestion, and having a meal with Tian Qi, who was stupid, gluttonous and lazy, felt very relaxed, as if he was far away from this complicated world.

"Boss, how do you sell crab legs? Forget it, anyway, someone has a treat, I want a large portion, hey, how many portions of crab roe buns did I order? Eight servings, let's add a few more copies, I'm afraid it's not enough." ”

Tian Qi wiped his exaggerated saliva with a tissue, while looking at the menu, Lin Lin always ordered a lot, the waiter over there had already begun to serve the food, and when he looked up, he saw Su Bei looking at him directly, and blushed a little shyly.

"Hey, Uncle Subei, what do you see, what do you eat, what do you drink? But if you want to drink, this doctor will resolutely not approve it. ”

Su Bei smiled and said, "When did you call the doctor again?" casually handed the menu to the boss, glanced at it, to be honest, he was also very hungry these days, so he simply served a few snacks and asked for two dozen beers.

Tian Qi is right, the snacks here are really not covered, just the crab roe buns ate eight cages and called eight cages, when they finished eating and were satisfied with lying on the chair and rubbing their belly, the plates and cage drawers on the table can be described as magnificent.

Su Beiyi touched his pocket: "That nurse Tian, I don't seem to have a wallet, can you put on this meal first, I will invite you next time?"

Tian Qi Tengleng jumped up from the chair, this meal was originally to blackmail Su Bei, and he ordered a lot of what he was usually reluctant to eat, but now this person actually made himself pay. Tian Qi said righteously: "Subei, I said that you are a big man, are you embarrassed to let me pay for a little girl?"

"I really didn't bring any money, why don't I go back to the hospital and I'll pay you back?"

Tian Qi's face was full of black lines, and he turned out the two pockets of his sweatpants, "You invited me to dinner, and you didn't bring any money yourself, so you were embarrassed to ask me if you brought it?"