Chapter 554: Heaven and Earth and Once Owned
Divorced women really can't be messed with.
Wu Xiaozheng felt that if the topic continued to be so dirty, Ma Li might pounce at any time and eat herself to the point that there was no bone left.
He decided to talk a little deeper.
"Ma Li, let me ask you, in fact, I really want to snap Zhang Ying, but I don't dare, what should I do?"
"Why don't you dare. ”
"Because she's as old as you. ”
Ma Li seemed to understand what he meant, and asked uncertainly, "Are you afraid of being responsible?"
Wu Xiaozheng asked rhetorically: "Isn't it just responsible for a man who snaps a woman?"
He was referring to the age.
If in the next life, men and women get together, why do they have to bear any responsibility? Bang Bang, all for the sake of desire, why do you want to do so much?
As soon as the topic deepened, Ma Li finally became less dirty, and she replied: "You think too much, what age is it now? If you snap it, you have to be responsible, so a woman like us, who is much older than you, if you really grow up, won't you have to wait until your hair is gray?"
Wu Xiaozheng: "......"
Is this era already so open?
He found that Ma Li's words once again subverted his cognition, and he was speechless.
As soon as he was silent, Ma Li began to educate him.
"Did you know that women are sensual creatures, they like when they like it, and they don't like it if they don't like it. Once you like it, you don't want to think so much, so let's make yourself happy first. ”
"There is a saying that you don't care about eternity, you only care about what you once had, which is to describe us women, understand?"
I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had.
This sentence is the advertising slogan planned by Mr. Zhu Jiading, one of the "four talents in Hong Kong", for Tiedashi watches, which is now becoming popular in China, and has also begun to be cited by the majority of women as a slander for love.
Wu Xiaozheng didn't expect to hear it from Ma Li's mouth again.
At this time, he was thinking, from this era, the reason why women will become more and more unrestrained is because of Mr. Zhu Jiading's advertising slogan?
At least in Ma Li, Wu Xiaozheng felt that Zhu Jiading was responsible.
Ma Li is still continuing to educate Wu Xiaozheng: "So, once you meet a woman you like and like you, you must snap." Don't care what age you are, don't think about the outcome, that will only make the woman who likes you sad and disappointed, you know!"
After finishing speaking, she looked at Wu Xiaozheng expectantly.
The topic has gone in an ambiguous direction again.
Wu Xiaozheng found that he was speechless about Ma Li's words.
Subconsciously, he couldn't figure out whether Ma Li's words were right or wrong.
Some aspects may be true.
For many women nowadays, it may really be the process that is more important than the result.
He couldn't help but think of an American movie "The Dream of the Covered Bridge" he had seen in his previous life.
In this film, it is about Francesca, a very ordinary housewife, who met Robert Kincair, a photographer of National Geographic magazine, during the four days when her family was away, and the two experienced a short and romantic entanglement in four days.
But four days later, Francesca had to break up with Robert Kinchai because she was unwilling to abandon her family, even if she and her husband did not love each other.
In the second half of Francesca's life, her love for Kimkai fills her memory, but she leaves happiness and responsibility to her family.
This is an ethical film about love and marriage, and it is very deep.
Thinking of this movie, Wu Xiaozheng has to admit that for many women, or from the perspective of human nature, maybe the process is indeed more important than the result.
But he didn't think Ma Li's words were for the whole team.
For example, now, even if he has a great interest in Ma Li and wants to snap her, but he can't snap because there is still Zhang Ying.
If he snapped Ma Li and Zhang Ying at the same time, what was the difference between him and a beast?
In order to avoid continuing to arouse Ma Li's desire, Wu Xiaozheng decided to change the topic again.
"Teacher Ma, let me ask you, if a woman is married to a man, but she looks at that man unpleasantly all day long, and is picky in every way, and finally divorces that man, why is this?"
Wu Xiaozheng asked about the relationship between him and Zhong Xiaolan in his previous life.
What he just said was the way he got along with Zhong Xiaolan in his previous life. He never understood why, so he had to ask Ma Li, a woman who had been married, for advice.
"Why do you ask this?"
Obviously, Ma Li was baffled by Wu Xiaozheng's question.
She didn't understand why a teenage boy would ask about marriage.
"Don't worry so much, just tell me the answer. ”
The answer is very simple, one is that the woman has never loved that man at all, and the other is that the woman has another man she likes, and it is the kind that loves him deeply. ”
Ma Li's answer was like a thunderbolt for Wu Xiaozheng.
Although he still didn't want to admit it, he knew that Ma Li's words were nine times out of ten true.
In his previous life, in Zhong Xiaolan, it was indeed difficult for him to detect that Zhong Xiaolan had love for him, and the two got along more like living together. After a long time, I found that the worldview and values of the two were completely different, and then the contradictions began to increase.
For that kind of mode of getting along, for the sake of a complete family, he can endure it, but Zhong Xiaolan can't bear it, so there is the final tragedy.
That's a tragedy!
Wu Xiaozheng was stunned for a while.
Ma Li stretched out Bai Huahua's feet and poked his big leg: "Hey, what's the wait? Sister is sleepy, you either stay or leave quickly." ”
Going is definitely going to go.
At this time, Wu Xiaozheng's mood was affected by the marriage in his previous life, so what else did he have to worry about being ambiguous with Ma Li?
Even if he had been itchy by Ma Li before, that little dirt had already been extinguished by Ma Li's words just now.
He wanted to go, but he couldn't just go.
If he doesn't make it clear to Ma Li, if they continue to be so ambiguous for a long time, it will be difficult for the two to get along in the future, and even make the relationship a mess.
"Marie, I know what you're thinking, but we can't. ”
"Why? Give me a reason. ”
"Because you are still young, a marriage that is not worth nostalgia is gone, and with your conditions, you can find another good man and start a new life, understand?"
"I don't have that mind yet. ”
"Even if you don't have that mind, we can't mess around. ”
"Why?"
Once we transcend that relationship, can you and I easily give up each other and accept others?"
Wu Xiaozheng's words were too sincere, leaving Ma Li speechless.
After being silent for a long time, she popped out a sentence: "I'm not reconciled." ”
Wu Xiaozheng: "......"
It's a tangle between eternity and what you once had.
In desperation, Wu Xiaozheng had no choice but to use the tactic of delaying the army: "Even if you are unwilling, it is not now." We'll wait until you've really calmed down and thought it through, okay?"