Chapter 1088 If you want to be safe, you need to be hungry and cold

At this time, Taotao was taking time to prepare for the exam of subject one.

When he saw his mother come in with a sad face, he knew that his mother must have been angry with his wife Zhang Wei again.

After Dongmei sat down, she looked at Taotao and said:

"Taotao, why is your wife so stubborn, what do I say, she doesn't listen?"

Tao Tao has no way to deal with Zhang Wei's stubbornness.

Tao Tao comforted his mother and said:

"Mom, you don't have to worry so much about the care of the baby, after all, Zhang Wei is a mother, she looks up information on the Internet all day long, she knows what to do right and what to do wrong. ”

Dongmei knows that young people nowadays have downloaded a lot of apps on their mobile phones.

Parenting knowledge is much better than those of the older generation.

However, no matter how rich your theoretical knowledge is, it is still a theory after all.

Elderly people like us, although we don't know how to play with mobile phones and don't know the knowledge of parenting, but we are people from the past and directly practice it.

We have a lot of experience, which is good and which is bad, and we know it in our hearts.

Dongmei continued to complain to Taotao:

"Can I not worry about it, your daughter-in-law got up in the middle of the night, and when she was breastfeeding the child, she didn't open her eyes, so she pulled the child over roughly, put it under her chest, and then began to breastfeed the child.

Before the child's milk was finished, she fell asleep first.

I just want to ask her, isn't she afraid of her own chest, blocking the baby's nose and mouth, how does the child breathe?

Okay, even if she worries and won't block the child's trachea, but what if she forgets that the child is breastfeeding, and she rolls over, or her arm, or her arm, and suppresses the child?

That's going to happen......"

Tao Tao listened to his mother's words, and he comforted his mother and said:

"Mom, don't worry, although she is asleep, she knows in her heart that the child is under her, and she will not move. ”

Looking at Taotao's relieved appearance, Dongmei said unhappily:

"You also have a big heart, it's not easy to have a child now, if something happens, I see that the two of you want to die. ”

Taotao listened to his mother and was still worried, so Taotao said:

"Mom, I think you are like this, sleeping with Zhang Wei every day, and taking care of the children is also tiring.

It's better to go to sleep well at night, and then I will follow Zhang Wei and the child to sleep.

I take care of the children with Zhang Wei ......"

Hearing that Taotao was going to take her place, Dongmei was even more uneasy.

She said: "Oh my God, Zhang Wei, I don't feel at ease, I dare to let you sleep with the child." ”

Dongmei is Taotao's mother, she knows that Taotao likes to turn over when she has been sleeping since she was a child, and she keeps turning over continuously.

If Taotao followed Zhang Wei and slept with the child, wouldn't the child be finished?

Dongmei firmly disagreed, she said:

"Forget it, I'd rather quarrel with Zhang Wei every day, and I have to sleep with the child.

If you sleep with your child, I see that at night, not only will I not be able to sleep, but I will also worry about death. ”

With that, Dongmei went out and left.

Tao Tao looked at his mother's back, and he felt uncomfortable.

To be honest, Tao Tao didn't want his mother to work so hard.

However, when I went to take care of my wife and children, my mother did not agree.

When Dongmei went out, Taotao picked up the exercises of subject 1 again and began to do them.

However, before he could read a few exercises, Zhang Wei walked in again.

As soon as she came in, she complained to Taotao that Dongmei was not.

Zhang Wei looked at Taotao and said, "Taotao, I really want to go to the confinement center." ”

Hearing that Zhang Wei was going to the confinement center, Tao Tao was embarrassed and said, "Where did I get the money to send you to the confinement center." ”

Zhang Wei glanced at the living room outside, and she said:

"Taotao, I can't figure it out, on such a hot day, your mother has to wear long pants and long sleeves for the child, and cover the child with sheets?

Doesn't she know that if she wants her children to be safe, she must divide hunger and cold?

The baby itself has a poor ability to regulate its own temperature, and would rather be cooler than hot, hasn't your mother seen it on TV, because the quilt covering the child is too thick, and the child is given heat to death?"

Taotao doesn't know which side to stand on?

Tao Tao knows that whether it is a mother or a wife, they have their own words and have their own reasons.

If you want to convince your mother, to listen to your wife, or to persuade your wife, to listen to your mother, that's impossible.

And if you can do it yourself, you can only adjust it in the middle.

So, Tao Tao said:

"Hey, I know, your theories are all right, but my mother and their older generation are stubborn and too rigid, let's explain, and I can't explain it. ”

Zhang Wei heard that when her husband Taotao was talking, he was still facing himself.

She was in a much better mood instantly, and she said:

"Actually, I don't dislike your mother, I know that your mother is also for the good of me and my children.

However, for the sake of your children, you can't wear so much and cover so thick for your children in the summer. ”

Hearing this, Tao Tao suddenly had an idea, and he said:

"Wife, I'll give you an idea, you listen. ”

After listening to Taotao's words, Zhang Wei felt that it was right and reasonable.

So, whenever Dongmei put on long pants and long sleeves for the child, Zhang Wei didn't take it off for the child.

She straightened up the child's long sleeves and turned them into short sleeves.

As for the trousers, Zhang Wei also pulled them into shorts.

In this way, Dongmei has nothing to say.

Although the daughter-in-law rolled up her sleeves and trouser legs, she did not forcibly take off the long-sleeved trousers for the child, but changed them into short-sleeved shorts.

And every night, when Dongmei covers the child's body, Zhang Wei folds the sheet in half up and down, and covers the thinnest part on the child's belly.

Dongmei looked at her daughter-in-law's actions, and she couldn't help it.

You want to say that your daughter-in-law threw away your sheets, but she didn't.

You want to say that the daughter-in-law doesn't cover things for her grandson, she also does, but only a little bit.

In this way, the main contradiction between Dongmei and her daughter-in-law Zhang Wei can be regarded as alleviating more than half.

As for the laziness of this daughter-in-law Zhang Wei, Taotao can only comfort Dongmei and say:

"Mom, while you see Zhang Wei being lazy, you also have to think about the benefits of her laziness. ”

Hearing that Taotao actually said that it was good to be lazy, Dongmei's eyes widened and said:

"What nonsense are you talking about?"

Tao Tao explained to his mother:

"Mom, don't you know, there are so many diligent girls who take a bath and go out shopping during confinement, and they don't take themselves and their children's bodies seriously.

As for Zhang Wei, because she was lazy, she didn't move, and she avoided hurting her body. ”

Hearing this, Dongmei felt that what Tao Tao said was also true.

Although Zhang Wei is lazy, she stays at home every day.

And, as a young man, she was completely stunned.

Unlike some girls, they can't stay at home at all, even during confinement, they have to run out to play.

So, in Dongmei's heart, there was another understanding for her daughter-in-law Zhang Wei.

And Zhang Wei, under Taotao's bitter heart, gradually understood Dongmei's good intentions.

In this way, with Tao Tao's efforts, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war, which was originally about to break out, was as calm as water and lived in peace.