"But what?" Su Ran saw Chu Li stop, and finally raised his head and asked. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

But seeing Chu Li's entangled face, knowing that she had the idea of talking about it again, she couldn't help but sigh and said: "Chu Chu, if you have anything, you can tell it all, I can find my own problems, otherwise, if I don't bring it up, maybe I will never be able to know where my problem is, if something really happens one day, it is very likely that the problem will appear in me, and I don't know it." ”

Su Ran looked at Chu Li sincerely, if it was her before, no matter how good Chu Li's relationship with her was, she would just go in her left ear and out of her right ear.

After seeing a lifetime, she knows that she should have some problems, but she can't always find where the problems are, not to mention anything else, let's talk about Song Jinyu's attitude towards her in this life.

She never thought that in her life, Song Jinyu's attitude towards her would be so different.

It is not an exaggeration to say that there is a world of difference.

But looking at all this, compared with the previous life and the present life, why does Song Jinyu have a completely different attitude towards her?

Is it just because she didn't die by herself? If so, is it just her own reason that she didn't get along well with Song Jinyu in her previous life?

But in this life, she also clearly felt that Song Jinyu did not dislike her, and even many times she could feel Song Jinyu's hostility, but this is the case, no matter who watched it, they could see that Song Jinyu did not deliberately target her, maybe they were still far from the kind of sister-in-law relationship that was like sisters, but she always felt that she was slowly improving, but Chu Li proposed it now, and she must have really seen something......

"But these days, Song Jinyu's maintenance of you is obvious to all. Chu Li said with relief.

"Xiao Ran, in fact, Song Jinyu has long accepted that you are her sister-in-law, and even invisibly regarded you as a family member. It's just that maybe you haven't communicated, and the authorities are fascinated, none of you can see it clearly, but as an outsider, I am very responsible to tell you, Song Jinyu, she is really a relative to you. Xiao Ran, sometimes, communication is very important. Maybe you can communicate more when you have time, and maybe there won't be a lot of unnecessary blame for each other. Chu Li said earnestly.

Communication is the bridge of everything. Communication is sometimes more important than getting along.

This is the conclusion she came to after a failed marriage.

These days, Chu Li is also constantly thinking about his past.

In the end, it was found that the reason why her marriage with Jiang Jie died so quickly was that in addition to Jiang's mother and children, they also had a lot of problems.

And one of the biggest problems is communication, they always feel that there is no need to communicate about small things, they are all for the good of each other, there is no need to tell each other in detail, but they forget that people always like to be suspicious, so there are more and more small things, more and more secrets between them, slowly, small remittance to big, nowhere small to no small things can not be small to become a big dissatisfaction.

There is less trust between each other, less communication, a little bit of wind and grass, the dissatisfaction with each other is infinitely magnified, and then there is a bigger storm, and the thatched house between them that is already crumbling suddenly collapses.

If she had communicated with Jiang Jie from the beginning, maybe she wouldn't have come to this point today!

"Communication?" Su Ran looked at Chu Li and said.

What kind of communication is considered communication? Is there a heart-to-heart conversation like she and Chu Li are doing now? But how can she and Song Jinyu have a heart-to-heart talk?

"Yes, I'll give you an example. Chu Li saw that Su Ran was confused on his face, and said softly.

To be honest, Su Ran has given her a lot of maturity since she got married, but maybe some people are missing a certain tendon in some aspects.

And Su Ran is lacking 'maturity'. Even though Su Ran sometimes gives people the feeling that she has experienced a lot of things and has a sense of rebirth, it is only for a moment, as long as there is any small thing, Su Ran's pretended maturity will be disillusioned, and the cloak of camouflage and strength will be lifted.

"You say!" Su Ran said seriously.

Obviously, she has lived for many more years and experienced many things, it stands to reason that she is much more mature than Chu Li, and much more indifferent than Chu Li.

But now looking at Chu Li's thin body, Su Ran felt the great energy in Chu Li's small body, and she, in front of Chu Li, could only be ashamed of herself and obediently be a 'child'!

"This time, are you very unhappy that Song Jinyu refused to let you adopt Spotted?"

"Yes. Because it was Chu Li, Su Ran said without thinking.

Even if she kept telling herself that Song Jinyu was right to adopt Spot, she was indeed reckless in this matter, and when she felt from the bottom of her heart that Jiang Xiaoyu and the others would not count the matter of Spotted scratching them on her head, when Song Jinyu refused strongly, even if she continued to build her heart, she was still unwilling to accept it.

"But have you told Song Jinyu?"

"Nope. ”

"Yes, no, you will tell me, but if it was Song Jinyu, you would pretend to say that it was okay, but this matter has still not been resolved, and it has been pressing on your heart, maybe you won't remember it after a long time, but Xiao Ran, this is just a trivial matter, right?" Chu Li asked softly.

Her voice is gentle and will make people unconsciously unload all the defenses in their hearts.

"Yes. ”

"One is a small thing, two is a small thing, what about three, ten, hundreds? All these little things are superimposed and put in the corner, and no one cares about them in the past, but if one day a big thing suddenly happens, and you have a great quarrel, then these little things become the source of your dissatisfaction, right?"

"Yes. This time, Su Ran thought for a while before answering. Although he felt that what Chu Li said might be exaggerated, Su Ran still thought about it seriously before answering.

But only after thinking about it, what Chu Li said was what they had encountered in their lives in the past, no matter who they were, these problems seemed to exist in them?

"Then how did these things grow from small things to big things, have you thought about it?" Chu Li saw the thoughtfulness on Su Ran's face, and said again.

"No, Chu Chu, I have always felt that those who should understand will naturally understand, and they never need to explain. Su Ran also said softly.

is to live a new life, and she still hasn't changed half of this point of view. Those who should understand can understand it at a glance, and they don't need her to explain constantly, and if they don't, even if she talks about it like three meals a day, it won't help.

"Xiao Ran, I admit that what you said also has some truth, but after all, this is a small number of people, but most of us are the majority of people in our lives, and communication is a good solution to most people. Chu Li nodded and said.

There is also a lack of communication between her and Su Ran, if she doesn't take the initiative to come over today, maybe in a while, after the farming is over, it is very likely that they will meet again again.

"Then Chu Chu, why were you angry before?" Su Ran suddenly asked.