Hearing his mother's nagging, Taotao finally understood.

He was both surprised and frightened and said, "Mom, these girls you are talking about, can they accept my divorce?"

Dongmei heard her son's concern, she said: "Before I ask you for the contact information of these girls, I have already told them about your divorce, and they can accept it." ”

Hearing that these girls could accept the fact that they were divorced, Tao Tao's heart put down the biggest stone.

However, this stone is relieved, and that stone is here again.

He continued to ask his mother worriedly, saying, "Do they know that I am just an ordinary, bottom-level, front-line oil worker in Changqing Oilfield?"

Dongmei heard from Taotao's tone, although Taotao had already experienced pain, he still did not overcome his inferiority complex.

Dongmei told Taotao, "I also told them that you are an oil worker, and you are in the mountains all the year round, so you can't take care of your family and you can't earn a lot of money......

Hearing that his mother told these girls about his situation, Tao Tao breathed a long sigh of relief, and put down another stone in his heart.

Although the two stones in Taotao's heart were put down, he still couldn't figure it out.

He asked his mother, "Mom, what do you mean by me?"

He's short, he's thin, he's not capable, and he doesn't have any money......

Why are these girls willing to give me their contact information?"

Hearing her son's self-deprecating words, Dongmei patiently explained to Taotao, saying, "Taotao, I'll tell you......

Although you are low, thin, honest, and not romantic......

That's right, you have a lot of shortcomings......

However, you also have a lot of advantages:

You are honest, truthful, thrifty, self-motivated, good character, high morality, take care of your family, do not smoke or drink, and do not spend a penny......"

Listening to his mother's praise of himself, Taotao realized that he still seemed to have advantages.

The reason why Taotao has low self-esteem is also because he is always in himself, and he sees the shortcomings, but does not see the advantages.

Low self-esteem is a character.

Since Taotao went to high school, he has unknowingly had this mental illness.

Along the way, he has struggled to overcome his inner inferiority complex since he started college.

However, until now, he still lives in a world of inferiority.

Tao Tao even self-analyzed, why do you have low self-esteem?

He thought about it, and he felt that the main reason was caused by the school violence in high school.

When he was a child, Tao Tao was bold, confident, lively and cheerful.

However, because of the school violence in high school, and the threats and intimidation that lasted for several years, Taotao's personality completely changed.

Make him timid, cowardly, fearful, inferior, depressed......

Tao Tao smiled and said, "However, girls nowadays don't look at boys' qualities, nor do they look at the advantages of boys who don't smoke or drink......"

Dongmei was very helpless, she had already told Taotao so much, it seemed that Taotao still didn't dare to talk to these girls.

So, Dongmei was patient and continued to tell Taotao, saying: "Taotao, let's not say anything else, even if you are short, you are ugly, and your personality is not good......

But, as a man, you at least have a house, a regular job, a stable income......

Moreover, you have me and your father, such a strong family backing, to support you, right?"

Hearing this, Tao Tao seemed to understand a lot.

He nodded, finding some confidence.

Then, Dongmei said: "Besides, these five girls are all leftover girls."

Since they are already leftover women, do you think they are ready to continue to be left if they have not lowered their mate selection standards?

In the end, when there are fighters left, there are fighters left over for gold, and then there are exterminators at the end?"

Hearing this, Tao Tao suddenly realized.

While considering his poor conditions, he didn't expect that these girls were generally older girls who were in a hurry to get married.

Therefore, I can be said to have the right time and place.

Tao Tao is in his heart, inspiring himself.

He said in his heart, Tao Tao, Tao Tao, even if you don't think about yourself, you should also think about your parents.

If you have no object and no children, who is the most miserable in this world?

It's not Cui Fei, it's not you, it's not your enemy, it's your dearest parents.

Thinking of this, Tao Tao plucked up his courage and said, "Okay, Mom, then I'll store this girl's contact information, and then text and call them one by one." “

Hearing that her son finally opened up, Dongmei said with relief: "Hey, you finally understand, it's really not in vain to waste my tongue."

As long as you figure it out, getting married and falling in love are two different things......

Understanding the attitude of men and women towards marriage is not the same thing......

When you understand that you have low self-esteem, other girls also have low self-esteem, and you become a ......"

Tao Tao took a deep breath and said, "Okay, Mom, I know."

After I hung up with you, I reached out to the girls. ”

Dongmei's face finally showed a relieved expression.

She said, "If you can say that, it means that you are starting to be confident."

A man, once he is confident, then he has no money, no talent, and even no appearance, then he is also the most handsome. ”

Tao Tao understood his mother's words, he said: "Mom, when I was in high school, I was seriously injured by school violence, and since then, I have never been able to feel confident......

Now, I have decided to overcome this mental illness of my own completely, live bravely, and boldly pursue ......"

Dongmei knew that when Taotao was in high school, he was beaten and threatened for two years because he offended the school's troubled boy Wang Rui.

This incident caused serious damage to Taotao's body and mind, and even directly changed his character.

Ever since that injury, Tao Tao has not been able to come out of the shadows in his heart.

Today, when Dongmei heard that Taotao had made up her mind and was ready to come out of the damage caused to her heart by the campus violence, her heart was sincerely happy.

Dongmei said excitedly: "Since you have made up your mind to change yourself, then my mother blesses you and wishes you success." ”

After speaking, when Dongmei was just about to hang up the phone, Wei Guo took Dongmei's call.

On the phone, he told Taotao, saying, "Taotao, although your mother told you about five girls......

However, you must be sober, you can only choose one person to get married, understand?"

Hearing this, Tao Tao smiled and said, "Dad, of course I know, it's not the old society now, can you still have three wives and four concubines?"

I'm sure I'm not going to fall in love with them right now.

I won't have feelings for them.

Now, at most, I can communicate with them briefly and get to know each other.

By the way, ask for information, inquire about the three views......

Feel the feeling of character......

When I go back to the provincial capital, I'll make a decision after I see them one by one. ”

Wei Guo listened to Tao Tao's words, and he suddenly felt that Tao Tao was mature, at least, he was not as impatient and confused as before when dealing with marriage.

Wei Guo said comfortingly: "Okay, since you understand, then I won't say anything, you can grasp it yourself." ”

After speaking, Wei Guo will hang up the phone.

However, Nana snatched the phone from Wei Guo's hand again.

She reminded her brother and said, "Brother, you need means to fall in love."

Don't be stupid enough to think that your true feelings can be exchanged for sincerity......

If you still treat girls like you did before, treat girls like Cui Fei, and get along with girls like Cui Fei, the consequences will be unimaginable.

Brother, you are a man, you must be domineering, even domineering.

You're going to take out the look of a man who is you......

In this way, women can understand that they are a woman who needs to be protected, not a queen who is high......"

Taotao listened to his sister Nana's words, and he felt that it was time for him to reflect and change himself......

Otherwise, the tragedy will surely be repeated.