Chapter 462
Numerology says, since ancient times, this grandmother has died because the adults in the family have also died, so it is inevitable to hear some rumors, saying that there is something wrong with her life, so so-and-so, who has suffered enough, heard that the doll that is more than a year old has fallen into the situation of his own before, and even worse than himself, his heart suddenly hurts.
At the same time, for the unmasked doll is even softer like a puddle of water, he feels that his heart is now full of a white and chubby male doll, maybe this doll is related to himself, otherwise why is his life experience similar to himself, and is in such a difficult situation, if he can reach out to help, it is also a great good deed.
Being kind to others is basically engraved in the bones of this grandmother. When he was young, he was still taught by his parents, so these great truths have almost penetrated into the bone marrow, naturally there are such good deeds, and he has the ability to hear such a miserable doll, living such a miserable life, of course, this grandmother is soft-hearted, and must help, he didn't think too much about himself just instinctively out of the maternal brilliance of women, and wanted to help.
Thinking of this, the grandmother couldn't help but say, I still have some savings here, or you can see which family has no children, you give them the money, let them adopt the child, take good care of him, at least raise him as an adult, you tell them, this is also a good deed.
For the so-called fate, it is not a belief in this steamed bun, he has heard such words before, he does not believe in the fact that he may have killed his family because of himself, after all, he watched his parents die of old age, in fact, in terms of the age of his parents, it can be regarded as a joy and mourning, after all, his parents have been childless when they were young, and it has always been very normal to have a daughter in his later years to educate him, so. The cultural ambassador does not believe that anyone will die and kill his family.
While disdainful of this kind of remark, after listening to what his good sister said, some people don't take these things seriously, so Mao Mao was relieved. He just wants to help this child now and let him grow up safely, after all, the child is the most innocent.
When the mother-in-law heard the conclusion that the mother finally came to that she was only sponsoring some money, he couldn't help but pout in his heart. This person is really honest, just thinking about helping others, but soon, this woman was unhappy in her heart, and she actually reached out to him like this, asking for money and still having money to stay, it was really her previous skills that were not at home.
But obviously, now is not the time to try to make the other party's private money into her own hands, so the woman can only sigh for a long time, pretending to sigh, and then say, alas, this is not a long-term solution. Although the child is only more than a year old now, and he doesn't understand anything, as long as the adults are well educated, he can naturally be exactly the same as his own child, but even if the couple has no children now, there will naturally be conflicts when they get along with children in the future.
The grandmother who served beside the old lady of the Zhao family was also soft-eared, otherwise how could she have been directly controlled by this mother-in-law for so many years, and she couldn't even say no.
Now that he listened to his mother-in-law's nonsense, he actually felt that it was very reasonable. I also kept nodding my head next to it, yes, there must be a difference between this adopted child and my own child, no matter what the parents originally thought, or how they have always felt how they are doing, in fact, it can be seen in a little thing, the difference is very big.
Once when the little sisters chatted with each other, this grandmother had also heard about it. Something like that. The couple has not been able to have a child for various reasons, and thought that they could not have children, but it took a lot of hard work, so they begged for a child to adopt, but after raising it for a few years, after their own child was born, the child in front of them immediately became an eyesore.
The kind-hearted person naturally thinks that this child also brings good luck to himself, thinking that he can raise him like his biological parents, which can be regarded as a fate, and even feels that he can do it without discrimination and raise this biological and adopted child as his own child, but often things are not transferred according to their wishes.
At first, he felt that he could treat his child well, but then he became more and more harsh, no matter what, it was not his own child, it was like a thorn from the bottom of his heart, since he was not his own child, why should he enjoy the same treatment as his own child.
Even if their attitude is not obvious at first, but over time, the small calculations in the hearts of these people will naturally be seen by others, and even ignorant children can distinguish them, not to mention anything else.
This is still a better heart, that the bottom of my heart is originally, generally just want to raise a child to support the elderly, after the couple has their own children, the adopted child Rick has become a little slave of their family.
Give a bite to eat, or simply leftovers, so that the child can't die and get all kinds of physical abuse, not to mention the psychological model, or disgust, the adopted child can't hold his head up for the rest of his life.
What's more, because of the adoption, the family is not at peace. The grandmother had also heard from a relative of their family, and at that time they still regarded the incident as an anecdote and chatted with each other casually, and the two brothers did not know how, one gave birth to four sons, and the other had nothing else to do after the hard work of giving birth to a daughter.
However, the two brothers also have different impacts on their respective families because of the difference in their children, and the original family property is about the same, but the eldest has to raise four sons, which costs a lot, plus I don't know if life is too hard, or if I gave birth to four children in a row, my body is exhausted, anyway, the eldest daughter-in-law died early, so that a man with four children, a family of five men went over the fire together, this day is conceivable.
Compared with the eldest family, the second family is much better. After all, there is only one daughter. The two brothers, who were originally similar to each other in the family, gradually began to distance themselves in all aspects of their living standards.