Chapter 62: Who knows the pain of Qian Duo
ββ¦β¦ So, I don't want to explain it β I don't want that anymore. As long as I don't bear the identity of your girlfriend anymore, I won't be so jealous of my senior sister and sister every day behind my back, 'How did this girl who is neither the most beautiful, nor the most capable nor the most capable catch Xiaoxiong's husband'!
Of course, I still love you. If you want, I can be your lover for the rest of your life, and as for who will be your girlfriend and who will be your wife in the future, it has nothing to do with me. If the future one can't tolerate me, it's okay for me to break off with you completely. You have done so much for me, you have only spoiled me for more than a year, and you also announced to the world on CCTV that you named Nicole Nicole Video Network after me, and I am already worth it.
Perhaps, after I don't have to bear the title of your girlfriend, I don't have to go so hard and make myself miserable. Perhaps, I can really obey your command completely, and I will do whatever you tell me to do, and I will never have to take any more risks. I'm really tired, scared, I don't want to be pointed at......"
Feng Jianxiong was dumbfounded.
He asked himself that no one in the world was better than him. I have worked with the three young ladies of the school team for so long, and I feel that they are not as good as myself.
Unexpectedly, at this moment, after listening to Nick Shi's words that had been held back for more than a year, he had the illusion that he was pressed by the other party's summary statement.
Perhaps, this is the persuasive power of truth or words.
For a girl, is it cool to be the wife of a rich man?
It's really cool materially. If this rich man is also talented and handsome, and he is very good at work, it will be even cooler.
However, to be the wife of a successful person, you also need that girl to have excellent skills, including posture, wrists, and psychological quality. This is also the reason why many pure vases cannot be used as rich wives.
Their connotation can't withstand the pressure of public opinion at all.
If you don't believe it, you can put yourself in your shoes: If she is a girl who wants to be faced, standing in a position like Wendi Deng or Priscilla Chen, can she withstand the doubts of public opinion about her? Can she resist the malicious criticism of thousands of people?
And being the lover of top successful people is actually relatively free of social pressure.
But being their wife is such a big social pressure, it's real.
If the husband is a person who understands the laws of human nature in this area and is willing to find something to do for his wife and get some social status, then the situation is better - the most common is that the top wealthy people in Europe and the United States open a charitable foundation for husband and wife, and then make his wife a "public welfare angel", so that society will have much less malice towards these "lucky women".
And Feng Jianxiong hasn't come this far. Not only did he not have time to get involved in public welfare, but he also didn't have this string in his head at all - "If I am too successful, how can I keep my wife from social pressure, make her feel inferior and feel unworthy of me, and be criticized by jealous women all over the world?"
Even he pretended to be forced on CCTV, saying "I am the Nicole Nicole Video Network named after my girlfriend Nick Shi".
This forced pretending was indeed very cool and romantic, and it also made the debate match at that time more convincing, and to some extent increased his stakes in winning the competition in the end.
But at the same time, looking at it calmly, it was actually roasting Shi Nicole on the fire.
The hatred value of the girls who were jealous of her overnight increased many times. is to hate the rich with the poor on the Internet, even if you don't know the rich man, you will scold a few words. For girls, when they meet a woman who is obviously not good in quality and has become a celebrity wife with shit and shit, of course, they have to scold angrily.
Speaking from the heart, Ma Feng's father is very right in one sentence: to be a wife to a person who only earns 1 million a month, but will not be abused by the public; it is definitely happier than a top rich businessman who earns 1 billion a month, but will be scolded by tens of millions of people.
Anyway, a monthly income of 1 million is enough to spend, and there is no place to use more money, which does not increase happiness.
But for the extra part of the money that I obviously don't use, I have to bear the happiness impairment caused by the psychological burden of "someone scolds me behind my back all the time".
This kind of extra unnecessary pain for the wife of the top rich, how many people can understand those female frequency literary cocks who are obscene with "domineering presidents" every day?
Therefore, all problems are too much, and they must be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Seeing that a successful person raising a junior is beaten to death with a stick, he is said to be a scumbag, but in fact, there are also wronged. It's just a poor woman using her imagination to construct an entire unknown world. Because they can't understand "it is possible that the mistress and the domineering president are true love, but the mistress himself can't bear the pressure of life under the spotlight, so he voluntarily gave up the opportunity to become the other party's wife, and even this mistress may come first".
(Note: Of course, I'm just opening up my mind for everyone, not all of them are whitewashing for the junior and the president, at present, most of them are still caused by liking the new and hating the old and lustful.) Or it is to socially compare with the people in the circle, and at certain social levels, businessmen especially like to take pride in raising more women and have face in the circle. Who made me a person who likes to tell the truth and uncover the world that many people can't see. οΌ
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Even on Nickole's personal blog space, the number of criticisms has increased geometrically, dozens or even hundreds of times. (Although the number of blog followers has skyrocketed). made such a fuss that Shi Nicole had to secretly close the blog post comments.
Although, this incident happened after Nick Shi had already made mistakes in the legal aid center and used public power for private purposes.
But it's the same thing.
Shi Nicole herself is not mentally prepared to become a rich wife. Her nature was originally to make a little money, be diligent, and be happy. Feng Jianxiong's rapid rise has fueled her seedlings into a deformed development existence with obvious shortcomings.
As the "barrel theory" says, the amount of water a barrel can hold is determined by the shortest board that makes up the barrel.
Feng Jianxiong used Shi Nike according to the size of the longboard, and sooner or later something would happen.
In this matter, Shi Nicole has seven points of responsibility, and Feng Jianxiong also has three points. Not being able to know people and being able to understand the inferiority complex and impatience in the hearts of girls is also a kind of leadership responsibility.
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"Do you want to break up?" Feng Jianxiong got out of bed, put on a trench coat, sat on the sofa chair, took out a cigar cutter and sulfur blowtorch, and lit a thick Danneman cigar.
He usually doesn't smoke in front of women, but today he is really in a heavy and complicated mood.
Shi Nicole also sobbed, and her tone regained some calmness: "I don't want a name anymore, I just want to be good to you for the rest of my life, and I don't have to worry about whether I am worthy of you." As long as you are willing, as long as your future wife can tolerate me, I can be your lover for the rest of my life, and if I can't tolerate it, I will guard you like a jade for a lifetime. I've tried, and I know I'm not up to the task, and I don't have the cheekiness to resist the world's misunderstandings.
You're right about all this, it's me who doesn't have this blessing, I don't deserve it. There are some things that you will only know after passing through them: love and fame are not only important in this world. Face, reputation, not being misunderstood, and pointing fingers behind your back are equally important. β
When people reach middle age, they will know that love is not everything.
There are more pursuits to weigh together in life, and more fetters to be responsible for.
Just like Xiao Lizi, when he played "Titanic", he could jump into the sea as a little fresh meat and for shredded meat, but when it came to "Inception", he couldn't commit suicide with his ex-wife Marr as a dream thief uncle.
However, Shi Nicole is only a sophomore and is not yet 20 years old, and she has already been carried and matured to this point by Feng Jianxiong, a speeder.
If you think about it, you can't help it.
Who made Feng Jianxiong a person who has walked the road of others for ten years in one year.
The confidantes who flew with him were neither reborn, nor had abilities and systems, they were just ordinary pure and beautiful girls, and they naturally fell behind.
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The two of them just smoked cigarettes, drank cold Rui Ao cocktails, and talked thoroughly in the dim but not ambiguous light.
Feng Jianxiong also knew for the first time that his ex-girlfriend had so much pressure in his heart.
After both of them calmed down, Feng Jianxiong pointed out: "Since you insist on breaking up, that's okay." But you've actually thought about how you feel without me?"
Shi Nicole wiped her tears and asked puzzledly: "How do you feel?" You don't have to be responsible for me, you can go to find other better girls, do you feel bad?"
Feng Jianxiong shook his head helplessly, but there was no reprimand in his tone, just pure helplessness:
"Childish! Don't you think that I, as a quasi-celebrity who is already a public figure, also want to be famous? How long ago did I openly announce on CCTV that Nicole Nicole Video Network was named after you. In public, I have created a social image of 'valuing feelings and family'.
As a result? I'll turn around and dump you? What will public opinion think of me? Clinton and Greece still know that if you want to be president, you can't get a divorce!"
Shi Nicole was shocked, she really didn't expect this.
She really didn't have the mental preparation to be a celebrity, and she couldn't keep up with the public opinion and public relations ideas that need to be considered to be a celebrity.
Shi Nicole thought for a few seconds, and asked tentatively: "So ...... So much to think about......? Why don't we slow down and announce it to the outside world a little longer? It's all my fault, and when the time comes, I'll find some excuse for my fault, and then I'll take the initiative to dump you? Then public opinion will sympathize with you and won't leave you with emotional stains, right?
Of course, don't worry, I will never let you be ashamed, the excuse I found to take the initiative to dump you will definitely not have anything to do with other men, just say that it is a bad personality to dump you. β
In the end, Shi Nicole also temporarily thought of the gambling curse and swore that the reason for dumping Feng Jianxiong disclosed at that time would definitely not involve "being green".
"I didn't ask you to take this responsibility! I'm just reminding you that you're still too young! too immature! Sometimes naΓ―ve! You haven't thought about it at all!" Feng Jianxiong rudely interrupted the other party and pulled the topic back into his own brain circuit.
"In the future, without me being your boyfriend, you can help me in business, you can slow down. In other areas of immaturity in life and in the face of public opinion, you have to mature yourself as soon as possible.
I will mention the responsibility of breaking up with you to remind you to open your mind. Since I've been your boyfriend for more than a year, let's take responsibility for you from the beginning to the end - the reason for breaking up, even if I dump you. When the time comes, I'll make it public. In this way, public opinion will be more sympathetic to you. β
"It's really not necessary...... I don't need public opinion to sympathize with me, I swear I won't find another man in my life, why do you want them to sympathize with me on the reason for breaking up?" Shi Nicole was a little at a loss, trying to take the blame for Feng Jianxiong in the end.
Feng Jianxiong snuffed out the cigarette butt of his cigar fiercely, and waved his hand horizontally: "Don't say it! You don't want to think about it, if a man is dumped by a woman, isn't this a very shameless thing in itself." I said that I will dump you, and I will dump you! Listen to me! β
Shi Nicole shed tears of excitement, and the whole person was completely relieved.
For the first time, she discovered how relaxed, relieved, and tranquil it was to only be Brother Xiong's lover without having to bear the name.
Sure enough, when people reach a high position, they can no longer use the thinking of the people to imagine the weight of love and other social values.