Chapter 104: Knowing Yourself
At this time, Liu Jianzhou thought in his heart, no one should be able to guess except himself, but he had to tell himself to be calm, as Meng Aiwen's current behavior may not be really normal. What's more, she has been locked up in a psychiatric hospital for a period of time before, even a normal person would probably go crazy in that situation. So reassuring himself doesn't necessarily prove that she's sane.
Besides, even if it is confirmed that she is mentally normal now, it cannot prove that she was normal when she was sent to the hospital, and who can prove this kind of thing after that time. At most, the divorce agreement is invalid, it has already become like this, Liu Jianzhou doesn't believe that Meng Aiwen will not divorce, if she really doesn't divorce, he will have a way to make her really crazy in the future.
It is said that women are the most poisonous, and men are really no worse than women.
The Meng family was busy taking Meng Aiwen to a hospital in the city to find a psychiatrist to issue a certificate, of course, the issuance of this kind of certificate is not something you can issue if you say you want to issue it, it still needs a letter of introduction issued by someone's police, and the doctor of the hospital dares to give you a certificate only if you explain the purpose, otherwise who knows where you will use it.
This morning, when other policemen were busy with other things, the policeman in the police station, who had been watching the Meng family's farce from beginning to end, was also very enthusiastic to help Meng Aiwen issue a letter of introduction. It's not that people are lazy and don't work, isn't it that people are responsible for dealing with this fight? I originally thought it was a civil dispute, but after asking about it, I realized that this was also an internal conflict within the family.
The police in that era were still very good, and that was the real servant of the people, unlike some policemen in later generations who could not mention it. After the enthusiastic police comrades talked about the situation of the Meng family like a report from their superiors. In the end, Meng Aiwen was even exempted from the fine.
In this way, when the Meng family came to the hospital with a letter of introduction issued by the police station. It was close to eleven noon. Originally, Yu Lifang wanted to remind everyone that it was almost noon, and it was estimated that the doctor was off work, but looking at everyone's anxious expressions, she didn't say anything, and still accompanied them to go.
As a result, when I arrived at the hospital, it was not out of Lifang's expectation that the doctor was off work. They had to register first, waiting for the doctor to come to work in the afternoon and issue a certificate early.
Meng Yuanhang proposed, since he can't see the doctor now, let's eat first. Meng Yuanshan had no other way to see it, so he had to do this. After tossing and turning this morning, he hurriedly asked for leave from the unit and ran out. So I have to go back to the unit in the afternoon.
As soon as several people were combined, Yu Jianguo was allowed to watch in the store in the afternoon, Yu Lifang and Meng Yuanhang accompanied Meng Aiwen in the hospital, and Meng Yuanshan rushed back to the unit to deal with the work.
After it was decided, a few people had some food in a small restaurant near the hospital, and Meng Yuanshan hurried back to the unit. Meng Yuanhang and Yu Lifang accompanied Meng Aiwen back to the hospital and waited for the doctor on the chair outside the doctor's outpatient clinic. I hope to see the doctor as soon as possible to help Meng Aiwen issue a certificate.
Meng Aiwen may have been tired after a long morning, or she may have really seen someone who would not hurt her, and the whole person relaxed, and in the process of waiting for the doctor, she slowly fell asleep by Meng Yuanhang, and the whole person was much calmer.
Since she ate at noon, she has lost the crazy energy she had when she was at the police station, maybe it was really Liu Jianzhou who made her hate and love. I can't stand it when I know that I am 'divorced', and it is really difficult to see him want to be normal.
Meng Yuanhang looked at his wife, who was also tired, and felt very warm in his heart. This is my wife. Even though it was so unpleasant with his sister. Obviously, he had suffered so many grievances because of his sister, but he still protected Avenues at this time. There's no other reason for this, just for yourself. This is the wife who loves him deeply and thinks about himself everywhere, he feels warm in his heart and very comfortable.
Yu Lifang seemed to feel her husband's concerned gaze, and turned around with a smile, as if telling Meng Yuanhang that it was okay.
"Lifang, do you want to sleep on me for a while, you can't rest at noon in the morning after being tired, you have been busy with things in the store for several days recently, and you haven't rested much. Meng Yuanhang saw that his wife was a little tired but still smiled softly at himself, and he said to his wife with some distress.
"It's okay, I'm not tired, I can't sleep in this kind of place, I'll wait with you. Yu Lifang was a little moved when she heard Meng Yuanhang's words, although her husband was very good to him before, he was not as careful as he is now. It seems that in the past six months, my husband has become more and more aware of his feelings and has become more and more attentive and considerate. Maybe it has something to do with what happened during this time.
However, Yu Lifang felt that such a husband or her previous husband was the one she loved. Maybe he used to make her suffer a lot of grievances about her parents and sisters, but it wasn't that he didn't love her enough, it was just ...... He really wants his parents' attention. She had always been considerate of him.
Now he began to pay attention to his feelings, and began to become more considerate, of course these are good for her, but is this really good? He must be very painful in his heart, right? Because there are so many things happening at home, he wants to be good to himself even more, in fact, because he feels very cold and lonely in his heart.
Meng Yuanhang used the way of doubly treating Lifang, wanting to make up for his mistake when he didn't stand up to protect her. Use this to tell yourself that he has a wife and a daughter, that he has a warm home, that these are his family, that he is not alone, is he?
Yu Lifang understood this and understood that he was actually lonely and miserable in his heart. So she always wants to warm her husband with her heart and make him feel better.
When Yu Lifang and Meng Yuanhang were talking, Meng Aiwen had already woken up. Originally, the outpatient clinic of the hospital was crowded with people, so it was impossible for her to sleep soundly. In addition, some time ago, because she was framed and was admitted to a mental hospital, she was so scared at that time, so her senses became extremely sensitive, and she woke up as soon as Meng Yuanhang and the others spoke.
After listening to the two of them, she continued to pretend to be asleep, and she knew that she shouldn't disturb them at this time.
In the past, Meng Aiwen was willful, selfish, and domineering...... All of this is because she is actually spoiled by her parents like a child who has not grown up. In fact, she has been fragile and sensitive since she was a child. The above are the two elder brothers, because she is the first daughter, she will get more love than the second brother, but she feels that that is not enough, her parents will still share the love with the two elder brothers, and the eldest brother has obviously received more love than her.
It's like a mother who eats a serving, and divides it into three portions each time. But these three parts are not equal parts. Every time, the eldest brother's share is the largest, and his own share and the second brother's share seem to be about the same.
At this time, Meng Aiwen began to feel that he had to win more favor from his parents, so that he would not be ignored. In fact, she really didn't dislike the second brother, when she was young, the second brother often took her to play, and the eldest brother always didn't like her sticking to him. In comparison, it was actually the second brother who treated her better.
may be nature, whose daughter is like whom, Meng Aiwen was originally Zhang Jingfang's daughter. Since she was a child, she seems to know better how to do what is more beneficial to herself, and who can give her more benefits. However, in choosing Liu Jianzhou as her husband, she may have forgotten her true nature and chose a man who could not bring benefits to her, and now she has made herself so miserable. Sure enough, when a woman encounters a problem about love, her IQ will become zero.
Meng Aiwen has known since he was a child that his parents attach importance to his eldest brother and are the best for his eldest brother. Although he knew that the eldest brother of Lu Dao would only pretend to be good to himself and the second brother in front of his parents, he usually ignored them at all, and always felt that they were very annoying. But she also has to do everything she can to follow her eldest brother, say good things about him, and make him like herself.
Just because Meng Aiwen always said good things about him sweetly in front of Meng Yuanshang, even if she felt a little clingy and annoying at first, she didn't feel so annoying after a long time. As a result, their parents also pay more attention to their eldest daughter when they pay attention to their eldest brother.
The more attention she receives from her parents and the more she is pampered, the more Meng Aiwen wants to compete for the love of her parents. She knew that she couldn't compete with her eldest brother, and that would offend her eldest brother, making her eldest brother dislike her, and maybe she wouldn't even have her current status at home.
So Meng Aiwen deliberately competed with Meng Yuanhang, she didn't understand that her parents didn't seem to attach much importance to the second brother, so she doubled down on the favor with the second brother, and she had to grab the things that belonged to the second brother, and it gradually became a habit.
Later, the Meng family had a little daughter, and Meng Aiwen was afraid that her sister would steal her attention, so she also fought with her sister. But fortunately, her younger sister seems to be as stupid as her second brother, and she won't sue her parents even if she robbed her of her things. On the contrary, Meng Aiwen sometimes made up that the second brother bullied him, his father would beat the second brother, and his mother would scold the second brother.
Sometimes it is said that my sister has broken her books, but my sister is the youngest child in the family, and most people love the youngest child more, but Meng Aiwen often speaks ill of her sister in front of her parents, so her parents don't like her as much as she did when her sister was born. On the contrary, because Meng Aiwen was very good in front of his parents, he was very good to his sister, and he was praised by his parents. After a long time, the pattern of the family has been formed, the eldest Meng Yuanshan and the eldest daughter Meng Aiwen are from the same country, Meng Yuanhang, a child whose father does not love his mother and does not love, will often protect the little sister who is bullied by the eldest sister, but the two of them have become a country of their own.
Later, Meng Aiwen felt as if the second brother knew the thoughts in his heart, and never fought with her, not to mention deliberately letting her, and he would not pay attention to some of her small actions.
The more Meng Yuanhang is like this, the more Meng Aiwen wants to grab what belongs to Meng Yuanhang. Later, when Lifang entered the door, she transferred this distorted mentality to Yu Lifang. In fact, these are just Meng Aiwen's own weak heart. (To be continued.) )