Chapter 259: Homely
Luo Dashan didn't speak.
Li Yuzhi gritted his teeth and said: "I'll give you two choices, either I'll go back and take care of Hongxiu Hongfang, or take Hongxiu Hongfang over, and you can give the thirty yuan if you want to." Hongxiu and Hongfang will not stay at home for a few years and will go to the countryside, so I hope that they can live a good life in these few years. ”
Luo Dashan was silent for a long time but couldn't give an answer, his mother is a son who loves her, if she takes the child over, she will not be able to spend the money on her grandson, for fear that others will gossip about her two younger brothers.
"I went to the cafeteria to eat. He wiped his face and ran away almost as if he had run away.
Behind him, Li Yuzhi's face was full of disappointment and despair, and it was like this again......
She knew that her husband had always been mindful of not having a son, so why didn't she mind? But her daughter was also the flesh that fell from her body, so how could she not be in pain?
The two little uncles had no interest, but the family got a son, which brought the old lady's heart together.
In the past, because she didn't have a son, she was dissatisfied with her mother-in-law using her own money to support her two nephews, and she didn't dare to say it.
After all, it was her mother's family, and they all persuaded her to endure it until she gave birth to a son.
But she endured and endured for almost 20 years, but her son was not born, and her three daughters suffered a lot.
Especially the eldest daughter Hongying, that child is so good, she obviously had the opportunity to be recommended to go to the Workers' and Peasants' and Soldiers' University, but because her mother-in-law opened her mouth, she had to give up her place to the Red Army and went to the countryside to join the queue.
Even so, the old lady didn't feel guilty at all, and she didn't treat her granddaughter better after the fight, and I heard Hongfang say that she now stuffs fifteen yuan into the Red Army every month.
I know where the fifteen dollars came from.
How can she not hate in her heart, how can she not resent?
It's just that no matter how much she resents and hates her, she doesn't dare to show it, who let her not have a son?
However, the bowl of porridge she saw on Huanxi's side today pierced her heart deeply.
Girls weren't as worthless as she thought they were.
People are just nieces, they are willing to cook meat porridge for her to eat, she is a daughter here, why should she live that kind of aggrieved life?
They are also the daughters of the battalion commander.
Based on all of the above, there is today's outbreak, but it's a pity...... Luo Dashan may not be indifferent, but the result is the same.
At noon, Wang Daniu and Ma Jufang came over to send vegetable seeds to Huanxi, and seeing that the sun was not too big, the two proposed to help Huanxi plant all the vegetables.
Wang Daniu came over this time and brought her two sons over, Gao Guocai and Gao Dongliang knew that the peanut crisp they had eaten before was made with joy, and they saw that she was beautiful and amiable, not to mention how much she liked it, and she was very affectionate with an aunt.
"The talents and pillars of the country are really sensible. Seeing the two children digging small pits with a small hoe, he was happy and heartfelt.
Wang Daniu said happily: "The children in the countryside are solid, and they are used to doing work. ”
Huanxi was surprised when she heard this, "Didn't they grow up next to the two of you?"
"How can it?" Wang Dayu shook her head and said: "My family has six brothers and three sisters, he is the eldest, and his salary in the early years has to be sent back to his younger siblings to go to school and get married." No matter how much the salary is, I don't dare to take the child over, then I can't afford to raise it. Just two years ago, the youngest brother also got married, and we were relieved. Now the eldest is married and takes his daughter-in-law to the city as a worker, and because he is a dual-income worker, he can get a house at the end of the year. I thought that my mother-in-law was old and had other nephews and nieces to bring, so I brought the two younger ones over. ”
Huanxi's eyes widened, "Then sister-in-law Wang, how many children do you have?"
"Five sons. Wang Daniu smiled.
Huanxi couldn't help but open her mouth wide, "It's amazing!" She really felt amazing, and in later life, several of her friends who gave birth to babies mentioned to her that giving birth to a child was really not a momentary pleasure.
According to their words, when the child is in the belly, they look forward to unloading it early, and when it is actually unloaded, they can't wait to stuff it back into their stomachs. When I was young, I had to get up several times a day to feed, and during the day, I was hungry and cried, urinated, cried, and cried, and there was no rest for feeding and changing diapers and holding the child. When I was older, the child was finally weaned and began to return to work, but unfortunately the past is gone. I used to go clubbing and going to a party after work, but now I have a thought, go back to hug the baby, even when I work, I can't be as distracted as before, and the original state of a strong woman is gone. I thought that the child would be able to go all out to develop his career after entering school, but this turned out to be just the beginning, the parent-child meeting is still a trivial matter, the most worrying thing is that the child is not suitable for group life and is sick, and the child is distressed and can not let the child not go to school.
To sum up, all mothers have been tortured into neuropathy.
None of her friends are willing to have a second child.
- Of course, it could also be because she doesn't have a stay-at-home mom relationship among her friends.
In short, in Huanxi's view, being a mother of five children is really amazing, and she doesn't.
"What's so powerful about this?" Seeing that Huanxi sincerely thought so, Wang Daniu couldn't help but laugh and said: "What is five, my mother-in-law gave birth to nine, and there are more than twenty births in the village." ”
Now, not to mention joy, even Ma Jufang's eyes widened.
Wang Daniu suddenly smiled, "But not everyone was raised." I was lucky enough to meet a good mother-in-law and raise all my children. ”
Ma Jufang on the side also said: "Your mother-in-law is really good, I don't remember what year it is, you had a serious illness at that time, and your mother-in-law rushed over with a bunch of grandchildren and took care of you until you recovered." ”
Hearing this, Wang Daniu also smiled, "Yes, I didn't say it, my mother-in-law is stronger than my mother." In our village, it is not uncommon for a family like ours to live on the salary of one person. But those parents-in-law are partial to the children around them, but my mother-in-law is the most partial to my family, saying that we have done the most for the family, and she should be partial to us. And my mother-in-law is also reasonable, and she didn't think that we would always have a big family. As soon as the few uncles got married, they were separated and separated, and although the mother-in-law gave them children, they never did the superfluous ones. Now my mother-in-law is living in the countryside with her second and third sons. I discussed with my family that when the two boys graduated from junior high school, they would find them a job in the city, and then take my mother-in-law to live with them. ”
Ma Jufang said with some envy when she heard this: "Then you are really good, although my mother-in-law does not live with us, she has repeatedly asked us to help other uncles." Last year, the daughter of the uncle's family talked to the object, the other party's family did not have a house, she actually wanted the little couple to live in our house, do you say there is such a reason?"